How to deal with son's erections? He doesn't particularly hide them. Should I tell him to?

Like what kinda intimate contact you talkin about? you sayin she conflicted?

¿Can you hear me there, back in the XIXth century?

Yes, she is conflicted. Her reference is to the boy as her son. But her body will take note that he’s becoming or has become a man. His free reign around the house with an erection that doesn’t go away will wear down her resolve. She will increasingly become aroused and she will become wet and subconsciously will come up with excuses to touch him. An extra hug, a gentle neck massage or peck on his sensitive neck will lead to the desire for more intimate contact. She will suggest she give him a leg massage after his sports practice, for example. Laying there, with his mom’s hands getting closer to his crotch will eventually make him hard. It will be obvious to her through his sports shorts. And it will be very easy for her to innocently probe higher with her fingers and go up and underneath the legs of his shorts. If she’s told him to relax and close his eyes, he won’t see or even notice at first that a single finger of her other hand is gently tickling the fabric of his shorts right on or under the head of his penis - the most sensitive part of his body.That will stimulate him further, allowing her to reach further up with her other hand and massage his scrotum and behind that, the thickened cord that is the root of his penis. At that point he’s a goner and she’ll be instinctively free to then progress to directly massaging her son’s stiff penis. The only real issue after that is whether he’s old enough to have a wet ejaculation and shoot his sperm under her expert ministrations or whether he’ll have a dry orgasm.

As I told swish vane a while back not all mothers have sexual desires towards there pubescent son when they walk around with an uncontrolled erection whether they are naked or clothed it will still be visible to her!

Uh no. Sometimes boys just make us uncomfortable. Like tf you just say??? Lol I don’t want a woman bringing in her 7 year old son into the rr because he’s a boy plain and simple not because he arouses me !? Hahah Whoah.

Yes, she is weird. Why is it that males have to hide everything, but a woman can expose everything? The women have a serious problem. It is not her son, it is her.

Thanks for speaking the truth. The mother is getting arousal with her son.

That is true. Many mothers feel something inside their body, but they do not act like this woman who wrote the question. When a woman goes off the deep end with this tells us that she has a sexual desire for her son. What she is doing to dramatics her son to cover up in what she is. All women have felt when they see a naked male. It how you deal with it that makes you a winner. Like my husband and me teach our children that a feeling does not mean you act out with it. Our minds are like a warehouse. Things will pop in but we have the power to remove that feeling.

Very good point. Most mothers do not get arousal with their son's penis. Most mothers and sisters in the family enjoyed seeing their male in the family having an erection because it a natural part of being a male. The male child or male teenager is praise for having an erection at home in front of others. Let turn the tide around. Boys or men in the family do not trouble with the girl or mother having an enlarged clitoris or the vagina walls getting hard. This mother is telling on herself. She is an issue.

Yes, to know that she can sexually excite her own son is a powerful turn-on.

So the mom would make her own son ejaculate?

As a mum, i would agree that watching my son's erection makes me aroused. And its normal to get aroused, after all women are also sexual beings. And its just not me, i have shared it with some of my friends and they have similar issues. some have acted on it and explored their arousal, some just get on with their life. Its upto a mum what she wants and where she puts the boundary. That's all I have to say.

that is not true. most mothers do get arousal, but hide it well. why cant people get the fact that women enjoy watching penis, like men love watching women's body. If its okay for son to have erection, why isn't it okay for mother to get aroused.

The major difference between a teen son and an adult mother is the teen son going through puberty with get random erections without even the slightest bit of sexual stimulation, they just happen at the blink of an eye where as the adult mother would need a sexual stimulant to arouse her and in this case she is seeing her son as a sexual object rather than her offspring!

I would talk to him about this but be cool about it. If he is out in public that is not good. If at home maybe suggest that he wear loss fitting shorts so you won’t notice as much. If he gets aroused I would not say anything to him if he starts to play with himself in front of you ask him to go to his room and enjoy your self as this is a private thing to do.