You can’t really be set on a number. It’s not about age as much as it is about when they are ready to explore and you as a parent feel comfortable communicating to them about being safe and appropriate
8 is just a number. It’s more about when a girl is ready and needs to know the proper and safe ways to masterbate.
I agree 100 percent!
Same i been doing that since a young age and didn't realize what i was doing then my mom would tell me to stop but i do it in secret i feel u like the feel its so good
Thank you vary much.
Thanks for the pointer.
Welcome! It’s all about the intentions and their safety
Well put and may I add just to have their best interest in mind always and encourage privacy mostly. Privacy is huge because of how sensitive the act is and sexual exploration can make others feel awkward and make others assume wrongful actions and intentions are being done and there’s a danger that should be reported when in reality if done with best intentions almost always there’s good results and useful and important knowledge explored. These normal acts and necessary conversations are the best things for our young ones if we love them and want to lead them into there new feelings safely.
In alll respect, that’s the thing, It’s not and shouldn’t be about what you think. It’s their body. Your job is for you to guide your child into safely discovering themselves and their feelings as they become ready and curious not when you’re ready.
Yeah as a parent myself and as a doctor I would have encouraged you to explore yourself and suggest safe ways to go about masterbating rather than telling you to stop. Her telling you to stop only persuaded you to explore and act in secret and without guidance. It’s important to know the risk and the proper ways to go about masterbating. The significance of privacy while touching yourself and what your sexual experiences can eventually lead into when not having an outlet or a person to confide in that understands your feelings and has your best interest in mind. Not saying it will, but your misguidance could potentially lead you into experimenting with others and could get you raped, or give you an STD or end up getting you pregnant when you’re not ready. I myself care very much about my kids that I’d even be willing to use myself as an outlet for there safety since I have a vasectomy. At least I’d know they would be safe from pregnancy, std’s, and other possible and unrealized dangers.
Hi! I’m a 15 year old female.
I found out about masturbating when I was 11 and decided to try it when I was around 13. At the time I had no idea how to, so naturally, I looked towards pornhub. I found that I don’t get sexually aroused, and I still don’t to this day. Back then I tried to do so anyways, I knew that many of the girls around me already tried it and I wanted to fit it, know how it feels and was generally curious when I saw the women in the videos feeling so great!
I tried it and nothing happene,d I didn’t feel turned on, it didn’t feel good for me, it was mildly uncomfortable, and I just felt grossed out.
Now, aged 15, I still don’t masturbate. I have tried a few times but for me personally I just don’t like it, and I’ve accepted that. Perhaps the time will come and maybe it won’t, and that’s fine.
There’s no set age to start masturbating, and you aren’t obligated to enjoy it either, just work at your own pace, try learning techniques that work for you and don’t force yourself trying something that’s uncomfortable, but I encourage those who are curious to just find a private spot, and some time to just learn about your body.
Masturbating is a good way to get started for tons of people, girls and boys alike, you only need yourself, and you know your own pressures and sensitivity. Plus no diseases, and you can stop when you want.
But if it just doesn’t suit you, like it does me, then don’t force it. Try again some other time if you feel like it, and just take your time
I was 11 years old when my parents went out to dinner and had our neighbors daughter come and babysit while they were out. I couldn’t help but notice her sitting on out couch with her hand down the front of her unzipped pants moving very quickly. I remember her going to the kitchen and washing her hands only to realize when I got a little older that she was masterbaiting.
Thank you for your honesty. Very good information to have
How old are you?
I was the same way but maybe a year or so younger. it soon began a nightly routine i found i fell asleep much quicker after i cum.