Since he sounds from your description like someone solely concerned with his own pleasure, the odds are pretty good that he'll be happy to use your butt and get himself off as long as he doesn't realize that you wanted it.
I thoroughly enjoy anal and have done it many a time. The pleasure is immeasurable!
As i said earlier, immeasurable! The foreplay is exciting (licking her tight puckered hole or fingering her gently) before easing my throbbing penis inside of her. Cuming inside her ass makes the act even more sensual and intimate!
I recently had anal sex with a guy friend of my mind. It was our first sexual encounter and I was surprised when he said he wanted me doggy style and then actually went straight for my anus. I thought he wasn't looking at what he was doing and went for the wrong hole, so I stopped him. He assured me it wouldn't hurt. I was shocked. I told him "no" and that I don't do that. After the awkwardness, we decided on traditional missionary style sex, but I could tell he wasn't very excited and wasn't fully erected, so I told him "just go slow". I'm not sure if this was safe or not, but he used baby oil as lubricant on my anus and his penis as we stayed in the missionary position. After taking his time lubing me, he told me to close my eyes and trust him; I did. He lift my legs over his shoulders. As soon as I felt him inside, he easily slid in. I felt pain, but we just laid stiff for a few seconds and he slowly work his way in the rest of the way. It was a a pleasurable pain, but I liked it instantly. I felt and saw his dominant side and couldn't believe how submissive I was. He was fully erect and it felt as though he grew twice the size than when we were having vagina sex. He was really enjoying it as much as I was. It made us very intimate with each other during that experience. That was the best sex I had since I lost my virginity over 25 years ago.
Are heterosexual men prone to have anal sex with other men since they enjoy how if feels so much? My friend said, only if the guy is attractive to guys. Other than that, straight guys only do anal sex with females. I want to believe that. Nothing against guys who like guys ,but men are men, regardless of their sexual orientation. Do some of you ladies wonder about your husband or boyfriends occasionally? Just curious...
No, I have absolutely no qualms about my boyfriend being completely heterosexual, I have asked why he enjoys anal and his explanation is simply, it's nice and tight!
As to the rest of your post....
Yes, you may find your man grows larger in your anus (I think twice the size may be a little exaggeration) because for most men the stimulation they get, both physically and mentally is much more than they'll get from vaginal sex. This can be a very powerful and intimate experience for both partners as you get a sense of being joined together that can't be matched.
Glad you've discovered this even if it took 25 years! Just keep taking your time, go slow and enjoy.
I guess its a failure to appreciate this fact that leads people to wonder why the urge to have intercourse in this way is so strong.
Hence the addiction and enjoyment alluded to by the original poster and her husband.
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I always explode and cum harder than during vaginal sex!
That's hardly surprising. Most men who've had anal sex prefer it because the heightened stimulation leads to much more intense orgasms.
I guess its a failure to appreciate this fact that leads people to wonder why the urge to have intercourse in this way is so strong.
Hence the addiction and enjoyment alluded to by the original poster and her husband.
I agree anallover. Anal is still seen as a taboo and many women are reluctant to try it. I always ask women when having intercourse if they would like to try anal, fortunately, most agree and say yes. It is an amazing experience in itself and is far more fun and exciting than normal vaginal sex. Do you and your husband/partner engage routinely in anal sex?
anallover wrote:
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I always explode and cum harder than during vaginal sex!
That's hardly surprising. Most men who've had anal sex prefer it because the heightened stimulation leads to much more intense orgasms.
I guess its a failure to appreciate this fact that leads people to wonder why the urge to have intercourse in this way is so strong.
Hence the addiction and enjoyment alluded to by the original poster and her husband.
I agree anallover. Anal is still seen as a taboo and many women are reluctant to try it. I always ask women when having intercourse if they would like to try anal, fortunately, most agree and say yes. It is an amazing experience in itself and is far more fun and exciting than normal vaginal sex. Do you and your husband/partner engage routinely in anal sex?
Yes, it's a shame about the reluctance, because it is an amazing and intimate experience as people find out for themselves when they give it a go. Totally agree with you about how vaginal pales in comparison.
To answer your question, yes we do engage in anal routinely. I accept everyone feels differently but for us it has really strengthened our relationship as we both prefer it and I think that's all anyone could ask for.
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anallover wrote:
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I always explode and cum harder than during vaginal sex!
That's hardly surprising. Most men who've had anal sex prefer it because the heightened stimulation leads to much more intense orgasms.
I guess its a failure to appreciate this fact that leads people to wonder why the urge to have intercourse in this way is so strong.
Hence the addiction and enjoyment alluded to by the original poster and her husband.
I agree anallover. Anal is still seen as a taboo and many women are reluctant to try it. I always ask women when having intercourse if they would like to try anal, fortunately, most agree and say yes. It is an amazing experience in itself and is far more fun and exciting than normal vaginal sex. Do you and your husband/partner engage routinely in anal sex?
Yes, it's a shame about the reluctance, because it is an amazing and intimate experience as people find out for themselves when they give it a go. Totally agree with you about how vaginal pales in comparison.
To answer your question, yes we do engage in anal routinely. I accept everyone feels differently but for us it has really strengthened our relationship as we both prefer it and I think that's all anyone could ask for.
As you say, it has strengthened your relationship and you both enjoy immensely, what could be better? Do you have any advice or tips to make the experience even more fun and pleasurable for the girl and guy for that matter?
I have anal sex with my wife every day now for 6 month's its perfectly normal and safe as long as you clean up after sex. In this case i had no choice because my wife is pregnant :) although i got to say i miss her vagina so much!!! nothing beats the vagina feeling, when i enter her anally the feeling for me is more empty yes its tight and feels different but i got to say that nothing caresses the penis like wet vagina. Its good to try new things as long as you dont overdo it, you must satisfy your women she has feelings and the need to have a strong orgasm just like us yes it takes takes a little more work for us men to warm them up but its worth it to pleasure your lady and i enjoy and cum at the same time she does when she starts moaning and shaking like a leaf. I love my wife.
Having anal sex does not make you a homosexual or weird, people have done this since the day we where created as a human race. even animals do it ! now think about it. I can guarantee that there is no married man that can say i haven't tried anal sex its just a lie, no man can refrain from having sex for 9 month its just not possible they call it (BLUE BALLS) Hahah!!!
Hope my sharing of anal experience helps anyone who reads it here ;)
Have a pleasant anal chat everyone, Bye Bye :)
Robert P
To the women talking about anal on here. Your anuses are at risk for developing anal squamous cell carcinoma. Oral or anal cancer occurs due to constant irritation throughout those routes. HPV can complicate the risk for developing anal cancer. If you are in fact women writing here, please refrain from taking your buttfriends' and your husbands' pencils and come to me and I'll take you for a test-drive, I mean consult.
Dr. Oedipus