Men...what is better to you? Large or small labia?

smnwntr wrote:

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noname wrote:

OK Men,well love there's nothing more sexy to me than to see a women in tight jeans and to see her lips print this really turn me on so if your mate have a problem with that then look me up you are perfectly normal and some men love it.

What do you like better small or large labia. I know it is normal to be larger down there, but what would you want if you had a choice? Do y'all really like the small size like the porn stars have? I am thinking about having my'n made smaller. I am saving myself for marriage and I want to feel confident about my size. Be honest...do men like?

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If I were you I would leave it as nature intended, men will joke amongst themselves about big labs and come up with childish names like beef curtains but its all about individuality and I personally find all labias facinating and a huge turn on especially large ones. Be proud of what you have, real men are not put off by labia size. Never get your lips altered because if a man doesn't like what you have he is not worth it. That is what it is all about everyone is different. I love seeing women with big labias and also ones with tiny ones. Stop worrying all vaginas are beutiful.
I hope that has given you the confidence to be proud of your p***y.
In responce to your question I have found big labias a minority so therefore I like to see something down there that resembles a woman not a little girl. But to be honest men love all p***y so stop worrying!!!!

Bigger labia have always been arousing to me. I have been with women with larger and smaller labia. Most important is that a woman is comfortable with her body as it is. Alterations are unneeded and a sign If someone who is insecure with who he or she is. I've been married twice and both women have large labia. Oral sex is more enjoyable for the man and woman. There is something extraordinarily erotic for me when I see my wife's beautiful lips, especially with her vulva shaved. Both women, knowing how much I cherish their labia, wear bikinis and shorts fitted just enough to exhibit the outline of their lovely labia against the fabric. There are so many erotic "treats" for the men who are with women blessed with larger labia. My wife has used special wights to stretch her lips even more, whih addresses the question of longer lips and how it feels to men during penetration; wonderful, as the folds of the labia pull and rub and against my shaft.

Although what you said slightly made me feel better.. Crissy Moran has neat symmetrical p***y lips and there tiny especially compared to mine ! If thats what men think big p***y lips are im sure to disappoint or even shock with mine.

i have slightly large ones myself! and honestly i feel like i get more pleasure because of it. theres more for a guy to touch, therefore ill get wetter. a guy shouldn't care what size the lips are as long as their wet & clean! if he's picky about vagina then he may want to question is sexuality a bit. a healthy vagina should not put a guy off, no matter what size the lips are. MY OPINION~

i'm just saying, the lip size has nothing to do with if a girl got around or not. if she got around, she's going to be loose. if she hasn't, then she'll be tight. girls with big lips are actually usually tighter than girls with small ones. just saying; it's not always the case but sometimes. porn stars are the ones with little lips.

you might want to question your sexuality. girls don't question your penis do they? they don't leave you because it doesn't look exactly how they wanted it to? no probably not, theyre just happy its a PENIS.

uhm the size of the lips has NOTHING to do with if a girl sleeps around or not. if she's tight then she doesn't sleep around and if she's loose then she does. girls with big lips are generally tighter, by the way. and they get more wet.

When I was 15 years old my labia began to swell and went from being barely there to about 2 CM in length. I have always been extremely self conscious about this and didn't want anyone to ever see my privates. When I was about 25 I started shaving because I am a clean freak and I just like the feeling of having no hair. Every time I looked in the mirror I felt like a freak. I am tall and skinny with a small outer labia. Although my inner labia isn't huge, 2 CM, they appeared huge to me and the first thing that was noticeable when I was naked because they stuck out of my skinny body and little outer lips. I am 33 now and saved the money to have a labiaplasty 2 weeks ago. Let me tell you, there is an enormous amount of pain with this procedure and I am scared to death it will never heal correctly. I think it is sad that I felt like such a freak that I had to spend thousands and go through all this pain and surgery to feel attractive. I wish that society had not made me feel so bad for not looking like a little girl anymore, even though I had done nothing to look that way except for go through puberty. I really hope this heals correctly and I don't have this constant burning and pinching nerve pain in my privates forever.

Thank you for stating this because the idea that the size of a woman's inner labia is relevant to how much sex she has had is a huge misconception. While you can physically manipulate your labia to stretch out, generally labia size is determined by your genetics and is analogous to ear, nose, or foot size: you get what your genes were programmed to give you.

I've always found that the bigger they are, the more attractive they are. I was with a girl before with huge lips, and it was such a turn on. Oral on her and sex was so much better because of them. My current girlfriend basically has nothing down there. It's still good, but I can never stop thinking about the larger lips. It's a shame to hear girls are worrying about it. Guys will be real lucky to get that.

I REALLY LIKE LARGE LABIA AS THEY CRADLE MY PENIS A LOT BETTER & GIVE SUPPORT WHEN THRUSTING.THE LABIA TEND TO CARESS THE SHAFT OF MY PENIS A LOT BETTER.WHEN MY WIFE GETS ON TOP OF ME & RUBS HER VAGINA ALONG MY SHAFT AS IT LIES ALONG MY STOMACH IT GIVES HER A BETTER CLIMAX AS WELL AS ME.

im 23 and ive always had larger inner labia. and growing up with mostly guy friends didnt help. especially hearing those oh so aweful words to describe large labia(beef curtains, bacon strips) YUCK. i used to be embarrassed but never voiced to anyone i dated. well until i met the guy im with. i guess bc i just saw him as so perfect in my eyes, my flaws started eating me alive. i was the type that hated sex with the lights on, if they looked at it too long, or saw me nude with my legs open...yea i was weirded out by my own body. thats so bad. so for a bit i started throwing out there getting the reduction surgery. but he was the one who convinced me to opt out. he said "well what if you lose sensitivity?" yea that made my ears perk up. but then i thought, ehhhh it wont lose that much. then he also brought to my attention larger lips are so much more fun in bed. he loves sucking them, spreading them apart, running his fingers and penis in between them....its like a playground. its such a turn on. and i also started masturbating with a mirror between my legs so i can see it. at first its kinda weird. but ive started to fall in love with my large labia by doing this. you start realizing smaller labia look so weird and underdeveloped lol im not 100% accepting of them yet. im on my way. when ever i see porn stars spread, i really just think they have unattractive lips. and if a man says he wont be with you bc of your lip size, id question what his sexual preference is. ive asked so many many many guys what they think, and they say "p***y is p***y as long as its maintained who cares" so from a woman, love your lady parts. any man who says no bc of your lip size must just not know how to handle it and doesnt know how to work a clit that isnt exposed. :)

Yes!!! Lol I'm larger but that was funny

I have big inner lips. I really hate them & I'm scared whenever it comes to a guy trying to have sex or eat me out or even finger me will he like it? help please

Well I posted earlier on this about having a longer inner labia and I have also had a labiaplasty done to make them smaller. I will say that I never had a man once complain to my face about my privates and in fact the opposite was almost always true with every sexual partner I ever had. When I was younger I heard a few men make some derogatory comments about women with longer labia being loose or having had too much sex. These were BOYS though and not men with a lot of sexual experience. Your labia size has nothing to do with how much sex you have had. In fact most women develop larger labia as teenagers during puberty and often before they have sex. I would say that you should keep the area clean and most men will love them. If you find a guy who doesn't then you need to realize that is his problem and try to educate him or move on. I always hated my appearance personally and didn't like them being pulled on because I had been injured during childbirth. However, as far as men think, I do believe most of them like longer labias and some even have a fetish for it. Don't have a labiaplasty unless it is absolutely necessary. It is not an easy recovery and some people have long lasting pain from it.

I like all types of vagina. But I think a larger Labia is defiantly the most sexy!!!