Men...what is better to you? Large or small labia?

noname wrote:please help someone in their teens

OK Men,

What do you like better small or large labia. I know it is normal to be larger down there, but what would you want if you had a choice? Do y'all really like the small size like the porn stars have? I am thinking about having my'n madea smaller. I am saving myself for marriage and I want to feel confident about my size. Be honest...do men like?

would i be able to get an opinion from someone udner 20 because i think teenagers have different veiw because of what they watch now a days...

i prefer smaller like a preteen like minora that does'nt show up outside.

So far ive not been with anyone with a big labia but i would love to i would have so much pleasure from that,I love seeing porn films with women with large ones such a sexy sight.

I'm a female, im 17 years old and I have large labia. When I was around 13/14 my large labia really effected my self-esteem and I would constantly think about men and if they would accept them, as they are used to looking at porn where women have very small labia! Also I didnt think men were very educated when it came to female genitals, not knowing how many different shapes and sizes are out there. However, after a few years and sexual experieces with two different men I have now almost fully accepted my labia, they make me unique and if a man does not like them then that means he doesnt like a part of me and quite frankly, screw him. There are other men out there who will appreciate them, dont let one mans preference put you down.

In my first serious relationship, the guy loved the feel of my large labia. He would constantly tell me how nice they felt when I was wet and would sit and play with them for ages, although he refused to give me oral sex. My confidence was strengthened although not getting oral sex made me worry if all men would dislike going down on a girl with large labia. In my second relationship the guy did not comment on them, he was a virgin and had no sexual experience so I think he had no expectations, anyway he loved giving me oral sex.

The reason I came on here is because I think  I have thrush, firstly oral and now my vagina is itchy. It has not been obtainted through having sex because I have not had sex for nearly a year. I was feeling down and researched thrush,large labia, the price of labiaplasty and mens thoughts on large labia.

I now feel fully content with my labia, surgery is far too expensive especially when there is no need. One website claimed that having a large labia was an abnormality...this made me angry . Also, mens thoughts on the matter have improved and they seem to be more aware of the benefits of having a large labia.

Girls! If you have a large labia then flaunt it, I hope these words are inspiring and if the man does not enjoy them, then there are many out there who will, why are you wasting your time? 

I love both but if I had a choice, I'd choose larger and the reason is the larger is so easy and fun to suck.

I have been considering surgery to reduce my labia for about a year. Just recently my husband has started sucking them during oral. It is so hot!!! Imeadiate turn on.

I can't imagine getting rid of  them now. But to be honest I am still self conscious about their look. So thanks to all the men that have posted. I feel better getting a strangers opinion. Of course my hubbie is going to say he loves them.

It's nice to hear honest responses.

i am only 17 and i have had a large labia as long as i can remember, i have always been extremely insecure about it and i worry about it all the time, having it has made me turn down boyfriends in the past because i am to embarrased for them to see it and i cant judge what their reaction would be.

Sorry, I'm not a teenager sam9 but I have enjoyed making love to both large and small labia. Actually my wife has almost none. You seem to have a rather negative opinion of young guys and since I used to be one I must respond. I was never concerned about the labia, or lack of them. The vulva I was about to explore was kind of like opening a Christmas present. It was also a little patch of heaven that I felt privileged to enjoy so whatever I found there was just delightful.

I can't see anyone wanting to modify them with the possible exception of them causing considerable pain or discomfort. They say everyone has preferences and I suppose there may some guys who like one type better than another but you are what you are and there is nothing wrong with that.

I can't imagine cutting anything off my penis just to please some imaginary girl I might meet in the future. I have never had a girl complain about my foreskin although there are some on this forum who have expressed a strong opinion about not liking a foreskin. I had one girl when I was 19 who couldn;t keep her hands off it. She just loved slowly peeling it back to expose what was inside.

I'm with you, I would also like to hear from some teenagers about this.

Ladies - Keep what you have.  The biggest thrill a man can have is to be with a women who gets off on him.  So if your labia are big and full of nerve endings and you can come and come and come then he will love you no matter what your p***y looks like.

Best advice to ladies to keep a man - keep 'em well screwed.  Same advice to the men.  Make them cum and and cum and cum.  They will stay with you forever if you can do that simple little thing.

Ladies - if you want to keep a man forever your greatest asset is a ditry mind.  Same advice to the men.

Not a teen either but I just wanted to say that I think large lips are absolutely lovely. 
That said, I am not obsessed with larger lips so for me my preference is labia that are attached to a really fun, cool and loving lady.
Whatever shape, size, color labia my lady had, I'd make her happy to have just exactly the perfect pair!

i love large labia! i would always choose them!

I'm not a man, so I can't speak for them. But I am a girl with large labia, and I can tell you something: there is nothing like a hard tongue licking though your inner labia. It's one of the best sensations you'll get on sex and women with small labia will never fully experience it. So don't worry about it, just enjoy it!

amen to that. i still feel very self conscious about my goodies, but theres nothing i can do about it and will never get surgery to correct it so to speak. to each their own ladies. to each their own. if a guy doesnt like what you have downstairs then he really is a waste of time. real men are not grossed out by larger labias. theyre just not. i hear alot of college boys talking sh*t about women with larger labias. i said boys because thats all they are, little f*****g boys.

Small Labia all the way,  a large labia to me looks like testicles.

Labia are eye candy and then mouth candy. The more there is to lick, suck and explore... the more pleasurable the experience for the giver and receiver.
Only those with little sexual experience prefer teeny p***y lips.