Over selfpleasuring causes Premature Ejaculation and how to cure or overcome it..!!!

Thanks sooo much! I'm young and this hasn't happened yet to me but I will stop and save myself! My grades hav started to drop too so maby this is why! Maby I read this just in time:) thanks soooooooooooo much

Hi,
I started mustarbation at the age of 12-13 when i just realized the new things. I first relaxed myself with a girl, rubbing my penis against her body. Then i got the habit of mustarbation. I used to do it like 3-4 times a day during my teen. I am 30 and still doing it like 3 times a week. I am virgin, never have had sex or sexual intercourse.

I am perfect in health. My penis is 6" when errect. I dont know about intercourse as i have not done one yet...but during mustarbation, i last for 1-2 minutes depending upon the mood. Is it all right?

I feel low in the sharpness of my mind. I used to be a very good student.

I dont know about your personal experience, but the latest RESEARCH in medicine shows, it has no side effect.

thanks a lot man, i'm very greatful to u!! u know i masturbated just b4 i came to this website n i'm gonna stop right away!! i'm not that much of a masturbation addict like 2 times a day or smth (3 times a week), but man i already got 1 of the side effects which is the knee!!! luckily it went away when i paused it 4 a month n now i'm ok. no memory loss yet :D. but after readin' ur post i'll think a thousand times b4 i do that again!! i'm 17.

sir, i'm 2 facing same problem of forgetting things within a second, and becoming lean and thin day by day. please suggest some remedy 2 come out of this. i masturbate nearly 2 times a day..

yardboy wrote:

Now_Wat wrote:

Stopping is relatively easy bro! For me, anytime i felt like jackin off, i would get out of my comfort zone, and go interact with people. Or i'd even go out and get busy say play ball, or cycle n stuff...and before i knew it, the urge was gone.
And within 2 months, i had stopped completely.
So bro, its all about determination, and believe me, you can easily do it..!
Cheerz

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Every thing is built for use. Sex is necessary for proper working of sex organs/reproduction system. No or reduced sex will weaken the system creating some problems like feeling of loneliness etc. However, the excess sex will create problems just like excessive exercise,sleeping,eating. A medical research proved that persons having moderate sex ejaculations enjoyed more immune health than frequent and less doing sex.

The goal is to find balance between less and more. The availability of porn sites are stimulating sex more and more. 

this whole masturbating mashup my life, two of my women left me already hpe these tips make a change cause i am greatful for reading. :D :cry:

Hi, I just read this and it was of tremendous relief to me. Thanks a lot :)

It is a very good advise  , please keep up on such endeavors

Wow man thanks for tha article, I am one of the guys who are having this problem right now and i can totally relate to many things you
 wrote in this article. Im 22 years old with very bad sexual life. Even i dont want to admit it i know im addicted to masturbating and its been now about 3 years
Here is my story. I started masturbating at the age o 12-13,normal for the boys i think, and i remember i could masturbate for 5 times
in a day without any problems of pe or erectile disfunction and i was not addicted. until the age of 18 i never had erection problems or premature ejaculation problems. i could totaly control when to have orgasm (from 5 minutes to 1 hour mastrubating) and i even remember that i was finding wierd that guys in porn didnt have hard erections while i was super hard for an hour constantly). At the a age of 16 i went to a hooker, she gave me a blowjob and i remeber that i wasnt as hard as i expected to be and also didt ejaculate.(it lasted more than 12 minutes) and then a few months later i finally had sex( with a hooker again) but again i didnt have a good erection. From what
i believe now then i was just anxious because it was my first time and thats it. except from h****rs i had hooked up with just 3-4 girls but just kissing touching no sex.
After that i didn do anything for a year and then i started masturbating more and more. Actually i was not normal masturbating i was just rubbing my penis over my pants while i was watching porn (you know in case my mother walked in my room), or i was humping the bed. At the age of 20 i went to a hooker again and i finished in less than i minute while
she was giving me head. I felt horrible so embarrased. After that i knew i had a serious problem. Since then i havent had tried to have sex just hooked up with a girl but again just kissing (this time beacause i was afraid to do an extra step). Right now i dont even want to talk to girls because i know that im not going to sleep with them because of my fear of
 embarrasment of p.e.And i know tha i am losing chances with girls i would like to have a relationship just because i am afraid to deal with my problem.

Except from all the above i was really shocked to read in your article about the back pains or the bad memory, focus, studing problems( i have these symptoms but i thought they were caused from drugs and alcohol, bad sleeping habits and not exercising alot). Iwant to get rid of my problem as soon as possible to have a normal sex life. Except from the girls i am missing i also have problem with my friends
because they are talking to girls all the time in bars while i dont aproach girls and except from that i also avoid going out just for that reason, so it affects my social interactions in general. Sorry for the long post, but i wanted to say these things that i keep inside me and i have some questions to ask. How long will it take to see some signs of my problem being cured? Is it bad to masturbate for lets say 1-2 times a month and try to hold myself not to finish early?(i think practicing on that will help). PLEASE REPLY TO ME!!!! I feel that your article will help me improve my life in general. SORRY for my english. :)

Nice write up!, I'm coming to the realization that I need to help myself, before it gets any worse. Like suggested, I had this problem with an ex-girlfriend, however, unlike yours, mine wasn't very accepting, or discrete about it. Since then, I relocated to another state, I guess I developed some trust issues and definitely an avoiding the opposite sex problem, which is just causing me to become even more stressed out, especially when I think of the future and how much worse it will be. I'm happy I found this though, I was under the impression like many others, that masturbation is normal and healthy, I guess it is, if you have a normal sex life and no related issues. Thanks for the help..!

hey, remember it was the same doctors in the 1930's who used to advertise cigarettes ? Infact medical doctors used to urge people to smoke, and the TV advertisement for Camel Cigarette went like "If your doctor smokes CAMEL, who are you not to" ..

And look today, "cigarette smoking is harmful to your health" .. And yet its been proven that way back in the 40's they knew that cigarettes caused cancer, but turned a blind eye .



AS i saif before, not everyone who excessively masturbates might suffer from premature ejaculation, but my research has come to the conclusion that over 95% of those who overmasturbate end up suffering from premature ejaculation , and i was one of them, so i'm also talking from presonal experience.



Also, if you want to verify this, check out all the replies on this post, and on the post on my blog, to see the number of people agreeing to my findings, even though the "doctors" say its safe. I'll let you decide ..

Thanks ..

hey, reply on my post (now_wat) .. this one (wats_wat) is banned . a point to note though, for my case , i was extra careful as to who i tell my sexual issues to. especially when it comes to galfriends. Since breaking up with your girlfriend in this day and age is a normal issue, and before you know it, she will bad mouth about your sexual problems to her peers n word spreads like wild fire, and you will be more depressed. So know who you reveal your story to, as you revive your sexuality . other than that, the future looks very great as i see it for those suffering from premature ejaculation, because of websites like these where we can meet people with problems like ours and who can give you soluutions without trying to get a penny off you . its all about understanding and information. With the right information, everyones world can be a bliss ..

Peace ..

BTW reply to my now_wat post.

thanks

thanks a lot..
i m doing masturbation from 12 n now i m 22, 6 days in a week n once in a day.
my 1st question is :
Is it(6 days in a week) more than enough?
2nd one is:
now i m feeling that my ejaculation time has become very less n penis also looking very soft n thin.can it be normal again??

Is there any way I could talk to you and ask some questions in private other than through messaging on here since it says I need to have posted or commented at least 5 times to be able to do that? Please let me know. Thanks.

bro, if i were you, i would cut down to 4 days a week, then 2 n finally try to quit it all together. Remember the rate at which you;re depleating your body essential chemicalls is way faster than how they r made at the moment .... you might not notice it now, but trust me, if you keep on, it wont be long before you start ejaculating barely 4 seconds u enter a woman.... Bro, its real . i aint frontin on ya! .. peace ..!

i am in big trouble .i really need to talk to you about this.could you *Warning! Do not post your e mail address!* address and we can email or contact through sending emails