it's useful,thanks.
Hi I'm 22, been premature ejaculating since about 12 yrs old. I have experienced all of the same symptoms that you've named and tried everything but herbal medications; which you shouldn't take if you are taking certain medications, and quiting masterbation. I still do it quite a bit just because I thought it was the normal thing to do, even though I don't think I get anything out of it anymore. My girlfriend of 4 years doesn't even want to have sex anymore so I can't help but think that she is sleeping around.
As I would tell someone younger than me, "you are young and have the rest of your life ahead of you so you have nothing to worry about," I wish someone could tell me the same thing. Even though Dr. Drew from love line tells all his listeners with this problem to masturbate more, I haven't gotten any positive results from that so I'm going to try it your way.
Thank you.
(1)I've did it so frequently that lost my semen,
(2)masturbation time has decreased.It takes me seconds to ejaculate.Im so frigentened about becoming a father.
(3)My left testes as hanging more than my right one.BOth were at the equal position few years ago from now.
I cant discus this with my father
I'd be very grateful if u could help.
plz plz help me.
I started this when i was in 7th std.Im 22 running now
(1) I've lost my mastubation period.
It takes me few seconds to ejaculate now.
can i regain my masturbation period?
(2) Mt left testes is hanging lower than my right one.
Both were at the equal positin few years from now.
and even it hurts somtime.
(3) My semen is very thick now its just like water
Im so woried.
I was thinking abt seeing a doctor.cz I wanna be confident enf b4 getting married.
but i dont know whom to consult.How could we know if they are any good?
Bro.I cant talk this over to my dad.
I desperately need your help.
plz reply me soon.
can i regain all of that?
plz help me brother m afraid of becomimg father.
My first question to the 26 yr old virgin is ...If you were having problems for that long, why did you never talk to your Dr. about it. Everyone has heard of sex addiction, everything done in excess is an addiction. If addictions were so easy to stop, we would have a nation of non smokers. But a lot of what I have read is "I would go and be around people, to stop from masturbating. If you sit alone with no social life ,you find things to do with that free time. Ther are always people out there you can be friends with, but they have to know you want them as a friend,and you want them. I started puberty at 12.5. The erection you wake up with is your body's reflex to keep you from peeing in your sleep. Well , I'm awake and hard, so I might as well jack-off. Then usually before going to sleep everynite, it relieved stress, and I could go to sleep right away. Ask any married woman ,they will tell you their husbands have sex, satisfy their needs, roll over and go to sleep. So I was a twice a day guy. When you make time so you can masturbate ,it has become an addiction. Most guys masturbate in their own way, there are thousands. Some of these ways may desensitise the penis so if you start before you hit Puberty, Then start to ejaculate, and have problems at 14, DUH, you need to talk to your Dr. Some guys have a good enough relationship with their father to talk to them about it. Remember, they were your age once and were doing the same thing you are. Any guy who tells you he never mastubated ,and started having sex when he got married, is lying, or from a extremely religous family that taught him this was bad. To the medical student, and others , your testicles are not joined to any other part of your body that they cause problems. The only thing they connect to is a tube that goes through the prostate, meets up with seaman(pre-cum to some), as a way to leave the body, and when you have sex it comes out of your euretha. Many men can't father children because of a low sperm count.by the theory that your body does bad things to make more sperm is stupid. Wearing a penis ring will trap blood so you can stay hard and harder longer. Some well endowed men NEVER get Hard. Johm Holmes the porn star never had sex in a movie unless he had his hand wrapped around the base to make it hard enough to go in( he had a 12-13"penis. ). Playing basketball puts stress on your knees, and you may cause problems from the stance or way you bend your knees while you are playing. Masturbation does not give you bad knees, either you inherited them , or your putting too much stress on them. If You can not talk to your Doctor Or your Dad, you need to find a Dr. you are comfortable with. There are many younger Doctors out their, and many P.A.s Physician's assistant, most Dr. offices are utilizing them, that are not as old..and these guys didn't get Medical Degrees, so you don't ask questions. Many problems are not going to show up unless you tell your Dr. what they are. I talk to my Dr. about everything from a swollen foot to masturbation. Viagra makes you hard for several hours, and you can have sex on and off for that long, I have used it receationaly. Your girlfriend squeezing the head of your penis is what is refurred to as edging. And I've always found squeezing the base works better, your way allows seaman to come to the point where it goes out. The point being a lot of guys do this, it is supposed to make you last longer,(whatever you are doing). The problem as a Dr. told me is that if you do this long enough, your body thinks it is not supposed to ejaculate, and you have a retro-grade ejaculation. Where the cum goes into your bladder, instead of coming out.Then when you urinate, it comes out in your urine. The bottom line is not to try and find medical help on line from unqualified individuals, who mean well. It is great to describe your situation, and find someone else that is having the same problem or close. But to let these kinds of problems go on for years, is assinine. See a Professional. There are national referral lines as well as local and even the licensing dept of the state. I look for topics that I need to find solutions to, but I talk to them with my Dr. before trying them. Your body reacts differently than most every other body, so a blanket answer or an answer for someone else may not work on you. Cocaine has no effect on me, why, I don't know, but that is not true for all the crack addicts out there.I have had 5 hernias, a hydro-seal, a herniated disk in my lower back and my appendix out,and some teeth removed and all these require surgery.There are thousands of men who have hernias and say they can push it in , they don't need surgery. The truth is that it is part of your intestines, and when you can't get it back in ,it becomes a strangulated Hernia, which can kill you. Talk to people about what you are going through,know that you are not alone in the problem you have. Express your frustration,take information you obtain to your Dr. and ask if he thinks this will help you. Sexual problems are the worst and can effect you your entire life. But when your 35, telling your Dr. about your problem, and he can fix it, you could have done this at 14, and not have all those years of stress.