i was trying it with my bf and it hurt every time and lube he had burned when he would get in. so he went online and fond alot of trainer kits on e-bay and found a $2.00 bottle of lube at wall mart. plain old natural no warming sensations or any of those fancy things. and now its lots of fun
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Poppers is the best for anal sex without pain!!Amyl Nitrate. Refers to a small, usually brown bottle of solvents or the solvents themselves, which are sniffed. Amyl Nitrate boosts blood pressure, relaxing the anus and muscle making anal sex more comoftable. Also known as snappers.Just don't inhale it deeply through the nose!!!!!!!!!!!!!!And for the best expirience put it on a table in small room to evaporate not all because its evaporate fast like alcohol but like 2-3 minutes then have sex ,any!!!And for the male sex last longer!!!It's not only for anal sex!!Couples use it all the time!!!And yea the "Rush" is the best!!Peace
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http://www.scribd.com/doc/86887/10-Rules-of-Anal-Sex-by-Jack-Morin
cool article on this topic!
cool article on this topic!
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anonymous wrote:
to make absolutely sure your bowels are empty, i would suggest an enema. there are disposable kits sold in most pharmacy's, such as CVS or Wallgreens, just follow the instructions. if you choose this route, wait at least an hour to be sure the entire enema has been expelled from your body, and youre good to go!
i have an*l sex a lot and the key points to having an*l sex without pain are:
1 go to the toilet and empty your bowels, try to sqeeze as much out as you can
2 put a lot of lube on your anus, water based is the best
3 relax and be calm
4 use a small dildo or finger with trimmed nails and slowly insert it up your anus while pushing as if you were going to the toilet
5 use a larger dildo or more figers and do the same
6 once you have done that a few times you can then insert a penis up your anus but remeber to go slowly and push
remember these tips and you should have great an*l sex
to make absolutely sure your bowels are empty, i would suggest an enema. there are disposable kits sold in most pharmacy's, such as CVS or Wallgreens, just follow the instructions. if you choose this route, wait at least an hour to be sure the entire enema has been expelled from your body, and youre good to go!
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anonymous wrote:
This person is obviously uneducated.
Your anus is not meant for sex, its built for exit only. Try a vagina it works much better.
This person is obviously uneducated.
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Is it true that when having anal sex on a regular basis or at least more than just once in a blue moon, you run the risk of losing the normal control of your muscles, making it harder to...well, control when you have to go, etc.? I read something a long time ago that said there's a risk of the muscles not being able to fully function anymore in terms of closure and holding it tight when you might need to.
I am one of those people experimenting with finding a way that's not painful. I want to be able to enjoy it and I want my partner to be able to get that sensation from me, but we're just not quite there yet. That's why I remembered reading that...made me wonder how much experimenting is safe without ending up with a long term problem.
I am one of those people experimenting with finding a way that's not painful. I want to be able to enjoy it and I want my partner to be able to get that sensation from me, but we're just not quite there yet. That's why I remembered reading that...made me wonder how much experimenting is safe without ending up with a long term problem.
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hi i have been in the same boat as you once.. the key word in all this is to RELAX! RELAX RELAX RELAX!!! as much as possible.. its going to hurt the first couple of times you do that.. it might even hurt everytime... yet your man should know somethings to try and ease the pain as well as your mind.. make sure its really wet lube lube... kisses from the bk help.. when my man starts in and he kisses my lower back so soft and is so gently he slides right on in... not sure if you tried any positions to do anal but doggystyle and spooning works really good... tell him to touch u in the front while hes getting it from the back that to can make it feel soo better.. i know the first couple of times it hurt sooo bad but the more we did it the better it was and i didnt want him to stop... so i hope i helped .. ")
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i agree with most of what it written here i do anal constantly and i had to add just one thing to all that been said.
at the start you will feel pain no matter if he goes slow or farst, ofc going slow, helps things is once you get your ass more "use" to anal sex getting penetrated and all you will feel lesser pain, so the idea of trainning your ass its a must in order to feel pleasure out of it.
as it was already said by many ppl tell your boyfriend that you ass need care not to be rammed ( once you get losen you love to be rammed) but not to start like that, it will hurt you as you felt on your own.
at the start you will feel pain no matter if he goes slow or farst, ofc going slow, helps things is once you get your ass more "use" to anal sex getting penetrated and all you will feel lesser pain, so the idea of trainning your ass its a must in order to feel pleasure out of it.
as it was already said by many ppl tell your boyfriend that you ass need care not to be rammed ( once you get losen you love to be rammed) but not to start like that, it will hurt you as you felt on your own.
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Definetley relaxing is the best thing to do!! And your boyfriend really needs to be gentle!! My boyfriend didn't even use lube the first time we had anal but he was very gentle and made me very relaxed and it didn't hurt that bad
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There is, it is called "Analeze." I strongly recommend that you not use it on your anus during anal sex. The main reason is pain and discomfort are your best signs that you or your partner has crossed a line and you need to stop. The analeze ointment is an anesthetic that deadens the pain and discomfort. With this loss of feeling comes a false sense of security and your anus and rectum could be inadvertently injured. Use more lubricant, not analeze.
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Hi, The best thing to do is give your boyfriend a blow job for about 10-20min then try you shouldn't feel and pain!
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What you should do is have your bf cut his fingernails, and while he is fingering your vagina, withdraw his fingers, lubricate them with KY Jelly and slowly insert them into your anus one at a time. The anal sex is about you and your pleasure, not your bf and his pleasure. Once his finger(s) go into your anus, they are never to go in your vagina without washing them thoroughly with an antibacteria soap like Dial. Otherwise you will get among other things, a vaginal infection.
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