Hey girl. I had the same problem as you. I stayed a virgin throughout highschool because of my 'problem' . But about a week ago i started talking to this guy and well after 4 years of being so self concious of my labia.. i find the whole thing silly now. I dont see it as a problem anymore. Its actaully an addition ! I was really scared at first when we started to kiss down my stomach and go to my pants, but after a mini stuggle battle he told me to 'relax' .. and well i did. It was the best thing i have ever done. It feels amazing having someone laviash you down there, and when he sucks.. i could have gone insane. When we finally got to the sex, i didnt care anymore. You just forget about everything. The only thing was that it hurt (naturally) because i was a virgin. It was one of the best things i did for myself.
All i have to tell you is to stop worry, get naked, get loved and RELAX.
All i have to tell you is to stop worry, get naked, get loved and RELAX.
OH THANK GOD. I'm 15 as well and I've wanted to look this up for a while but I never had the time until now, and I'm SO relieved <3
thank you guys sooo much, I've been really embarrassed about it for quite a while. Is it normal for them to be kinda wrinkely but in kindof a bumpy way? I still dont like it very much even if its normal, but at least I know I'm not alone now. Woooooooooooooot! Large-Labia-Minora-Power!!!!!!! lmfao.
thank you guys sooo much, I've been really embarrassed about it for quite a while. Is it normal for them to be kinda wrinkely but in kindof a bumpy way? I still dont like it very much even if its normal, but at least I know I'm not alone now. Woooooooooooooot! Large-Labia-Minora-Power!!!!!!! lmfao.
As a guy, I prefer girls that do not have long labia minoras, but like many of the post before, once I'm at that point with a girl, there's no turning back anyways. Like boobs, most men prefer large ones but many guys still fall in love with flat chested girls.
I'm 23 years old and I know how all of you are feeling. I noticed my labias were different at about 12 13 years old. My right one is larger then my left and protrudes from my vagina like most of you have described. I was so embarressed to do anything with a guy. If I would do anything I would always put my hand over the right side of my vagina and pretend like it was a "thing" for me to do or I was doing it for him. Last year for the first time I found a guy I was comfortable around. One day while we were messing around he said to me, please move your hand I know what's there, I've seen it, and I love it it's a part of you. I started crying because no one but me knew about it. He hugged me and told me he loved me. This girls is what you'll find I promise! :-D
There is nothing to be worried about! most of my friends and myself included love long labia more than no labia. its more sexy and erotic and way mor fun to go down on. you need to let go and have fun with your body. as soon as you do that you will enjoy sex more. trust me guys dont care about it. the more you make us feel that you are comfortable with us exploring you, the more into you we will be! being shy in bed is not sexy but letting yourself go completely IS!!!
You should be proud to have such large prominent labia. Much like some women prefer men with big penises, I and many of my male friends prefer the large, puffy labia. The bigger the better... more to engorge with blood when you get aroused, the more to suck into my mouth and savor the sweet tender folds of honey, and the sight and feeling of those big, puffy, blood engorged lips wrapped around the head of my penis... Oh yeah, big turn on. Beats them tiny, miniscule lips anytime. So, be proud and let em hang!
I am a man and I know to have long labia minora means being sexy. OMG I thought everybody knew this.
Hey you guys..
So i am a fifteen year old girl, and i have a LARGE libia minora... I never thought anyone else in this world had it.. I wont let my boyfriend "downstairs" because i am sooo uncomfortable with it. I would really like to show him this website. but i dont know what he'll think about it. i dont want him to get creeped out... <3 my boyfriend and i have been together a lloonngg time. & he knows everything about me but this... im very insacure about it. but this website really helped out alot. i know im not alone in this.... i never thought id get married because id never want to show my husband... should i show him?
So i am a fifteen year old girl, and i have a LARGE libia minora... I never thought anyone else in this world had it.. I wont let my boyfriend "downstairs" because i am sooo uncomfortable with it. I would really like to show him this website. but i dont know what he'll think about it. i dont want him to get creeped out... <3 my boyfriend and i have been together a lloonngg time. & he knows everything about me but this... im very insacure about it. but this website really helped out alot. i know im not alone in this.... i never thought id get married because id never want to show my husband... should i show him?
Show him your butterfly. :-)
Here's a guys point of view! I wish my girlfriend had large a labia!! Honest to god. It's a good thing! Very attractive!! If you think otherwise, believe me, You'd be wrong! You're a lucky woman! Never be shy, be proud and show it off!
Thank you so much for this website! I have gained so much confidence in myself just by reading everyone's views. xx
i know im still young, only 14 but im so not feeling right bout it :/ guys have asked me to d stuff but that seems to stop me :/ i need help! has any who has bigger inner lips been fingerd or licked out as such? please give me addvise! thanks..x
So I have the same problem. But my ex wasn't bothered by them. But honestly, I'm gonna worn you on this, be careful with wearing tight bottoms, bike riding and oral sex. Because since the labia minora isn't protected by the labia majora like it should be, it's alot easier to harm it. I know this from personal expirience. I had worn pants that were too tight, and they pinch my labia minora and I got several broken blood vessels in it, which led to a hemetoma. I was in the hospital for 3 days and got a surgery. It all led to internal bleeding and 3 weeks of hell. So just be careful, because they are easier to be harmed ! And I'm not tryin to scare you or anything, it's just that I'm a 16 year old girl too, and I would wanna know about this sh*t haha.
i hateeeeee it!
Developmentally the labia minora in a woman is analogous to the scrotum of the male just as the clitoris is analogous to the penis.. That is why the skin is wrinkly.