Anal Sex Without the Pain

I am 21 and my boyfriend wants to try anal also. All of my past experiences have been awful. I tried it three times and it hurt. We were going to do it last time we were together and i relaxed myself and felt him penetrating but he wanted to stop because he thought I wasn't ready. I think if you really want to do it, it has to be with someone you trust and love. You have to be extremely turned on, and RELAX! It will work out eventually, unless he is just too big!

i really want to try anal sex slowly not just hit with out lube! that would hurt! feel sorry for you!!!

ya its possible to have anal sex without pain but for that u need to be prepair before having anal sex....... try to use condom and lubricants before having anal sex because its not 100% safe. dont penetrate quickly use lubricant and finger to make ur anus soft and larger than its size which helps during anal sex

Yes,its possible to have no pain .. Get into the boy and put this thing slowly into to you..At first seconds you will have a little bit difficulties but after it will be good to you ..thats it

first lubricate the ass whole with oil or spite then do it. It is very sexy dear. do it

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Arse sex is amazing with the right person! Just get ur fanny nice & wet first then a bit of juice round ur arse should help lube u up for a good session :D

When i first started having anal sex with my boyfriend i felt a lot of pain, but as you keep doing it over and over again there is no more pain. :)

 

 

I must be either the luckiest guy in the world, or I'm just a great teacher. Growing up, there was a much younger lady who lived across the street who seemed to sit on the front steps staring across at my house, just staring. She always seemed to wear nondescript clothing  --  jeans and flannel shirts, so that it was hard to tell whether she even had a shape. One day she and a girl friend were in the back yard playing with the dogs and she was wearing mid thigh shorts and a tank top, and I realized she had really GREAT legs. Upon coming of age she became forward to me and we began making out. She visited me at my apartment and we made a pact we would not become thoroughly intimate before she made that decision independently, alone and away from me, and gave me a sign, which was to be that she would come to me with 'nothing underneath.' We had many encounters prior to that which included much manual and oral stimulation, and she began to practice deep throat. She obviously seemed to love me at this time, and this is still apparent decades later. When the time came for the real deal, we used the modified missionary position with her knees up, until I realized with the largeness and looseness of her vagina I was not about to come. So I had her put her legs down in the standard missionary position and this is when I realized what a prominent Mons Pubis she has, and I loved it, and her,  even more and soon came to a climax. The next day, curious as to her large vagina, I began inserting a finger, a second and a third. Not being able to get the fourth, or the whole hand into her, I turned toward her backside to get another advantage point, and soon had a hand dripping with fluid. I turned my hand so that my thumb was over her anus and worked it in. Not getting a whole lot of reaction, I turned a little bit more toward her backside and began working toward inserting my penis, as she was now face down on the bed and writhing around. Getting in with the head of my penis, just the first inch, and with not much, if any, reaction, I lubricated the shaft a bit more with my moist fingers and began to go, and then began to go deep. She raised her hips to me, and by this time we had better angle tp go deep. With the deepness she began to move toward me and the both of us toward each other rhythmically until she had a climax, probably due to the stimulation of her 'G' spot through the rear side. I had a climax too, as soon as I realized how much she was enjoying it. It's been ever thus for years since, we both enjoy it both ways, about one out of two times we have anal! It was never painful, though she says she bled a bit the first time vaginally. Neither vaginal nor anal sex needs to be painful, uncomfortable, nor nasty! Sex, with compromising and agreeing partners is beautiful, and you must realize that too if you want to try this. Talk.

very easy
get a few butt plugs. wear a small one, then a larger one, while having vaginal sex. by then you will be loose enough for anal and it will be enjoyable.

I find that if i lick my partners hole and finger it and use a small vibrator and keep licking the area until its totally relaxed, it becomes much easier for the both of us to enjoy it.

yes painless anal sex is possible so long as you are turned on, i find having a few drinks can help and obviously you have to be turned on otherwise you will not be able to do it, my boyfriend always makes sure ive come and am really turned on before trying and always takes it slow and enters bit by bit on my command, it can be really satisfying and very intimate so long as you are with the right partner! good luck and have fun!!

me and my gf wanted to try this and she loved it... for me it was amazing.  then she asked if i would try.  i was kinda shocked she would ask, but after a few days of her asking, i gave in.  she just an 8 inch strap on and went slow ... lots of lube.  little pain at first, but holy **** it was amazing.  I have a new respect for all women after that!

I also had reservations because I've tried it in the past and it hurt. However, the other posters were correct, go slow, but I would even suggest that you ask him not to push at all at first. Put a lot of lub. Lay side by side facing away from him. Put his penis there and instead of him pushing, put it there and slowly sit on it yourself, only put the tip in. Then have him reach between your legs and rub your clit. While he's doing this then you can slowly push yourself onto his penis at your pace. Once he is all the way in, then it will be no problem with him pushing. Hope this helps.

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