hi there boos from my point of view I love them when they bigger my girl friend has none and I wish she did
i also have the same problem as most of you, and im really conscious about it. i consider the labiaplasty to correct my "deformity" but its so expensive..i can't afford it. and at times it felt like the worst problem i ever had in my body. i don't know what to do anymore..it makes me depressed.
i love large labia...i think it's beautiful! (truth be told most straight men just love vaginas, large or small) so you really have nothing to worry about!
Let me be perfectly clear and totally honest with you... First of all... Don't sleep with him unless you KNOW he is the person you want to be with the rest of your life, and make sure you know all you can about him.. Be sure, before you spread your legs for him, that he is willing to be there for you the rest of his life. And know this also, people can tell you what they want, but when a man becomes aroused, he will tell you anything to get in your jeans! Also when he is aroused, there is no vagina that is ugly to him... Personally I find it very attractive to have a little hanging out... I absolutely LOVE a large protruding "majora!" To me that is one of the most important values when picking a partner, because you are going to be looking at it and loving it for the rest of your life! So as far as him liking it, don't worry, I promise he will! I know I would!
LARGE!!! Definitely... "The better to love you with!" I love "Ridding your hood" when you have the larger "Minora!" Let me be honest... I am 55 years old, and I have seen a few in my time... NONE can compare to the larger ones! If you were mine, I would be eating at the "Y" all the time! Any of you young ladies like older men? I am very handsome! LOL! Seriously, Don't be ashamed of something that is so beautiful!
I have extremely large labia minora. I didn't even know they were unique until my sister called them "meat curtains." I have read a lot about them, because sadly almost every female feels uncomfortable about them, including myself. AND EVERYONE ELSE, don't scold these girls for being self-conscience, we all feel shy about it because we assume guys prefer them small.
I didn't know how much guys actually love them until my fiancee told me that guys do love them bigger. I looked it up, and if you ask any man, he will not complain about your labia. If he does, kick him to the curb because your vagina should not allow men that are picky about labia and sex. I am proud of my big lips, and my fiancee gets intense sexual pleasure from them. I love my 1.5-2 inch labia, they are beautiful and its so fun when they are sucked on and played with. Other girls should be jealous of us.
Don't be concerned with the way your vagina lips look-Guys love them as they are-In fact the more of you there is the better we appreciate your unique femaleness-All women are beautiful no matter what shape and size of any of their body/body parts-A real man loves every minute details of a woman's body-If they tell you otherwise they are being derogatory and go to someone else who will appreciate you
Okay, I know this is a late reply, but like everyone else has said, this is completely normal. So many girls (including myself) have the same problem and don't realise how many others are feeling the same way because it's such a taboo subject, and most of the labia we actually see are on the bodies of Barbie-like porn stars. Real people honestly aren't like that. Again, like so many people have said, labia come in so so many different shapes and sizes, and that's a good thing! Honestly, in my experience, guys really don't care; in that situation the size of your labia is probably the last thing on their mind, they're just happy to be getting some! Many guys love bigger lips anyway and consider it sexy... Count yourself lucky! And of course, so many guys have similar concerns about penis size...it's difficult to be confident about your body as a teenager, especially since you're not experienced enough to know what's normal and don't have any real frame of reference!
What I would maybe suggest is shaving (carefully!) around the labia majora, as I personally found that a lack of hair down there makes everything kind of 'fit together' better haha.
I really hope you start feeling okay about yourself soon - trust me I've been there and it's better to realise sooner than later how much time you've wasted worrying over something you really don't need to. Good luck with your boyfriend and I wish you the best! xx
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As man, I prefer to vagina which has short labila minora.. it looks neat however when I have girlfriend which show me her vagina to me and its labila minora was quite wide (not too wide). I can accept that I do really care. At the first time, I was surpise because that the first time I saw the vagina and my friend told me that if girl often has sex, its labila will wider but I do not believe this because I believe my girl friend never has sex before. Am I wrong? please let me know...
Labia size, as with other parts of the body, varies from person to person. No one is a standard to make judgements from. Even if there were to be a change after sex, you would have nothing to compare with. Everyone is different. If you believe your girlfriend is a virgin, and she has told you she is, I would believe her whole-heartedly, Accept her individual shape and size, just as she should accept your body for what it is.
i am 24 yrs old and i have a six yr old son and i've been with his father for 8 yrs...anyway my labia minora has one side that protrudes outside the labia majora and i have had my share of sex with men. i still tuck it in because it's uncomfortable rubbing against my hair stubble and panties but i am never ashamed of it. my son's father jokes with me after sex and calls it my "lil penis"
it is more attractive than not having them. That is they way it is suppose to be. Normal is attractive - surgery removal is not normal and not attractive..