I know how you feel. I just had my abortion 1 week ago today. My parents forced me and scared my boyfriend into the same decision. We now see each other crying for little things that no one else sees. Like going to the mall and seeing a new born baby in his mothers arms, or see a happy glowing pregnant soon to be mommy. Its hard for me to have to deal with a lot of my emotions and feel like no one understands what im going through. But im lucky to have my boyfriend that everyday shows me how much he truly loves me and wants to have a family with me. All i can say is keep your head up girls, and your hearts open to love.
Everyone has a choice, a personal choice. Its a difficult choice, and maybe one you dont want to take, but a necessary one. Always remember to every choice their is a different outcome.
Love, Laura
Some times u don't know what you got till its gone
Sorry if I'm wrong here but I keep readin on forums that ur body needs months to heal is this an American doctors aftercare point?
Just that in England they say that ur body will take about 2 weeks to recover but u still might spot for two months and that pregnancy is possibly within the first week of an abortion same as it would be if u went full term with a pregnancy
honestly i don't see why people leave negative comments about abortions. if your against it that's fine it is YOUR OWN opinion so keep it to your damn self. It is their choice not yours. why bring a baby in the world if you aren't ready, there's enough unwanted babies out there. I'm pretty sure these women feel bad enough already without your in put.
if you have anything bad to say, get the f**k off.
K THANKS !
if you have anything bad to say, get the f**k off.
K THANKS !
Folks shouldn't be so judgmental. Ppl come on here for answers that's all. I don't no if yall mad cause yall cant have kids or wat but that's some u gotta take up wit God. At the end of the day the only judgment matter is from God wen that day arrive. A sin is a sin... Have yall sin? For we can past judment. Maybe somethings yall have did that was a sin we havent. Nobody is perfect so yall can kill that and kiss my ass cause i could careless. Yall put yall lil two cents in so am I. *tootles*
Yall folks can't tell nobody wat to do. i was always told that the only judgment count is God. These folks come on here for answers if yall aint trying to give it to them shut the f**k up. Ion no if yall cant have kids or wat yall need to take that up wit God. I think a sin is a sin. Can yall judgmental folks tell me yall sins for we can judge? But at the end of the day the only person we have to answer to is God wen that day come.
I'm 27, I was 9 weeks pregnant and broke up with the father 1 month ago. It was recommended by friends that I get an abortion because there was no way I would reconcile with the father plus my future career would be destroyed if I become a single mother. It was a rational choice but the gulit is killing me inside. I was a very charismatic and bright girl. Now I feel like a completely different person with thoughts if
suicide. Yesterday was mothers day, I felt particularly horrible. I want to tell the father but I doubt he would believe me but maybe it would ease my pain? I want to get pregnant again because it's all in think about and I'm willing to forgo my success to lessen my pain. I want to feel like a lively human again.
Everyone has there own reasons or beliefs for the decisions that they make, some have trouble with their decisions, some don't and then there are people like me that are broken after. My heart breaks for everyone out there that knows any of the feelings that I currently suffer with. These have been the hardest times of my life. My boyfriend and I found out 3 weeks ago that I was pregnant. I was violently sick for 2 weeks straight, almost hospitalized, severely dehydrated and unable to keep water down, let alone food. Luckily I work for a doctors office that provided wonderful advice for the sickness I was suffering with. Our pregnancy was completely unexpected and unplanned, as I had Mirena a very short time before. Due to health reasons I had Mirena removed. Mirena caused severe hair loss, uncontrollable acne breakouts, migraines/vision issues, insomnia, irregular menses, depression, nausea.... At this point, I was being treated for a rainbow of problems caused by my Mirena- feeling not so great, as walking pharmacies usually don't. Also, being on meds unsafe for a pregnancy . After having Mirena removed, testing determined that I could not get pregnant, since I had high testosterone levels with my labs, zero menses for about 8 months, etc. Back to working for a doctors office, there was a concern with my severe level of sickness was from an imbalance of some kind and many other health concerns that could be causing me to be so sick. Adding to the troubles, my boyfriend lost his job same day we found out I was pregnant, about 3 weeks into me being very ill and dehydrated. My initial thoughts with finding out I was pregnant was to get an abortion, this decision halted a few hours after taking in the news. I was excited and worried, like most women when they find out they are expecting. I was normal for one part of this very sick news and relieved there was not something wrong with me like stomach cancer, a thought that had gone through everyones mind at this point. I was happy, I was going to be a mom. Already planning what I needed to buy and how I was going to decorate! A few hours after finding out we were pregnant, we now find out that my boyfriend has been let go from his job. How can we keep a baby when he was fired? I haven't been to work in 3 weeks, because I am too sick for anything--- his mind was made up, we were not in the right place or ready for this. My heart desperately trying to grasp onto this.
Now, several days later, we have arrived at the clinic where my abortion is scheduled, my body wanting the sickness to be over, my heart and mind willing to quit my job and do whatever I needed to for the beautiful baby that was made from the love I shared with my boyfriend. So many times I cried while I waited for my appointment and turn- So many times I almost left..... Even as I voiced how I felt about the decision to abort, I stayed.... I cant begin to answer why- I lacked courage and conviction to stand up for what I felt and wanted. Afterwards, I couldn't take it back- I was suffering and I was changed by the experience. Changed and mentally unhealthy so many thoughts went through my head, wanting my life to be over so I could stop hurting. So lucky to have my boyfriend close by for support, but still not okay. It is so good to see so many people standing up strong, everyday I try, but everyday.... I read as****e posts, see commercials, babies, or pregnant couples- forever changed by the experience- I have never been so unsure or confused.
*****Tearing up writing this, the only reason for my post is to thank everyone that had something kind to say or shared their experience- rather than judging a board that was helpful. For a time when some may be having trouble living with themselves, every positive and kind word helps!
Now, several days later, we have arrived at the clinic where my abortion is scheduled, my body wanting the sickness to be over, my heart and mind willing to quit my job and do whatever I needed to for the beautiful baby that was made from the love I shared with my boyfriend. So many times I cried while I waited for my appointment and turn- So many times I almost left..... Even as I voiced how I felt about the decision to abort, I stayed.... I cant begin to answer why- I lacked courage and conviction to stand up for what I felt and wanted. Afterwards, I couldn't take it back- I was suffering and I was changed by the experience. Changed and mentally unhealthy so many thoughts went through my head, wanting my life to be over so I could stop hurting. So lucky to have my boyfriend close by for support, but still not okay. It is so good to see so many people standing up strong, everyday I try, but everyday.... I read as****e posts, see commercials, babies, or pregnant couples- forever changed by the experience- I have never been so unsure or confused.
*****Tearing up writing this, the only reason for my post is to thank everyone that had something kind to say or shared their experience- rather than judging a board that was helpful. For a time when some may be having trouble living with themselves, every positive and kind word helps!
i am in tears!i had one too recently and i want MY BABY BACK!Pro life,its the worst feeling in the world
Hi how did it go with your new baby. I am in the same boat. Really sad and regretting my decision to abort.It has been three months and I am thinking about a new baby, God willing. I will never forgive myself for abortion and am worried that a new baby isn't the answer.
I completely disagree do not judge until u have been through it yourself i hate people second guessing, she only asked a simple question not asking for abuse!
please, can abortion prevent someone from getting pregnant. i had an abortion on april and since then i have been trying to take in. please, what wil i do?
goodness2000 wrote:
i got married 2 months after the abortion.
Wild Orchid wrote:
Mshellface wrote:
I had an abortion on Jan 12 of this year. My husband and I started having sex again a week later. We want to get pregnant again. When would I be able to take a pregnancy test to find out if I'm pregnant? I was told a test would be positive at least 6 weeks after the abortion.
Why would you have an abortion and then decide immediately that you want to conceive again...?
Theres something very wrong with that, you dont seem to have the proper appreciation for human life!!
please, can abortion prevent someone from getting pregnant. i had an abortion on april and since then i have been trying to take in. please, what wil i do?
i got married 2 months after the abortion.
You are awesome.
My husband and I are going to be having a medically necessary termination of the baby that we have dreamed of for our 12 years of marriage. Our baby has severe wary complications as well as Down syndrome. With that being said, this decision didn't come lightly so I don't feel right being judged. With a very slim to no chance of survival rate we are making the best decision or our family. We believe the only way to heal com this situation is to do our best to continue to try to have a baby. Nothing is going to make us forget about our little one who was so unhealthy, but we want to start trying right away. We are not getting any younger and with multiple miscarriages before this, w know our chances are slim. Any advise, and words of encouragement? They would be greatly appreciated. We never dreamed we would be faced with such a hard decision, but this little baby doesn't deserve to suffer with such extreme heart complications.