True enough! When adolescent I had a few tent-misadventures before I understood that I'd better be cautious and then I did exactly what you did. I preferred loose shorts on top of the briefs because they hid my erections best. But then I had to go to a swimming pool where shorts were forbidden (I suppose for exactly that reason). Nobody cared that I actually wore briefs in addition underneath and I didn't care to explain why either, so my parents bought me trunks which were tight enough to prevent the tent but when I got an erection you saw my penis grow and when it was hard you saw its shape and it was still very embarrassing to me. But the most embarrassing event happened later, when I was already in college. I had to accept a freeball-dare for a whole day in sweatpants. I masturbated the night before and again in the morning, and a third time an hour later when I felt my penis already get hard. My friends got it of course and in the afternoon they took me for a walk where I wouldn't be able to help myself out of it. For an hour or so we were climbing and all went well but once we were on top of the hill and my body relaxed I started to get a hard-on. Happily it stopped mid-way but it was still embarrassing. That it diminished and I was relieved but soon after it started again and this time it went all the way. There was nobody else but us and I preferred to take off my pants altogether which I did to the great embarrassment of the girls present! I stayed hard for the whole time we were up there and when we were leaving they had pity at last and allowed me to use a belt to keep my penis vertical beneath the pants.
me too my bf is often erect and uses it as a pretence to get his clothes off, he did so even before we were together and to me it was obvious he was an exhibitionist but I liked it, I never felt that it was agressive in any way. When we were only friends, he asked if I would mind and I said no but didn't believe he would really do it but he did and there he stood and he was very at ease with it but didn't flaunt it he was simply erect and didn't hide it, it was weird and very simple at the same time and we talked about it very freely. It was only when we were together that I asked him if he got a kick out of it and he admitted to his exhibitionism. He shows his erections to other women, he's got 3 friends who accept it and with my sister we had an open talk about it and she accepted too. It is weird of course but also cute and I have to admit that I get a kick out of it too. Anyway, I think it's better that way than if he was ashamed of his penis, for his erections are really unrelated to his being nude, I mean he gets them anyway.
As someone who lives with a constant erection, but who isn't an exhibitionist, I'd have to agree that naked is the most comfortable. Maybe it would be easier if I WAS an exhibitionist - I never really thought about that. I wonder if the exhibitionism grew out of a desire to be comfortable? Anyway, nice for him that people accept it and aren't bothered by it, and yeah, better than being ashamed of his penis, for sure. Also, I think it's important that YOU accept it and actually find it cute. I mean, my gf liking my condition very definitely makes it easier for me to live with it.
As for many guys my biggest fear and my biggest shame was my first 'grown-up" pyjama party when I was 15. I knew it was to happen and I tried various things at home but it looked worse with briefs under my pants so I decided to put my penis under the band of my trousers with the tip hidden under the top. I was hard from the moment I changed into the pyjama so I came out like that and at first it worked, then someone said it looked as if I had nothing in my trousers and then another guy shouted "he's got a boner", but 2 other guys were semi-hard too and I was left alone soon after that. But later my penis slipped out of my pants and stood beneath my top for everyone to notice and when I put it into my trousers in a hurry I couldn't get it under the band again so there I was with my tent. I would have liked the experience to turn into a fantasy, I don't know maybe with the girls finding it cute and the other guys jealous of my hard-on but that was not the case. It was just plain embarrassing and they left me alone out of kindness really. During the evening it happened to 2 other guys but only for a short time. I slept over, during the night I had a wet dream and I woke up with morning wood in stained trousers and no way to hide anything. But for breakfast 4 guys out of 5 came down with morning wood and 2 had ejaculated as I had and from then on everything became kind of cool. The girls found it gross so the 6 of us undressed completely in order to shock them and we even masturbated in order to get harder. Later we felt kind of stupid and had to apologize but it had been at least liberating for me.
I really don't understand the fuss about hardons if not because one likes to bully people. My brother has been hard a lot and so have been both my lovers in high school. I don't think there are boys who live through puberty without these uncontrolled erections. But all 3 have been bullied by others once someone had seen them with a boner. My brother was only 13 when he came home crying because of it. And my 1. lover told me he felt ashamed but at the same time he noticed everyone else hid their penises. Maybe if boys weren't boys, putting shame on others, everyone would be able to accept their own hardons and it would be no big deal.
how did your first "lover" not hide? I mean I hid to and so did everyone else, sometimes I did not but then I was not hard and I didn't go far from my towel or my clothes. For ex. I'd never have gone naked to the shower or to the hairdrier but occasionally I undressed in the shower and when I felt I was getting hard I put my trunks back on. There was only one boy 2 classes ahead and we had sports at the same time and he walked around naked undressing after the lesson and going to the shower naked and drying his hair like that before getting dressed and he was often hard
lol he meant to hide it was like you said showering naked only with towel nearby but somebody played a prank and took it. When he felt he started to get hard he quickly finished and wanted to put the towel around his waist but it was gone. In the changing rooms his clothes were gone too. By that time he was hard. Fun for everyone except for him. End of story.
erections prevent me from go to swimming pools I need tight fit underwear and lose trouser for hide it. It happen 2 or 3 time in a day. I tried masturbate but another come after. How can I hide it in swimming pool?
I wear lose fitting trunks over tight fitting briefs.
stop to hide guys! I went to a naturist beach when 19 it was the best thing could have happened. I didn't have a choice to hide there and I can tell you I was all standing but I learned to accept it. my friend took me but already the 2. day it was me wanting to go back. Since then I have not been ashamed anymore. she meant it as a therapy and it sure did work.
How can I help my little brother, he's 14 and suffering from frequent erections?
If you get too many erections when in public it may also be that you've got exhibitionist fantasies. I know that from 15-16 on it got me really aroused to be naked in front of other people.
maybe you could not make a general rule out of your behavior
a lot of us have hardons naturally without any sexual fantasy involved
but of course if you don't hide them you get suspected of showing off
I myself stopped hiding when I was 17, I was simply fed up with it
and I got accused of exhibitionism whereas I only wanted to feel at ease
I really would have done without the hardons
I never felt especially shy and started to hide only when the hardons started when I was 12, without them I would possibly have continued as before all through my puberty
a lot of us have hardons naturally without any sexual fantasy involved
but of course if you don't hide them you get suspected of showing off
I myself stopped hiding when I was 17, I was simply fed up with it
and I got accused of exhibitionism whereas I only wanted to feel at ease
I really would have done without the hardons
I never felt especially shy and started to hide only when the hardons started when I was 12, without them I would possibly have continued as before all through my puberty
Don't feel ashamed guys! During the last year in High School and the 2 fist years in university my brother was dating my best friend. He always paid attention at home that nobody see him naked and my friend told me he was very often hard and that he felt ashamed of it but she found it supercute of course. When we turned 18 we had a big trip, he was already 20 and my girlfriend who was 34 were driving. Me and my gf were very much into nudism and exhibitionism and we offered to stop at a nude beach. My friend would have come but my brother absolutely refused and she told me it was because of his hardons. To make a long story short we convinced him and we all had a lot of fun. My gf told of her own brother and how he showed off to her when they were young saying that since she was a dyke she didn't care and things like that and she told my brother how sweet she thinks it is that he wouldn't like to show his penis but that really it was ok and that she thought he was actually very beautiful like that and also my friend told him that. He still stayed ashamed later but he told me it had been a nice experience actually. Later I was with a boy who was also hard a lot and it felt good to touch his penis like that.
cheers, lady
lol
it's true that the problem are mostly the other boys, not so much the girls
I remember that I felt ashamed at school in the showers and also camping with friends and so on because they laughed at me or at least made silly remarks
whereas girls did not
if anything they wanted to see it because they liked it
lol
it's true that the problem are mostly the other boys, not so much the girls
I remember that I felt ashamed at school in the showers and also camping with friends and so on because they laughed at me or at least made silly remarks
whereas girls did not
if anything they wanted to see it because they liked it