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I have always heard that if you don't know if it's an orgasm then it's not an orgasm, but I am wondering if this is correct for me. 

Back story:

I am 19 years old and been sexually active for 5 years. I have been with three partners and I masturbate around twice a week. 

This happens with partners and while masturbating.

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I will be having sex or masturbating and it will feel amazing and I won't want it to stop. All of a sudden after a really great feeling it just goes away and I am no longer sexually interested. I get really wet, sometimes I can feel myself twitching but I don't actually cum or need to act like on pornographic videos with all the moaning and such.

This mostly happens when masturbating but it has happened once or twice with a partner when it was with a partner they kept going and I was able to get back into the mood and have it happen again until it was uncomfortable to keep going.

Am I having an orgasm or what is going on? Because can't women usually orgasm multiple times and keep going and want to keep going? I'm also not actually cumming. Just seems a little disappointing if that is what an orgasm feels like.

Thanks... 

No one has any ideas for me?

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Bumping to the top, still no answers.

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Sounds to me like u came, but it should not feel disappointing at all!! It a tough call only u know how u feel when u come. To be honest I watch alot of porn n I use it as a guide to try new things in the bedroom , don't take it so literal. Every woman react differently when the cum.
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well i guess the best way is to watch alot of porn!
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Well if you get that feeling that legs get all weightless and your stomach does flips and you just feel REALLY good down there, you probably had an orgasm. It all depends on your body.
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I have the exact same problem! I could be playing with myself for ages in bed and it would feel so good and I would get so so wet and then I would start to twitch and boom.. I'm not wet anymore and I just want to sleep..
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I have the same problem... twinsies lol :))

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