Walk through for an anal sex newbie (female)

A lot of girls just simply dont like anal sex and never.. EVER.. will! if you want it to be easier on you and really want to try it, use LOTS of lube, like at least 2-3 times as much as you'de think you need.
2nd, have him finger your ass... lay there as relaxed as possible and have him finger your ass for a while, using toys or whatever to try and just loosen it up before he actually penetrates. If that doesnt work, there isn't much you can do.

buuut, i HAVE heard of some people using desensitizing products (like the ones that make guys not feel as much so they dont cum quickly) to numb it a little to make things easier.

hope this was more helpfull than it seemed when i re-read it

never use a desensitising agent/lubricant. this can lead to injury as you may not feel a rectal tear. the best way to avoid pain is to relax, take things slowly and use lots of lube.

Anal sex is the only form of intercourse i have. since ur new at this ur partner should stretch u, this might be uncomfortable at first but will feel better within time. Fingers should be covered in lube or lotion if u dont have lube, The first figure ur partner puts in should do an in and out motion, after awhile of this add another figure and do a scissoring motion, then add a third figure which should also do an in and out motion, then ur partner can penetrate(ur parnter should also be well lubricated, this will make it alot less painful), taking it slow of course, stopping at the base, as u get used to ur partner size then u can tell them to move, slow at first, picking up speed as u go along. and thats about it

Hope i helped

Well i dont know about you but i have only done anal a couple times..the first few we did in the shower the hot water running on my back while i was on my hands and knees and then he rubbed my back and id relax then he lift his peis up and just out it against the hole so i knew what he was gonna do then kept rubbing my back and while i was distracted he'd push in so i didnt notice as much then he took it really slow till i got used to it.......i he tried a new way the other day....if you try doggy style but go in vaginally for awhile till your nice and warmed up and excited then have him at some point pull out because you create your own lub then and move to that hole quickly so you dont knwo whats happening your already turnedd on and warmed up so your relaxed it slides in pretty easy. just make sure he doesnt just go at it when he does slide i you want to go very slow at first till your used to it otherwise it does hurt if he just inches in a little then pulls back and everytime goes just a little farther you will get use to it pretty fast then you just gotta enjoy