I'm almost 13 and I started @ maybe 6 but it was only rubbing on a pillow once in awhile. My friend taught me the word but didn't know what it ment. Long story short: I found out what it was but I didn't know how to do it & thought that only adults (rarely) did it. I started playing around w/ my lady bits before everything clicked and I realized what I was doing. I just recently had my first orgasm using the shower head. This was just my experience yours might be different.
Don't try to rush things and don't think you have to stick anything up there if you're not comfortable. Feel around and experiment with some things. Some women don't like penetrating themselves for masturbation and if you are one of those women, don't feel ashamed for anything. It's usually best to get wet by watching adult films that can turn you on. Also, if you are asking how you can finger yourself or masturbate by sticking something up there, I suggest you start with a finger (a small finger like your pointer finger or even your pinkie if you feel you have to. ) be slow and gentle and know your limitations. It may or may not hurt at first but if you aren't comfortable with it, you don't have to. Don't try to do anything if you don't feel exactly the 'need' to. Some people like to hump things, some like to just feel around their clint, some like to use shower heads in certain ways and many others. I suggest you experiment with what you have but don't use ANYTHING that could be bad: Sharp objects, uncleaned objects, 'Toys' from other people that have not been properly clean, objects that could break during masturbation, and anything that could harm you if you have sensitive skin. I hope this helped you! I hope you know what you need to! Don't feel ashamed to ask! It's ALL natural!
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I'm 13 right now and I started around 11/12. I always knew it felt good to rub myself and sometimes I would press around my vagaina when I was younger but I had no clue what the hell I was doing, I just knew it felt good. I successfully masturbated around 11/12 because I Remeber accidentally clickin this porn add. And the girl started rubbing her clit so I copied her. I Remeber being like damn that felt good. It also helpt me sleep. So like every night I would masturbate to help me fall asleep when I was 12. Now I just do it when I'm bored or randomly get turned on. I usually just find some good porn and rub my clit till I'm orgasm. But recently I started fingering myself and oh my god it's so much better then just rubbing urself. It's pretty tight but I once was able to fit 3 fingers inside me and it was the best thing ever, I just have to be REALLLY wet for it to work.
My name is casey, I'm 13 and I started masturbatin about a year ago and I've never tried humping but usually I master bate after porn. I usually just do some fingering every other night or so but I never actually made myself cum or have an orgasm. Anyone have any ideas how I could?