Me and my new lover are about to have anal sex for the first time. He is rather large 7 inches with a 6 inch girth. I have been practicing with dildos and a butt plug with a 6 inch girth and have become comfortable using it. My question is should I use the buttplug before the actual act in order to be "looser" I know to use lots of lube and he has said he will go slow. I just want to please him and I want it just as much as he does. And yes we are both men.
I presume so as of what I have heard so far in life. Lol