Hi i had a child in 2004 a lil girl and i end up having a still-born and i also i found out that i had lupus at the same time ive been trying to get pregnant for about 5 years now and its not happening i was told by the doctor that my wound is tilted but he says that has nothing to fo with me getting pregnant and sometimes i have irregular periods and sometimes i dont im just scared i mean can i have more kids or i just need to relax and keep trying :cry:
Well sorry I've been gone for a while. Went on a mini vacation because of the depression. I had talked to my doctor and she told me to really notice changes in my discharge for signs of ovulation. She doesn't want to start me on fertility drugs just yet because I am young with a heart problem and doesn't know how my body will react. She said that if I am not pregnant by May she will start hormone injections. We shall see. I've been really tired and nauseated for the past few days and been absolutely exhausted. My husband is out now as I type getting a pregnancy test. We have no clue anymore. I'll be going in early February to get a blood test because we do have unprotected sex and anything can happen since I still ovulate. I will keep you posted. When he gets home, I'll be taking one. Depending on the results, I'll either crawl under a rock for a while or let you guys know. If you don't here from me anytime soon, you know what the result is. New year, maybe new beginnings. All you ladies keep your head up and know we're all here for each other. It sucks sometimes but we're not alone. We all will have better luck soon. :-)
I just discovered this thread today and I have read from the beginning. My new husband and I have been "trying" for about 4 months now and I have always had irregular periods. My OB/GYN started me on Clomid to help me ovulate with one successful round and one unsuccessful round (no ovulation). I will begin round three once my period arrives in the next 7 to 10 days (after a cycle of progesterone to stimulate a period). Hopefully I will ovulate and perhaps conceive.
I am very interested to know if you got a positive result after your last post on 1/17/2010. I am keeping my fingers crossed for you!
I am very interested to know if you got a positive result after your last post on 1/17/2010. I am keeping my fingers crossed for you!
Ladies, I have been going through the same thing as well. At least we all know that it is "not just me". I have extremely irregular periods...going from avg of 50 days between to almost a year. I am frustrated as well. I have been reading an interesting book that you all may want to at last read a few key chapters from. It is called "Taking Charge of your Fertility". It explains why a lot of things are happening with your body and that not every woman's cycle is the same, etc. It allows you to be more proactive in the process and chart what is going on with your own body. Sometimes I think doctor's (being one myself) get hung up on what we were taught in school. It's ok to say to your doctor that your body works differently. This is YOUR body, not a textbook version. Do your own research! Some of these drugs used to "help" can actually impede your ability to conceive. Good luck to all of youl....sending lots of pregnancy vibes:)
i tried to get pregnant for 3 1/2 years before it finally happen and when it did i was a shocker now my LMP places me at 9weeks but the ultrasound places me at 5weeks but thats strange because i haven't had a period for 2 months now but i dont know just don't give up :-D
I AM HAVING THE SAME PROBLEM AND I AGREE WITH YOU ON THAT 100% AND YES IT REALLY DOES REALLY SHOCK ME GUESS I WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO HAVE KIDS AND IT REALLY BOTHERS ME CUZ I REALLY WANT A KID AND BEEN TRYING FOR YEARS AND STILL CANT GET PREGTANT
I can completely understand what most of you are feeling. I have been married for about 5 years, and we have never used any form of contraceptive and regularly have sex and nothing. I was diagnosed with MS 3 years ago, shortly after my 21st birthday, and have switched to an infusion type of medication so I can no longer afford to just ' Let it happen. ' I MUST be off medication, so I need a clear plan, and I'm afraid of what I will find out. I'm lucky to have 3 periods a year, so I'm hoping that the doctor is able to tell me something and help so we are able to conceive soon, especially since I have to be off my medication while we are trying. I can't allow for years of trying.... :'(
hi, i am in the same boat. my periods are on a 14 day cycle now for 2 years. I have no idea what is going on and doctors are no help. my husband also has a very low sperm count, but does anyone know why I have a 14 day cycle. it is very frustrating. me and my husband really want a baby and sex feels hopeless now, giving up. my cuzin is pregnant and she got married after me. everyone asking, 'dont you want a baby now' it really upsets me when i see others having babys. am happy for them but i really want one of my own. my husband gets very emotional and i feel like c**p. life seems so boring now because we are ready to move on to the next step and have a family. we get bored of just us 2 now. its really hard to get pregnant, and i know quite a few people who get pregnant first time round. my mum has 7 kids and my sisters got pregnant almost straight away.
:'( I am so depressed nad upset at the same time too. My fiancee and I have been trying for almost 2 yrs now and I have irregular periods. I went to the doctore and had my thyroid tested my estrodial and progesterone tested and the only thing that came back was my progesterone was a little low so they put me on a progesterone cream that I have been using for 2 months now. My sex drive is high and I want it all the time, but my fiancee is now on Paxil and his sex drive has gone down alot. We want a baby so bad it kills me. I am nowon day 30 of my cycle and my last cycle went 41. I take the cream between cycle days 14 thru 28. I am overweight too which I know doesn't help. I will be seeing a fertility specialist soon in Louisville and I hope they can figure out what is going on.
hi u all, same thing here, i've not seen my period for like a year now, it used to be constant then it became irregular and now its vanished.....but i'm trust God and putting in efforts, i advise u all not give up...keep on trying, right now i'm on fertilaid for women, i eat healthy and stay away from cold water as this might be an underlying factor. i did a research on fertile XX and so i'm going to try that as well. U all should remain blessed and hopefully....the lord wld do it for all of us. Amen.
it took me 4 years so never underestimate the important thing is to just RELAX and have funn having sex because stress can keep you and i know how stressful it is wanting to have a child
I have been with my husband for three years and we have tried everything to known man I have very very irregalur periods and I've even has sex when that stupid test told me I was ovulating. I think I'm not ovulating at all. He's the last person in his family to have kids to carry on the last name and I too have friends and relatives getting pregnant all around me and they don't want them! It's very upsetting to me ad my husband that we can't conceive. My next step is surrogate.. Even though I want to feel the growth of my baby it may not happen. Good luck to you and your husband.
i have been trying 9 years! im 28 have a wonderful husband but no kids... 9 years! i kno god loves me and he knows when the time is right.. good luck ladies and god bless
i am having the same issue at the moment i am trying to take in Omega3 herbal products to see if that will help.. I am stressing out because of this..
I am going through the same thing. for almost 3 years my husband and I have been trying and still nothing. A co-worker of mine just had an abortion because she got pregnant by an ex boyfriend. a month later she comes up to me and tells me that she now wants a kid. So unfair.