O.k. so my boyfriend just got into a serious quad crash and was in the hospital for 2 weeks. He almost broke his back and did damage to more than one abdominal organ. he got uot of the hospitalb 2 weeks ago. He asks and hints that he wants to have sex but he can't even stand up for more than 10 min. Everyone around him sees that he's in pain. His solution is vicodin which isn't healthy. I want to have sex with him but I don't want to hurt him. How do I tell him no without making it seem like I dont love him. I dont want to hurt his feelings. If I just say no he's gonna ask why. Really need help guys. ! ! !
ok, this is hard, i am sure, but just tell him the truth.
tell him that you love him deeply, and that you really want to have sex with him, but point out his health. tell him that you are worried, what you think. it's the best. and don't cave, because his injury sounds really serious and you don't want it to get worse.
you should also ask yourself if he already wanted sex before the accident. 'cuz if not, then maybe his medication could have something to do with it. you never know with all the chemicals inside it.
good luck and tell your boyfriend to get bettter!
tell him that you love him deeply, and that you really want to have sex with him, but point out his health. tell him that you are worried, what you think. it's the best. and don't cave, because his injury sounds really serious and you don't want it to get worse.
you should also ask yourself if he already wanted sex before the accident. 'cuz if not, then maybe his medication could have something to do with it. you never know with all the chemicals inside it.
good luck and tell your boyfriend to get bettter!
Like you can't have gentle sex come on! Just tell him you have sex with him only if your on top that way you can do all the work and be gentle with him to not hurt him. ;-)