I really appreciate you guys replying to these posts and with the honesty you have and the time you took to do so. I too have struggled with this issue and have actually been to the extreme act of almost taking them off myself with the help of some lidocane,iodine,and a razor blade..lol so now you see how damning the jokes such as "roastbeef" "wings" and so forth can have an effect on a womans self image. I feel a lot better after reading these posts Thanks! : )
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First allow me to qualify myself.... I'm a photographer, I shot for Playboy for a number of years and then shot for Penthouse, Club, Swank etc for another few years...... it was my job to cast and produce sets for these magazines... I've asked a lot of men..... I think the majority prefer bigger packages.... I on the otherhand prefer smaller but don't much care really.....BUT it is the uniqueness that men appreciate and the fact that it is yours...... that's why there is no thrill in seeing an anonymous vagina.. For reasons I don't understand women with bigger packages do seem to be more self conscience and it is for that reason that you see more "smaller style" labia in magazines because they are more likely to show them off...... let me ask you this.... how big a deal is it to you how far your mans balls hang? Probably not very.... well that's about how concerned men are with how far your labia hang.......
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hello im a girl, but if i was a guy, i dont think id care about what size your labia is. cause you know someor most guys would like it anyways cause its a vagina. lol like chris rock said during his standup, just whip out a vagina and a guy would like it. dont ever change your labia. its yours.
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Uhhh i have the same problem. Im 14 and I want to get the surgery done too. i think... but i wan2 know everything about it before i dooo. what happened exactly and how old where youuuu???
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i am really interested to here these comments. i also have a large labia and am very self concious about it. i think as i have the image from magazines in my head that the perfect labia is the smaller the better. it has always been a problem with me and i still hate getting naked or having sex with my boyfriend in the light and we have been together nearly 5 years. i know thats really weak on my behalf :$ but i guess its just how i have always been.
hearing what you guys have said on here really makes sense. especially about most females being insecure thats why you dont see them as much.
the worst part is i am more nervous with my actual boyfriend rather than with a guy that i was just seeing for sex basically for only a month.
i am so happy i found this website everyone thanx for the honest opinions hopefully i'll feel abit better about it after this!!! ;-)
hearing what you guys have said on here really makes sense. especially about most females being insecure thats why you dont see them as much.
the worst part is i am more nervous with my actual boyfriend rather than with a guy that i was just seeing for sex basically for only a month.
i am so happy i found this website everyone thanx for the honest opinions hopefully i'll feel abit better about it after this!!! ;-)
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do you think my 16 year old boyrfriend is going to be bothered by my larger labia minors?
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I think your 16 YO boyfriend will LOVE your vagina and all it's attachments. :-D
I've never heard any of the guys I know complain about any vagina.
I've had the pleasure of kissing a few and I've never found one I didn't like. :-D
I've never heard any of the guys I know complain about any vagina.
I've had the pleasure of kissing a few and I've never found one I didn't like. :-D
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Let me ask you this. You're not experienced, are you?
Are you going to think his penis is weird? Or his testicles?
Will you think he's gross if he has a foreskin, or if he doesn't?
You've probably seen plenty of different penises if you did any babysitting but his won't look like those because he's a grown teenager.
His "friends" have spent the last few years telling him he has a tiny penis and no girl is going to want him. She will probably look at it and laugh at him. Do you expect you will laugh at him when you see it? He's really worried about that, inside. He's afraid you will think it's ugly, too short, too small, too skinny, too fat or maybe even too big or too long despite what his "friends" have said. If he has a foreskin, he's afraid you'll think it's gross. If he doesn't he's afraid you'll think he should.
He's just as worried as you are. He's also dieing to see your vagina because it's what every boy wants most in life. His very own vagina to love and touch and maybe even kiss. He's wondering what your lips and clitoris are going to look like and what they feel like. He may even want to taste them. Nature has programmed him to love all your parts, not to be disgusted by them. He wants to make you feel good by touching you but he isn't sure what he needs to do or exactly where your clitoris is. You're going to have to show him and help him. That's why you've been masturbating for a few years. You've found where and how you enjoy being touched and now you need to teach him. He's heard about poking the little man in the boat or flicking your bean. Does that sound like what you want done to your clitoris? You're going to have to show him what you like.
You're both hoping to find enjoyment and pleasure. You're not planning on looking for something to criticize about each other.
Are you going to think his penis is weird? Or his testicles?
Will you think he's gross if he has a foreskin, or if he doesn't?
You've probably seen plenty of different penises if you did any babysitting but his won't look like those because he's a grown teenager.
His "friends" have spent the last few years telling him he has a tiny penis and no girl is going to want him. She will probably look at it and laugh at him. Do you expect you will laugh at him when you see it? He's really worried about that, inside. He's afraid you will think it's ugly, too short, too small, too skinny, too fat or maybe even too big or too long despite what his "friends" have said. If he has a foreskin, he's afraid you'll think it's gross. If he doesn't he's afraid you'll think he should.
He's just as worried as you are. He's also dieing to see your vagina because it's what every boy wants most in life. His very own vagina to love and touch and maybe even kiss. He's wondering what your lips and clitoris are going to look like and what they feel like. He may even want to taste them. Nature has programmed him to love all your parts, not to be disgusted by them. He wants to make you feel good by touching you but he isn't sure what he needs to do or exactly where your clitoris is. You're going to have to show him and help him. That's why you've been masturbating for a few years. You've found where and how you enjoy being touched and now you need to teach him. He's heard about poking the little man in the boat or flicking your bean. Does that sound like what you want done to your clitoris? You're going to have to show him what you like.
You're both hoping to find enjoyment and pleasure. You're not planning on looking for something to criticize about each other.
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very true!
but guys dont give a sh*t about their bodies, only the girls. they expect us to be what they see in pornos! because the porn industry doesnt show anyone with a large labia he wil think im different even though im not! but because he has bever seen one he will be confused and think its weird. i also HATE the fact that the porn industry does this! imagine girls if guys saw large labias in pornos all the time! they would never think its differnt , they would think its normal and not even consider it. GRRR!
but guys dont give a sh*t about their bodies, only the girls. they expect us to be what they see in pornos! because the porn industry doesnt show anyone with a large labia he wil think im different even though im not! but because he has bever seen one he will be confused and think its weird. i also HATE the fact that the porn industry does this! imagine girls if guys saw large labias in pornos all the time! they would never think its differnt , they would think its normal and not even consider it. GRRR!
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C'mon now, you're beating yourself up over something that hasn't happened.
Boys DO give a sh*t about their bodies. More than you think ! Don't you think he's smart enough to know the same things you just said about those girls of porn? Give him a little credit here. Don't judge him before you get to know him.
The porn industry isn't the only one that chooses certain body types.
Do you think he's going to look like the guys of porn? Obviously you've seen some of those porn videos. Are you expecting his penis to look like those specimens? Are you going to run away screaming if he has a foreskin? Most of the porn guys don't. Are you hoping to find one of those neatly trimmed (ouch) monster penises of porn, in his pants?
What if he just loves your labia and can't wait to play with them?
Because he probably will :-)
If you show him that you are proud of the labia he's about to enjoy, how can he possibly say those are ugly, then expect you to let him play with them? If you do meet a guy who IS that dumb, you don't want him 8-|
Boys DO give a sh*t about their bodies. More than you think ! Don't you think he's smart enough to know the same things you just said about those girls of porn? Give him a little credit here. Don't judge him before you get to know him.
The porn industry isn't the only one that chooses certain body types.
Do you think he's going to look like the guys of porn? Obviously you've seen some of those porn videos. Are you expecting his penis to look like those specimens? Are you going to run away screaming if he has a foreskin? Most of the porn guys don't. Are you hoping to find one of those neatly trimmed (ouch) monster penises of porn, in his pants?
What if he just loves your labia and can't wait to play with them?
Because he probably will :-)
If you show him that you are proud of the labia he's about to enjoy, how can he possibly say those are ugly, then expect you to let him play with them? If you do meet a guy who IS that dumb, you don't want him 8-|
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Not to sound harsh but it would look somewhat odd I guess, but I don't blame you though as a male being we constantly worry about the size of our penis and I guess this is somewhat the same kind of issue, all I can say though is leave it be like it is unless it's actually getting to the point its causing you physical pain apart from that every woman is beautiful in their own way dont feel ashamed of yourself ladies theres absolutely nothing wrong with it, and if your boyfriend minds that you as a woman have somewhat large labia then to be quite honest dump his ass the very second he opens his mouth, he is not worth your time!!
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I would deff not get turned off. I was dating a girl for 3 years and loved her vagina that had little to no inner labia. My current gf has long labia which were the first I've ever seen, but I love them too...I can suck on them, but its harder to find the clitoris. Either way I love them both. :-D
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No offense ladies, and this is pure ignorance, but when I see a girl with big "lips" is make me think she's been around. I like a nice clean slit with small minora. I'm actually here to educate myself about the matter. Big lips remind me of hardcore porn-stars. Sorry if i offended any or u ladies. It looks like there are a lot of guys who like em big tho.
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I have one really big left labia, and the other is quite small. I don't like it and am quite embarrassed by it. Is this a huge turn off for men?
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