I lost my virginity to a guy to a guy at age 30. I really thought things between us would be different because we knew each other while growing up. He started off as the perfect gentleman. He would come over to see me just to give me a kiss. Well after two weeks of this I finally gave in. He didn't even stay with me the night that we had sex. We had sex and we talked about an hour and he left. Once he got what he wanted things went down hill from there. We went from talking everyday to twice a week to maybe one. Well now after 10 months of waiting he and I no longer communicate. I got to the point that I got fed up with being just a jump off.
dont take that decision..r u foolish? if u mistake than face this problem...its not way of die..life is beautiful...i know what u feel but first thing u realise your mistake and u ashemed of ownself..and every man r not same but majorly person r bad..and trust me god never forgot him..he never happy..i know i tell u that u dont trust on men..but which u think that u kill your self than it is wrong..u r not looser..u r strong..ok best of luck for your future..
They say marriages are based on trust. It doesn't even make sense. Trust is something you have to earn, it isn't given for free.
My girlfriend has undergone what you have been through. I am a virgin, and she is not. This happened 8 years ago for her, she is 23. She thought she loved him, and agreed to have sex with him thinking that he would stay. She got nothing back but the knowledge that he was sleeping with two other girls. She did not enjoy the experience, and she did not bleed. I want you to know that she made it through, and has not committed this activity ever since. This information hurts me, even if it was done 8 years ago, but I love her and am saving myself for her in hopes that we get married one day. Just know that she made it, and I hope you can also. Look for a man who wants to put a ring on your finger before intercourse, and you should be able to find happiness in these terms. I hope for you the best.
I understand you babe, I just broke up with a jerk that took my virginity and we only dated for like 8 months. At first, I don't know how to overcome it but after some thinking, I know that i should overcome it quickly. The worst thing is he broke up with me through texts messages saying that he is busy with his work and need space between us. Just to only find out that his twitter profile photo was with another b***h who claimed to be his sister. His twitter status 'I'll wait for you no matter its years or months' Its obvious that the person is not me. I text him after that asking for a meetup to talk things face to face but he kept avoiding it. So, everyone told me to move on in life and don't repeat this mistake again. I met him through internet but today i just felt that im being so stupid to trust a guy and loved him so much completely. I've regretted every single thing i have done. And trying to heal my wounds day by day.