You have to remember something here and it is hard for you to hear mainly BECAUSE you are a teenager! BUT you are living with your sister in your sister's house and she is being like your mom and you HAVE to be respectful of her and listen to her! And if you do something that is against her rules or give her lip! Dam rights she has the right to be pissed off at you! You can't expect any different! It is your decision to be in this situation, your decision to keep the babies, and now it has to be YOU who grows up REALLY quickly! You aren't a teenager anymore you are going to be a mom! That is what YOU have decided! So no more acting like one! Stand up, own it and don't be a pain in her ass! As this will be a LOT for her to be dealing with right now! And she will be worried too about what is going to happen in the future! She and her husband might be wealthy, but that doesn't take away the fact that they know that if you stay there they will have 3!!! more children to deal with! That's a LOT! So watch your P's and Q's with her! Have you talked to a counsellor yet?
the only reason she mad at me is bc i let my grades drop i get a 3.0 this nine weeks and last nine weeks it get a 4.9 and i know not yo get her lip sooo and no i didnt
i feel like if i talk to a counsellor that it will just upset me more
Why is that?!
bc everything upsets me and i dont want to hear that i messed my life up bc i know i have and now i cant even do the things i want to
they wont say that honey! they know you are going there for help!
im sorry to burge in on this conversation but i need a little help as well. i had my period last tuesday and i ended on thursday. i have a normal full week period. we did use protection. the date of the last intecorse was jan 2nd and that was the day that i just ended my period. a few days after i started to get cramps and bad back pain. the cramps and back pain are still there. i've been feeling really tired lately, my breast are tender here and there (its not constant) and there are days where my nipples are tingly. i dont know what it could be. HELP PLEASE!
Hi Secret! So let me get this straight OK?
1. You had your last period from January 26 - 27th
2. Your LAST period before that ended on January 2nd where you had sex but it was protected?
3. You have been having these symptoms for how long?
4. So you used a condom are you sure there was no accidents!?
1. You had your last period from January 26 - 27th
2. Your LAST period before that ended on January 2nd where you had sex but it was protected?
3. You have been having these symptoms for how long?
4. So you used a condom are you sure there was no accidents!?
-correct my last period started on the 26th and ended on the 28th. it started out heavy on the first day (tuesday) on wednesday it was little to nothing and on thursday it was completely gone.
-the period before that ended on the 2nd & yes it was protected sex.
-i started having the symptoms on the 6th starting with just cramps & frequent urniation then leading to the back pain then to my breast being tender. maybe its just all in my head & i know its not possible to have movement but my stomach has been twitching a lot lately..
-i talked to the guy and he said he didnt go at all and he doesnt think the condom ripped.
i dont know know what else it could be.
i took a test today and it came up negative.
-the period before that ended on the 2nd & yes it was protected sex.
-i started having the symptoms on the 6th starting with just cramps & frequent urniation then leading to the back pain then to my breast being tender. maybe its just all in my head & i know its not possible to have movement but my stomach has been twitching a lot lately..
-i talked to the guy and he said he didnt go at all and he doesnt think the condom ripped.
i dont know know what else it could be.
i took a test today and it came up negative.
Got it! You are NOT pregnant! I would suspect that it could be a couple of things! A UTI - which would show up as frequent urination, cramps! Due to your period being SO short and weird, that it was a wonky period and you will be having another one shortly! You have PERHAPS a cyst growing on your ovaries - which causes pain, and to make your hormones act up! Or an "Hysterical Pregnancy" Which means that you are SO worried about this, that your brain believes that you ARE pregnant and is giving you the symtpoms of pregnancy!
I am leaning more towards the UTI! - When women have infections, the first thing to start hurting are our breasts! So before we leap forward to anything else, go and get a Urine Culture Test! And lets see what that shows? Also something else just popped in to my head! HAve you EVER had unprotected sex EVER!!!
I am leaning more towards the UTI! - When women have infections, the first thing to start hurting are our breasts! So before we leap forward to anything else, go and get a Urine Culture Test! And lets see what that shows? Also something else just popped in to my head! HAve you EVER had unprotected sex EVER!!!
i have never, EVER had unprotected sex.
--btw i am very constipated, and i occasionally get heartburn after i eat. i get hot flashes every not and then as well.
--btw i am very constipated, and i occasionally get heartburn after i eat. i get hot flashes every not and then as well.
AND my breast hurting was one of the last symptoms that i had.
That definitely sounds like an infection! When you say hotflashes you are not in your 30's right?
Also know that our breasts hurt when an infection really gets a hold! It is the hot cold thing, you know when you have waves of sweating and feeling REALLY hot, then all of a sudden your freezing - thus the body fightling non stop! I HATE the cold part as this HURTS! You could also have a bladder infeciton which is more of a b****r of an infection! Either way they both can be detected via a urine culture! IF the doctors finds an infection and puts you on antbiotics, then start taking Acidopholus and eat probiotic yogurt! I always say that a bottle of Acidopholus should be given to every women when she takes antibiotics!!! 8-| XD Yeast infections usually go hand in hand with anitbiotics!
Also know that our breasts hurt when an infection really gets a hold! It is the hot cold thing, you know when you have waves of sweating and feeling REALLY hot, then all of a sudden your freezing - thus the body fightling non stop! I HATE the cold part as this HURTS! You could also have a bladder infeciton which is more of a b****r of an infection! Either way they both can be detected via a urine culture! IF the doctors finds an infection and puts you on antbiotics, then start taking Acidopholus and eat probiotic yogurt! I always say that a bottle of Acidopholus should be given to every women when she takes antibiotics!!! 8-| XD Yeast infections usually go hand in hand with anitbiotics!
nothing can upset me now i know everythings gooding to be ok
Glad to hear that honey, but what has made everything better?