I think the best first time anal would be for the receiver to be on top. That way they can control how much goes in, how fast, and whether or not to continue.
Don't let them talk you into allowing them control until you are completely comfortable with it, because it will hurt like hell if you aren't.
Don't let them talk you into allowing them control until you are completely comfortable with it, because it will hurt like hell if you aren't.
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yes, there are types of lube that will desensitize the anus to help with the relaxation and penetration. tiger balm is one. many sex websites sell these. even some mainstream drugstores sell them online. good luck
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there is a product that most internet sex stores carry called "Anal-Ese Desensitizing Cream" It really works well but still dont rush it. Just because it dont hurt as much dont mean there is not a lot of damage being done. go slow and work your way in or his way in and "Anal-Ese Desensitizing Cream" will be a great friend.
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Is there only a certain point you can go up when your doing anal, because I've seen some videos online of people putting the entire double ended dildo up their ass which has to be at least 16 inches long and I can't even get it up passed 6 inches. What am I doing wrong?
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yes you can get a desensitising spray like EROS Explorer. I get it online, it reduces the pain.
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to have it without pain, just like all the others are saying, u need to be relaxed and u need lube, and he needs to slide in slowly not forcefully or quickly, it might be exciting to him but....painful for the other person.
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I'm not really saying that it's painful, I actually love it, but I can never get it pass six or seven inches, it almost feels like there is a wall block from going any further, lol.
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That would be the upper end of your rectum where your large intestine begins (or ends if thinking top down).
With practice and relaxation you can go beyond the rectum into the large intestine... I've taken an 18" x 2.5" double-dildo about 10" in.
With practice and relaxation you can go beyond the rectum into the large intestine... I've taken an 18" x 2.5" double-dildo about 10" in.
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Listen, it hurts and the weird thing is that i want to do it, I had an episode that as soon as it was in ( and it takes a while) i was fine... then after boom my head was spining and I passed out. It must of been the worst thing ever for him. Listen I'm soooooo in love with my man but I just don't want to hurt anymore what do I do?
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I agree with everything they have said but there is one more thing that will help a lot. although this sound gross it helps bigtime. #1 make sure you dont have to pooh, #2 as he penatrates push like you are pooping (thus the reason to make sure u dont have to go) this as hard to believ as it sounds relaxes your anus and will amke penatration much more fun as they have all said under no circumstance should he ram it in.
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relax, get into a position where your anus is open, lube both inside your rectum and his penis, proceed slowly, practice, practice, practice.
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To the person that said your anus is for exit only dont knock it till u try it.. By the way do u allow your girlfriend/wife to give u a bj now where is it said a womens mouth is suppose to be around your penis.. Dude, it is a hole and from my experience if there is a hole a guy is going to try to fill it..lol.. Try new things and if u dont like it after trying it then make your comment..
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hi am 19 years old and I'm very curious about anal sex, my boyfriend had a girlfriend in which they used to have anal sex and he told he really enjoy it a lot, now that makes me feel very jealous because we try it couple time before but it doesn't really work for me it hurts so bad but I want to pleased him with this so he wont think about his ex anything especial I should do to get used to anal sex???
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ok, a couple of things can help you with this, first is to RELAX, go with the flow and take it real nice and slow (lol), second make sure you have a lot of lube, third before he inserts his penis try fingers, and slowly progress using his fingers will slowly stretch you and make you feel more at ease i suggest 1 finger at first (middle preffered), then move onto two fingers you can do this when you have sex, kinda like practice, then finally when YOU'RE ready insert the penis SLOWLY, like i said go with the flow
good luck
good luck
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