The clitoris is the main pleasure spot right at the top sometimes slightly hidden under the clitoral hood, if you Google parts of the vagina you see it.
You shouldn't be scared to examine your vagina by getting a flashlight and mirror then remove your lower clothing sitting on the floor with your legs bent up an feet wide apart and knees spread out, place the mirror Infront of you so you can see your vagina and flashlight so it shines on your vagina, start by getting use to how if feels to stroke the labia minora (outer lips) then spread your lips and starting at the top your see your clitoris some can be as big as the tip of your pinky finger others aren't visible at all but can give pleasure when the area is stimulated, try licking your finger and rubbing it softly.
Just below your clitoris is the urethra opening and below that is your vagina entrance so you see really nothing to be scared about.
near to perfect technique. Great advice. I was 8 or 9ish when I started masturbating and really enjoying it. I used to do it mostly in bed. I was extremely turned on even at age 8. I remember doing it even when I was at sleep overs at my friends place, if I was given my own bed. I agree rubbing clit is far more enjoyable than fingering.
I’m not sure how well this applies to master baiting. But when I f**k my girl, rubbing the clit while pounding works well, so maybe try emulating that with a diy dildo and your finger