I would think if you find yours was staying back and you didn't want it to you just need to pull it forward again. If you are keeping it back because you wanted to why would you suddenly want to have it go forward? I have desensitized my glans so that I can dry rub it for masturbation which I find feels very good along with being able to dry rub the whole inner foreskin while holding it back tight but I like having it forward to cover it up when I'm not doing that to maintain some level of sensitivity for my pleasure. I think if I kept it permanently exposed there would not be much sensitivity after a while. I base that on my early pre/teen experiences with other kids who were cut and had what appeared to be no more feeling in their glans than I had in my fingers.
During intercourse I was always able to create plenty of lubrication in my wife so dryness was never a problem. However I always did oral on her for quite a while usually giving her several orgasms before going inside. Holding it back tight so I could experience rubbing all my bare sensory parts on her vaginal walls was great for me but she didn't like it much even though there was no lubrication problem. She preferred me allowing the foreskin to go to it's normal position so the glans was sliding back into the foreskin as I pulled back and then came out as I pushed back in. Apparently having the coronal ridge rub against her vaginal wall was not a great sensation for her so I didn't get to have the bare head feeling very often.
Hi all.
about 2 years ago i found this page i was 13 at the time and was having trouble with smelly smegma build up, i found the help here first class. but there was one small twist to my story. a few months after starting the retraction i was surfing waves on a very rough windy day. i was in just speedos and a rash vest when i got wiped out. the force of the water forced the foreskin back further than i had previously managed. tore the frenulum (although i did not find this out until much later that day when i was in the shower). there was no blood, but at the time the salty sea water made it smart that day. but the following day things were better and now the skin rolls all the way back and stays there all of the time. i dont get the smells now from smegma. since starting this a lot of my friends have done the same and like the feel and look. we all spend lots of time at the beach and girls seem to notice.
just curious though. i share a room with my younger brother 8, he keeps asking questions about why i look different than him. what sort of age would you all think is safe for him to start retracting all of the time.? i dont want to tell him how good it is if it will do him harm.
about 2 years ago i found this page i was 13 at the time and was having trouble with smelly smegma build up, i found the help here first class. but there was one small twist to my story. a few months after starting the retraction i was surfing waves on a very rough windy day. i was in just speedos and a rash vest when i got wiped out. the force of the water forced the foreskin back further than i had previously managed. tore the frenulum (although i did not find this out until much later that day when i was in the shower). there was no blood, but at the time the salty sea water made it smart that day. but the following day things were better and now the skin rolls all the way back and stays there all of the time. i dont get the smells now from smegma. since starting this a lot of my friends have done the same and like the feel and look. we all spend lots of time at the beach and girls seem to notice.
just curious though. i share a room with my younger brother 8, he keeps asking questions about why i look different than him. what sort of age would you all think is safe for him to start retracting all of the time.? i dont want to tell him how good it is if it will do him harm.
It shouldn't hurt him, the cut guys have been exposed permanently since birth. I have been retracting mine since birth but not leaving it there. My mother was told by her doctor that she had to retract mine to wash under it when she took me home from the hospital so I remember her doing that from as far back as I can remember. Then she told me to be sure I did it too. I do remember I discovered it felt good to peel it and play with the bare head when I was quite young. I used to do that when I was in bed and bored. But I didn't learn to masturbate until my cousin showed me when I was 10.
I'd say you are quite lucky to get rid of your frenulum as you did, I didn't get rid of mine until I was married and it tore during sex. It took several times of it tearing to get rid of it completely. However my foreskin won't stay back by itself but I can pull it all the way back to where my shaft is fully covered by the inner foreskin. I wish it would stay back by itself, I'd like to be able experience having it bare for a whole day or longer. I pull it back tight and clean it with rubbing alcohol to dry it well. Then I can touch and rub it while it's bare but if I let go it just covers itself up again. That feels so good I always dry rub it when I masturbate. Rubbing the inner foreskin and the bare head feels soooo good. I just wish I could keep it bare to see how it feels to have it rub around inside my pants all day.
I'd say you are quite lucky to get rid of your frenulum as you did, I didn't get rid of mine until I was married and it tore during sex. It took several times of it tearing to get rid of it completely. However my foreskin won't stay back by itself but I can pull it all the way back to where my shaft is fully covered by the inner foreskin. I wish it would stay back by itself, I'd like to be able experience having it bare for a whole day or longer. I pull it back tight and clean it with rubbing alcohol to dry it well. Then I can touch and rub it while it's bare but if I let go it just covers itself up again. That feels so good I always dry rub it when I masturbate. Rubbing the inner foreskin and the bare head feels soooo good. I just wish I could keep it bare to see how it feels to have it rub around inside my pants all day.
How is it going now?
Dave
Dave
I pulled back permanently 20 years ago. No regrets. Except. Beware herpes. Comes with.really crazy girls. Pulling perm back helped my prejack. I can go either way. Love
It's weird but mom's got to buck up and do the awkward task. Keep an eye on your babes. Bad influence can arise. Breed as much as you like. Only in a village. Close your eyes and smile hard at least 20 times a day. End rant. Ty.
At about 6 i couldn't pee well. Mom took me to the docs and they pulled and streched very painfully and then it sort of worked. Told me to pull it back regularily and clean there.
So I have done it since age 6 and hardly know what smegma is. Sure it become a lubricated there but not messy washing there quickly every shower.
I became erotically rather active at age 11 and see no reason why one should not touch that before age 16. That is a myth. One can start at early age.
I permanently retract since a few years but it tends to roll forward at times. Best with tight underwear. I need to find one of those silicone rings.
How you did that ?
I have worn my foreskin back for several years now and regard myself as autocircumcised. The skin on my knob is indistinguishable from a fully circumcised penis and the skin only comes forward very rarely and feels slightly uncomfortable when it does. Masturbation felt different at first of course but I soon became accustomed to that. In short, I am completely adjusted to the modification I have made to my penis and regard myself as circumcised. I think the important factor here is that the end of my foreskin was a little on the tight side and so stayed back during the initial 'autocircumcision' stage and allowed my glans to remain exposed and thus toughen up. There were and are no disadvantages for me and I much prefer being permanently skinned back.
I can't believe you rub with alcohol your inner foreskin and experience no irritation and pain. Be careful not to lose all sensitivity: the inner foreskin is rich in sensitive nerves designed for sexual pleasure by mother nature. Soap and water is enough to keep it clean and odorless.
Who are you?
Wow, I've never asked any other uncircumcised guys about this so I guess I assumed everyone went through some version of your experience as a kid. (My best bud is asking me about this bc his son is uncircumcised and he knows I am too.) Growing up my dad would always get on me to pull my foreskin back so I wouldn't splatter all over the toilet seat but it never came all the way back behind the head as little kid and I assumed that was normal. But at some point when I hit puberty, by the time my penis started growing and I started getting erections/ masturbating all the time the foreskin slowly stopped sticking and I was able to get that gliding action to the point that it feels really good when you pull it back tight. (I thought this was basically everyone.) If you continue to slowly work it back and stretch it gently with some kind of butter lotion it should ideally start to slide back, which will hopefully create pleasure instead of pain.
Not sure how old you are, but coincidentally I basically outgrew my foreskin around high school. I guess as since my glans started to mushroom the skin has always just stayed behind the head unless I'm really cold. Now that I'm reading all of these messages, i guess I kinda get the best of both worlds bc I still get the awesome gliding action (which makes me precum a lot and helps keep the head moist during masturbation/sex) but nothing like a smell or buildup. (I've never actually seen smegma in person so I thought it was a third world thing where hygiene is difficult m.) And it makes life easier bc so many American men and women assume uncircumcised penises are ugly and "unsanitary" until you prove them otherwise -- I still remember getting teased for my "trunk" at the urinals as a kid. ( to the point that I remember guilt-tripping my dad for not circumcising me as a baby, which he found hilarious. Turns out people are just ignorant and now I'm glad he didn't!) Ultimately after I grew out of my foreskin post-puberty, by college my roommates thought I looked uncircumcised til I mentioned otherwise. (same for the locker room where I felt relief after the childhood sh*t. Esp one time m when I actually heard a dude tease his Hispanic friend about having such a long snout he could smuggle drugs across the border lol.)
Long story short; I'm not a doctor but you should probably start pulling it back slowly over time and It could make your life easier physically/socially/sexually and emotionally. At this point even both of my urologists assumed I'm circumcised (turns out i have a fairly short foreskin) so it should hopefully be possible for you to do it.
Don't stress guys, if you don't have a medical problem you should be fine.
Not sure how old you are, but coincidentally I basically outgrew my foreskin around high school. I guess as since my glans started to mushroom the skin has always just stayed behind the head unless I'm really cold. Now that I'm reading all of these messages, i guess I kinda get the best of both worlds bc I still get the awesome gliding action (which makes me precum a lot and helps keep the head moist during masturbation/sex) but nothing like a smell or buildup. (I've never actually seen smegma in person so I thought it was a third world thing where hygiene is difficult m.) And it makes life easier bc so many American men and women assume uncircumcised penises are ugly and "unsanitary" until you prove them otherwise -- I still remember getting teased for my "trunk" at the urinals as a kid. ( to the point that I remember guilt-tripping my dad for not circumcising me as a baby, which he found hilarious. Turns out people are just ignorant and now I'm glad he didn't!) Ultimately after I grew out of my foreskin post-puberty, by college my roommates thought I looked uncircumcised til I mentioned otherwise. (same for the locker room where I felt relief after the childhood sh*t. Esp one time m when I actually heard a dude tease his Hispanic friend about having such a long snout he could smuggle drugs across the border lol.)
Long story short; I'm not a doctor but you should probably start pulling it back slowly over time and It could make your life easier physically/socially/sexually and emotionally. At this point even both of my urologists assumed I'm circumcised (turns out i have a fairly short foreskin) so it should hopefully be possible for you to do it.
Don't stress guys, if you don't have a medical problem you should be fine.
Oops, I meant my roommates thought I was circumcised lol.
Hi guys, thanks that I found this auto circ thread!
I have few questions:
1. When i keep foreskin pulled back my glans turns black or black pink. Is this okay?
2. I enjoy masturbating like circumcised dude but after ejaculation the glans becomes painfully sensitive to touch even clothes. In that case i have to pull the foreskin up to cover up sensitivity. How do you guys mange this case cuz I want it to endure the pain and remain expose even after ejaculation. (May be in future I would get a circ but due to this I am unable to do so) Please help with any tips?
I have few questions:
1. When i keep foreskin pulled back my glans turns black or black pink. Is this okay?
2. I enjoy masturbating like circumcised dude but after ejaculation the glans becomes painfully sensitive to touch even clothes. In that case i have to pull the foreskin up to cover up sensitivity. How do you guys mange this case cuz I want it to endure the pain and remain expose even after ejaculation. (May be in future I would get a circ but due to this I am unable to do so) Please help with any tips?