I have had several orgasms during masturbation, but now they've stopped.

dont stress it! An orgasm isnt guaranteed 100% of the time. I am 20 and cannot orgasm without a vibrator personally. Dont try to force it, just do what feels good. You can always try different techniques; many women will lie in the tub with their vagina under the faucet and use water to stimulate themselves, you can also try a detachable shower head for this. You can try humping something like a pillow or whatever else. I know this next thing might sound freakish but when I was younger it helped me discover my body and what I enjoyed, but you can buy one of those small/mini cucumbers from the grocery store to use inside of yourself: kinda strange but just wash it with soap and water really well and go to town, its actually something I have heard a lot of women trying when they were younger lol. last but not least you can always check out online porn  please keep in mind however porn is notorious for distorting what sex is/should be like. Some of the stuff you will find might seem rough, strange or treating women badly, keep in mind these ARE NOT REAL. Female friendly porn sections are just normal porn where women are being treated well and are a better representation of every day sex.

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Hope that was helpful!

Thank you so much!  I can't try the cucumber though.  (There are five other people in the house, and most like cucumbers.)  I will definitely try the shower head and faucet.  I think it is going to get better from here!

Thanks!

PeaceToAll

Aww, I remember when I first started masturbating. :P

Definitely try the shower head, but make sure you hold on to something, lol.  It's really intense at first.  I usually rub some body wash on my nipples too... it feels really good!

Also, try stripping down to your underwear and humping a stuffed animal.  My pink teddy bear is my best friend. :P Fantasize about sex, rub your breasts, run your fingers all over your body, etc.  Don't give up the idea of just your fingers, though! Sometimes you need variety, but fingers are always fantastic.  

You'll get the hang of it soon.  I've been masturbating for over four years now (I'm 15) and I can always make myself come.  

Thanks for the ideas!!  I will try all these things, and see where they get me!!  I have been trying different things, and I discovered that having a finger in my vagina and moving it WHILE messing with my clit brings an orgasm.  It is awesome!!  I got a multiple by doing it once!!

Thank you!

PeaceToAll

Ooh, I love having an orgasm with a finger inside of me!

A few other things you could try:

-An electric toothbrush (that never has been and never will be used as a toothbrush!) I've actually never done this, but I've heard it's good.

-Humping a piece of furniture (like the corner of a mattress).

I'll let you know if I think of anything else. :P

Sadly my bed is a loft one. :-(  (That would be kinda hard to hump it!!)    I have heard the toothbrush idea to, but can't buy one myself and don't own any.   Thanks for looking out for me!

PeaceToAll

(P.S.  I have a big sister 18, but I don't feel comfortable talking to her.  You are like an online big sis!!) XD