Men...what is better to you? Large or small labia?

Did you ever get the surgery?

What I cant seem to understand is why there is not a better system in place for proper sexual education. Young girls (and boys for that matter) should be taught at a young age that hoohas come in all shapes and sizes, and that there is not a "right" or "wrong" looking vagina.
I have larger labia myself, and have ALWAYS been extremely self-conscious about it. When I first noticed them starting to show at about age 11 or 12 I really thought something was wrong with me. I thought maybe it was b/c I masturbated too much, or that I was just a freak. When I was at sleepaway camp and my friend and i popped a squat in the woods to pee, she looked down and said, "you have the weirdest looking vagina". I have always been so nervous that something was wrong with me.
It has most definitely held me back from sexual encounters, out of sheer embarrassment that the guy will think its gross or weird.
Im 29 now, and while I still have some minor embarrassment about my bits being exposed, it is comforting knowing that it is actually attractive to many men and women.
After reading many forums like this, it has truly boosted my self confidence. It really makes me want to get a brazilian and flaunt my bits!
Its very difficult as a young girl not knowing if youre "normal" or not down there, especially when seeing porno films that only show tucked in shaved vagges. It really affects a girl going through her sexual growth.
I almost want to start an organization that will help educate youth about genitalia. It should be taught in sex-ed, or maybe doctors should tell kids that no two vajajays are alike- Especially now that labioplasty has become such a fad. Its truly a shame.

I love large labias. They are the best.

Not at all I think it's sexy. Getting hard just thinking about what you look like.

Small labia is amazing and I want to eat it up.

Thank you to the men that posted about liking larger or natural lips. It's incredibly sexy in a man when you really like vaginas, and the men that posted here about loving playing with and sucking large labia have me kind of riled up, in a good way :)

Hi "loveyourlips", I strongly agree with you. Why can't/don't we have better education about sex and our body differences? It seems to be such a big concern for all of us as we grow up. We're even led to believe it's wrong or dirty to see others or want to know about others. That's a terrible thing to carry with you for most of your life.

I had only girls for playmates when I was little and at about the age of 6 or 7 we began seriously exploring our differences. But we already knew our parents wouldn't approve so we kept it secret. At that age we had no shame about it when we were alone. We touched and examined closely. I didn't mind them pushing back my foreskin to check out what was under it and they seemed to enjoy it when I opened their lips and touched the strange bits of skin inside there.

Thinking back on that now, that would have been the perfect age for us to be taught about those differences in my opinion. All we ever got was misinformation from some other id**t our own age who professed to know everything. I'm 40+ years older than you so I was hoping it was better for you but I guess it wasn't much. I've been pushing for meaningful sex-ed in schools since I was 20.

There are some British sex-ed sites on the internet that show classes where they have both sexes in the audience and live models to illustrate the different appearences and to point out the parts by name. The lack of previous knowledge is quite apparent in the reactions of both the boys and girls. The reactions of the boys and girls were almost mirror images. When being shown the vaginas, the girls were almost all "eewwws" while the boys were giggling. When the male models were displayed the guys didn't want to look while the girls were giggling. The reactions of the parents, when they were shown what their kids had seen was shameful in my opinion. Mostly they were disgusted.

From your "weirdest vagina" comment I take it that girls do about as much to make each other feel bad about themselves as boys do.

Go ahead and get that Brazilian but you may get it trouble with the flaunting. I think the flaunting is a great idea. Wouldn't it be wonderful if we weren't up tight about that? Nobody would want to see an old man like me but if I was young again I would take it as a compliment if a girl was looking at my parts and I hope she would feel the same if I was looking at any of her parts that I found attractive. I think we're built to do that but our natural feelings have been repressed.

So start that educational organization, I'm all for it. I think we desperately need it.

Hey "justagirl", I don't think any of us are symmetrical anywhere. Have you ever seen a computer image of a symmetrical face? It looks weird.

I've never heard of a guy having same sized testicals so why should vaginal lips be equal?

I've liked every vagina I've seen, smelled, licked, sucked, touched, kissed, tasted. I'm a male, that's what my brain is programmed to like and want.

So there's some candy for you to eat up. I hope it's the flavor you like. :-)

 

I think there are websites out there devoted to teaching what are range of normal labia look like, as well as a range of breast shapes and sizes. 

i think small is better

Give me large please, there is nothing wrong with small either but make mine large.

definetly large, the larger the better

theres nothing like playing with the flowers of a women

nothing like running the tip of your penis in those petals

defo big labia are hotter

i've never been with a guy with the extra foreskin, but i could never imagine being unsatisfied with any penis that wanted me. girls complain about how it "smells", but i think they're just psyching themselves out.

i wouldn't worry too much, if a girl doesn't like it then the hell with her. no one has the right to criticize another person's physical parts.

if i care about the person, i will adore whatever they have.