born without labia minora

i have the same problem and ive been reserching and this is what i know. the reasin why our vaginas seem "fatter" or swollen" is because our mons pubis. mins pubis is the fat on our pubic bone. and then at purberty when it reacts to estrogen it moves down and turna into labia major ect. so i take it ours did not. the only thing you can get done is lypo i guess. its about 3000 . my boyfriend.. lovess it.. im skinny everywheres but there and he says he likes it way better than "normal ones" i for one. am glad i dont have big droopy "lips" i hate the little buldge i have. but i still wear tight pants. you just learn to live with it. im 18 and just realized that theres something "wrong" with my vag, i always noticed it was bigger than others in bikins. but i didnt really seem to care. just be yourself.

Be proud of your bulge. When I was a teen we called that a "bar of soap". We looked for girls with a nice big bar of soap.

Eww why would you ladies want something that looks like roast beef curtains in your vagina!i have none and i feel BLESSED i think they are disgusting

I'm 20 years old and do not have labia minora. The rest of my vulva is "average-looking," I guess. I haven't had any problems so far, but I'm wondering if anything wrong could occur do to the lack of labia minora?

This is rude. Everyone is different.

Remember, friends- The vagina is the canal on the inside. The vulva is the external female genitalia.

The labia minora surround and protect the clitoris and the openings of the vagina and urethra. Indeed they appear as an extension to the clitoral hood. Yours may be very small rather than completely non-existent. Has a doctor commented on them? Have you been told you don't have then at all?

When unstimulated they close together, protecting their inner mucous membrane and closing off the vaginal entrance.

They may provide exciting extra stimulation.

Also, they secrete antibacterial substances as a defence against infection.

If there were a risk that "anything wrong could occur do to the lack of labia minora", I would think that a doctor would have commented on it when examining you.

I hope this helps as a start.

Hi I have the same problem. I'm really depressed. Please let me know if you got your question answered. Please help me as I feel lost and depressed. My confidence has been killed too and I look like a freak down there! What did I do to myself.

Dear Ana

The initial question was posted over a year ago.

Why do you think you "look like a freak"? Has anyone adversely commented on it? With what are you comparing yourself? What aspect is freakish to you?

Often, when standing, the labia minora are hidden, and only the cleft is seen, In those cases it would only be when the labia majora are pulled back that the labia minora (or lack thereof) would be seen. Many women have small labia minora. Indeed everyone is different, so it need not be a problem.

You state your confidence has been killed. Is that all the time, or when exposed in communal showers for instance, or with boyfriends?

"What did I do to myself?" I don't know what you may have done without you saying more, but If you were born without labia minora, then you have done nothing. However, if you have no labia minora, do you also lack a clitoral hood?

Obviously I can't see what you look like, but has a medical professional commented on your appearance?

No-one one with any feelings for you should be adversely commenting on the beauty of your genitalia. I certainly would not.

Hope this helps as a start.

Don't even worry about it. Most guys I've known and from polls I've seen online prefer how a p***y looks without labia minora. It's commonly called an "innie p***y" although that also includes just really small labia minora. You definitely don't look like a freak. Guys are going to think it looks really hot, and probably also that you're super tight and don't have sex much because for some bizarre reason large labia minora has been given that weird connotation when labia size and vaginal tightness/use have nothing in common whatsoever. I don't have a labia minora myself, or a clitoris/hood either for that matter and neither does my mom. I have all the nerve endings for those parts, it's just that they're like fused down in the crease between my mons... lol, it kinda looks like two little butt cheeks with a deep slick pink crease between them. I think it looks way better personally. It's actually something to be proud of. If you guys think this is weird though, try having those little glands that make your vagina get wet when you get aroused also in your butt... don't even freakin' need lube for anal sex. Guys assume I lubed it up too, unless I tell them. I swear, that's gotten me in way more trouble than my vulva ever as.

I am like this too!!

I'm 18 and I also don't have minor labia. I never thought any different until I took anatomy. I wonder how rare this is among women. I find the absence of minor labia to be more attractive so I'm not complaining.

As a girl I think a girls valve +the labia is a supper good lookin and 98% of boy or men will NOT give us girls a falling grade on our valve and labia must boys and men want that P***Y .. IF you girls have your Valve and Labia CUT ON and the DR'S CUT off to much it will NOT come back and then you will have to live with that all of your lives so just be happy with what you have .. IF a boy or man dislikes your P***Y then DUMP HEM .. that is your P***Y NOT his LOVE your P***Y it is all you have be happy live long .and know this there are more than just ONE BOY or MAN out there ..I will close know by saying GOOD LUCK to all you GIRLS .with understanding love from Miss SAM 31539

I don't like inner p***y lips. They are gross.

As a man I have to say, if you are one of the few, lucky women who have large labia then relish in your uniqueness and just how special you really are. Why would you want to change anything and be just like all of the “other” women out there? If you changed yourself then all you would be is one of millions and millions that are perfectly identical and completely boring. Right now you have something special that the other women never can and never will have. If your lover, boyfriend or husband says stupid things about your vagina then just remind him of any physical characteristic he has that is different (we all have them or think we have them) and tell him that you love him completely in spite of him not being perfect. Ask that he show you the same love and respect. If he is too dense to get your point then the next time he wants to get frisky tell him that you would love to give him the best sexual experience of his entire life but you are just not sure if a woman with a body like yours could properly love a man like him – based on his comments. Just watch his attitude change in a heartbeat. Only a man with very low self-esteem will ever criticize the body of a woman he is dating or has married. Who does he think he is? Adonis? Personally, I adore and cherish women with large labia. Do not change ladies.