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He took my virginity and left me

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Kate Smith answered this Virginity, Hymen Rupture, And Bleeding: Does Blood Determine Whether You Are A Virgin?
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Guest

how are you now?
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Guest

Im 15 and just the other day I got my first kiss and had my first time with a senior I only felt comfortable with him because he made me feel that way . I known him for a really long time .. it just happen to Thursday night and now it's Sunday morning and he hasn't said a word to me i don't know what to do honestly
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Guest

I hate myself for it .. he made me feel so special that night kissing all on me touching all on me I know it's wrong because I'm 15 and his a senior but at the same time it felt right but at the same time it didn't.. im trying not to cry about it because my bestfriend is here and she's making me happy and making me laugh but inside i truly feel like sh*t i honestly wanna sleep and sleep.. his sister was my first friend she could never find out his mom was my basketball coach.. sh**s crazy he made me feel so comfortable I just feel like sh*t
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subscribed mark

What are you expecting from him? What he did to you is considered to be rape in most states so he's probably hoping he never hears from you again.

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Guest

Regretting giving away your virginity. I stayed a virgin until I was 21 in Feb2006. I understand how you feel we don't hint bc they know they took it there going to be better to us but it's the opposite. Look at it this way at least you never have to see him again it wasn't good you will know that next time. Be happy you gave it to someone you loved it's not his so it doesn't matter how he feels it matter how you feel. It was your ms to give away take back the control it's your not his. You choose the one you love don't ever regret that.
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Guest

Take heart . with time ur pains and hurts will go away and u will be whole again. The last but not d least don't give up on luv....
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Guest

If you are really Catholic you should believe in God's endless capacity to forgive. Get to confession - it doesn't have to be in your Parish - and talk to a priest. What happens will surprise you.
For the first poster, your culture is extremely unfair to you. Trust in God. I will pray for you.
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guest

some people don't even bleed the first time they have sex btw. it depends on the woman
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Guest

Hi, I lost my virginity at 20. It was a sin for me to have done that. The guy who took it, was a stranger, I thought I may remember. For me in the depressed high state of mind, that was romantic enough. It's been a year, he hasn't contacted me since that month. He could never have been with me. Do I blame him for dogging me. And moving onto another girl as soon as he could. I unwittingly through myself into two situations were I was used for my body after that encounter to get rid of the love I'd developed for this boy. It didn't work, because every day I still struggle with the remnants of that love. I don't trust boys, or want to be attracted to them anymore. For me every high makes me feel like I'm invincible, and every low feels like drowning. You could say that, after that night I developed a mental health disorder that makes life harder to live. Maybe he made me crazy. I was a bomb waiting to blow. What can do to forget the past, and move forward.
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Guest

I am currently 17 years old, and I feel like I made the mistake of my life. I come from a very conservative culture where a girl’s virginity is considered everything, it’s almost impossible for a girl to get married if she’s not a virgin and everyone will soon know.

I met a guy back in May of 2017, and it is currently April of 2018. I left my really attached lover at the time once and for all (I finally had the chance to do that since I was always afraid to be alone). This guy was amazing, caring, generous, sweet, daring, and he introduced me to a lot of new things. Before I knew it, I was head over heels obsessed with him and we could never go to sleep without talking on the phone until one of us falls asleep. Fast forward to November, he wanted to leave me because he has been hearing rumors about me being a w**** way back before I met him. I decided to finally give him my virginity as a way of assuring myself that he will stay. The manipulation started along with the emotional abuse, I did everything (including lie white lies) just to keep him by my side. It worked up until he git mad at me and he’s been giving me the silent treatment and I’ve been devastated more than ever. Please help. I need all the emotional support possible. What do I do? I love him endlessly.

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Guest

He is currently 23 bte
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Guest

Don't worry. We have a compassionate God. You will not go to hell if you truly regret the fornication you've done and you ask for God's forgiveness sincerely. :)) Move on, darling. You're so much more than a piece of hymen.
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Guest

Beautiful post. A few nights ago I lost mine and at first i felt really sad inside but then i felt like i sort of hated him for taking it from me and not really being there in my life, and days later i started wondering if he will ever even be in my life. He is not contacting me and not responding to me. :/ But a similar experience happened before and when these things happen it just lets me not care so much about the person, when they hurt me like this, do something like this, physical and then just walk away, meanwhile to me emotionally it left me affected a lot. In my culture it is ok to not be a virgin but i sort of always wanted to wait for the one and some of my family had the same mentality. It is OK. I am OK. And in a way I feel more calm or focused after having done the deed.
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Guest

Hello. I felt dirty inside too, i think because i did not feel we had anything solid, i felt like a **** also. But I did it out of love and wanted to be with him, even if I barely knew him. I agreed to it. I guess the saying girls do it for love ( to get love ) rings true for me now.

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Guest

Can you tell me more about that - everything happens for a reason part?

The bible says that things work together for the good of those who love god.
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