I too had always thought my vagina was ugly, because of stretched long labia ever since I was a teenager. None of my boyfriend's ever seemed to have a problem with it nor did they seem to even think anything about it. I don't mean to give too much info or sound nasty , but my boyfriend of ten years loves going down on me and I used to be so self conscious, but through the years I've realized how much he really enjoys it and I know this may be tmi but he seriously loves nibbling and sucking on my labia. This has taken away this insecurity I've had all these years. I realize now at 38 finally that I wasted so much time worrying and being insecure, so I just wanted to tell you woman to woman cherish, love and be proud of your vagina...the person who loves you really does love everything about you even what you think is ugly.