Same I'm 13 and I started masturbating and I can't seem to find something to use btw I am a girl
It could happen
Black canvas I can’t find my clit. Is it by my vagina or at the top?
Hi.
Learn to explore your vulva (the outer part of your vagina what includes the lips or labia the clitoral hood, clitoris urethra and vagina entrance) first by sitting in the floor in front a mirror with your knees bent up and legs apart so you can see what you are doingand it will help you find it, starting by spreading your labia (lips) going from the top is the clitoral hood under that is the clitoris if you put a finger either side push I and pull up towards your tummy it will make your clitoris stick out a bit more and easier to see otherwise its normally hard to see just like a tiny pink spot, the more you get turned on the bigger it should get and more sensitive, below that is the urethra opening where you pee from and just below that is the vagina opening.
Hope this helps, you can always Google where to find the clitoris and that will show diagrams or feel free to ask any more questions you have and I'll try to answer them for you.
It is also something that is first experienced as a small child that when they touch there genitals in a certain place and way it feels good.
Not everyone who enjoys masturbation from a young age has not found it out from being sexually assaulted, now days it's mostly because porn is so deadly available and they copy what they see.
hi I am 13 to I masterbate every night before I go to sleep I don't have vibrators but I wish I did I use a highlighter it helps me squirt you should use a highlighter but use a soft one .