last year i got in with a ht chick and went straight for her feet and she was offended and moved on
i really need to get rid of my fetish ASAP!!!
Their is a way to get rid of it... I started being attracted to feet at around the age of 5... my parents would catch me putting my hand under people's feet at until I was 8.. I would get a boner every day in class because girls wearing sandals. In high school it was even worse I started watching porn involving girls crushing bugs and fish... I started to get these really dark urges. (Putting bugs in girls shoes at my high school) even pretending to be gay to get close to girls) I never acted on these because I met this girl I was afraid I would hurt her and didn't want to loose her. So I stopped I resisted the urge because I cared more about her personality than the physical aspects... I think love can fix anything
I RELATE TO THIS ONE A LOT! (I’m 15 btw)
Ok so basically, I also want to be with a woman for the rest of my life and have children, but I have a fat fetish for a specific body type on men, and I believe that that’s stopping me from loving women. I’m not attracted to other guys’ penises or testicles or butts, fat men’s stomachs are the only thing I’m attracted to. It’s also kind of combined with being stuck in a tight space/hole at the waist, so I get an erection (and it’s the only thing that can get me to seriously ejaculate) when those are combined together. All of my friends like breasts and girls’ butts/vaginas and it makes me really jealous. I haven’t told anyone about this in real life and I’m hoping I can get the fetish to be for something normal by transferring it, by desensitizing it with taking a mental step back when looking at pornography, or by getting rid of it totally (I know the last one is basically impossible). I love hanging out with girls, some of their personalities are appealing, I just can’t get sexually aroused without penile stimulation or thinking about my fetish. I’m also a Christian, and I’m afraid of telling my parents or anyone I know at my church (Dad's side of family owns and attends the church). I also get a lot of homework in school (AP student) and I procrastinate sometimes so I don’t necessarily have the time to focus on myself for a good amount. I’m going to try using some tactics both Christians and non-Christians have said about how to stop letting a fetish control you. If anyone on here has: A) Actually found my sub-comment on this remote website, and B) Read it all the way through from start to finish, I commend you and ask you to pray for me, please. Anyway, signing off now...
Sincerely,
AF3