ok so iv been messing around and trying some objects that wernt really used for that and i dont own lube so i used spit idk if i got enough on or if thats even ok but my butt really hurts now am i going to be ok please reply quick
Ive tried this and man it was the best :] you first gotta get all cleaned up before you do this. You get a dildo(small one) and lub it up. While masturbating you pleasure yourself with the dildo. When your ready to finish, slightly insert the dildo and keep it there(not moving it) and just masturbate. Its more like a prostate orgasm only more POWERFUL :]
i've tried it once but it hurt. If you dont own lub then use lotion or baby oil. Something you DONT want to do is go from small to big bcuz theres a great chanc e that you can rip your anus opening. Start from your fringer tip and see you it feels. Then you could move to bigger and bigger.
First, one should avoid using any lubrication that is not water soluable. That includes any oils, vaseline, petroleum jelly, etc. Anything that goes into your anus and goes past the rectum into the large bowel is absorbed by the lining. Oils whether natural or petroleum based are excellent mediums for bacteria and are tissue irritants. KY jelly and AstroGlide are available at Walmart, Target, Walgreens, or any pharmacy store. Avoid any lubes that "deaden" tissue. Your feeling pain is a sign that you need to stop and back off your anal activity. If you cover up the discomfort you risk causing a fissure which is a tear in the anal membrane. Also avoid "flavored" lubes as they may cause an allergic reaction.
A technique you may try is to use a Fleet enema about two hours prior to anal sex. That should clean out the large bowel so that when you bear down to begin and during anal sex, any feces is less likely to appear. As you and your gf get used to anal sex that sensation will not feel so threatening. Patience, lubrication, cleanliness, and more lube!
Yes, it is normal for your body to feel that it needs or wants to evaculate itself if you insert anything in the anus.
The pressure on the sphincter or muscle ring triggers that same sensation that tells you to head to the toilet.
Given time and practice, you can learn to over come this. Some people learn to enjoy the sensation.
Good luck.
If there is any bright red blood then get to your doctor. You may have ruptured a hemoroid located in and around your anus. If there is no blood purchase "Preperation H" ointment with hydrocortisone. Use as directed. While you are purchasing the prep h, you might buy some KY jelly or AstroGlide for your next anal experience. In addition if you use your fingers to insert into your anus make sure you clip your fingernails. Your best bet, however is to visit your local sex shop and purchase a dildo/vibrator. These are much easier for anal masturbation.
By the way, ANY blood that flows is going to be bright red....that's what blood does. In the presence of oxygen, it turns bright read. Only when it's still in the vein is the blood dark red.
Also, blood that goes through the digrestive process is black and tarry if the bleeding occurs in the intestine.
If it looks like coffee grounds, it is from the stomach.
But virtually ANY blood from insertion of anything into the anus is going to be bright red. If it's a trace amount, it may be a small nick or cut. but any continued flow...large amounts, etc, requires medical attention.
hi,i used dazzen of different thigs for more pleasure.but now my anal is enlarge.i will apply some cream to reset its shape
Hi I used vasoline and now I worried I will get an infection. Would Showering and using shower gel to go in my but and kinda wash it out work? I didn't go far but what do I have to do to wash it out?!
Hello everybody. I wanted to try anal masturbation for the first time. i got myself a small object and lube. i kind of rushed the object into my anus i guess. i didnt do any massage or something before it. i tried 2 or 3 mins and it was in. i didnt like it so i took it out. but i feel like i stretched my anus. im afraid of being damaged my muscles there or something. and when i wipe so many lube comes out. im afraid. please help! thanks in advance
yh i get that feeling aswell:/
Just wondering,. What are some good things to anally masterbate with? Like.. I'm not gay, but I want to ride like a woman would with normal sex.. Like I said.. I'm just curious, and want to know what it's like.. But I don't want to have to hold whatever's up my asd down.. But I don't want to order anything online, or go to a shop..
I've figured it out! Put a grocery bag on a plunger handle, lube it up, lean against your toilet or something that high, put your toes in between the part of the sack you would hold with you hands, and start goin up and down.. You have to lean, but it works..
I have used Vaseline quiet regularly over the years and only experienced pleasure. I never had infections or any of the other.
I must say that I am an advanced student of the ass. I also really like wáter-based. They of course are much easier to clean.
But there are the days in which Vaseline is the only game.