I don't get much from depth, though the length does come in handy in all sorts of ways. For instance, the poor man's f*****g machine: stick a long hard (~12") dildo and a short (~6-10") one either side onto the face of a draw, then use the longer one as a handle to f**k yourself.
I often warm up f*****g a large butt-plug. Of course you have to care that if you stretch to much limit then you will really be too sore to get off probably. I was really overtop for a long time, a total s*** I bought the biggest dildo in my small town store in just a few months and would desperately force it. Aaaaanyway. Yep, girth seems to be the way as long as you're opening the second sphincter. That can be a real pain in the ass at first, like level 2 difficulty compared to the voluntary one.
Anal orgasm for me tends to be very dry as the process of f*****g usually brutally forces my fluids out. I'm sure I'd release them if they were in there. But I think this is like the 'basic' anal orgasm, because it is like a strong penile orgasm with no refraction. And oh yea, I am still using the newbie strategy where you edge your penis and then f**k yourself over it. So I'm probably just getting weak prostate orgasms and sphincter euphoria. I've read around a fair bit and the sum of this thread is pretty much the truth.
I was frustrated since I am on HRT and felt sex was getting to be one sided. My erections were maybe half hard and i'd usually rub it and imagine it was a clitoris as a guy took me from behind. So I heard about anal or prostate orgasm and I went out to try and discover what it was.
I tried the massagers they sell, the ones you just put in like a plug and found minimal pleasure, then I started to try and hold it and rub the tip against my prostate and i did get some warming sensations and a slight feeling I had to pee and this turned me off to be honest. And then I bought one of those g-spot vibrators with the round tip and really nice vibrations. I stood over the toilet in case I started to pee. When the sensation came I relaxed and felt some pleasure out of it, clear fluid dripped from my penis and that was it. I kept trying as it felt good it just wasn't satisfying.
And then I was playing a video game and the area where my prostate is felt wonderfully warm. I tightened myself and it felt really good. I went to bed and tried to use the toy and the peeing sensation came back quicker and a slight cramping like I had to poop (I douche my colon regularly and knew I didn't had to poop though)
I went to the bathroom, stood up and just thrusted with the round head angled where my prostate is. After maybe six minutes I felt something come over me. I can't describe the beauty of the feeling I felt so pretty and good thing I was alone because I moaned, my legs shook and the orgasm I had was so good.
I suggest you discover your body, know where your prostate is, do tightening exercises. If it gets warm and you are training go and massage it, it's a level of arousal you're not used to. Embrace being on the receiving end of sex helps too. I think straight guys had issues with this and that is why they have trouble having an anal O.
I hope this helps! <3
I am a bisexual male, and I have had two partners that were able to give me intense anal orgasms. The first one was the most shocking. He was penetrating me doggystyle and we had been at it for a good 20 minutes or so. Then, I got this weird feeling in my anal cavity - wasn't pain, I just didn't know what it was. I tried to stop him, but he said take it a little more, and since it wasn't pain, I held out a few minutes more.
Then I had this feeling like I had taken something like a small messy bowel movement, follow by intense waves of pleasure through my anal area and lower abdomen, right through my stomach, and caused my legs to shake. It was extremely intense - nothing feels like an anal orgasm and you'll definitely know when you have one. It does not feel anything like a prostate orgasm in my opinion. An anal orgasm is far more mind blowing.
I was a bit embarrased because I thought i had made a mess, even though I always douche for taking anal. However, I had not had a bowel movement, I had a huge load of anal cream that gushed out from the orgasm. He was wearing a condom so no it was not him, but it does smell a little like cum. Talk to a doctor - yes it is physically possible. It's basically the mucus that coats your anal walls.
It happened with one guy multiple ocassions, and it was always several of them. I have only had them in doggystyle position or sitting on top and riding facing the top. Like others have mentioned, they last much longer than penile orgasms - you can feel it even after you've stopped. However, I normally do not release any fluids from my penis as others have mentioned. The anal ejaculate was anywhere from off white to pale yellow color. It may have come about due to prostate stimulation, but when the anal orgasm hits, you feel it everywhere. Here are my tips.
1. It may take a while to get there. For me, I had to be totally relaxed and allow myself to fully bottom with no worries. You don't need to be banged like porn star, but you do need to be relaxed enough to get a rhythm going with your partner. The penetration should feel good. I had been having anal sex for years before I had an anal orgasm. For me, it is a combination of calm, good, sustainable rhythm, and the ability to relax and let go.
2. as an aside to number 1, this is why voiding, douching, or some form of enema is really helpful, because you'll have confidence that you're clean, and that confidence will help you to relax.
( i have not ever been able to do this with toys).
that being said, despite using an aneros and toys i never managed to have a big O.
It was always building up but eventually running out of steam,
Recently bought something that changed my life haha - a thick 8/9' dildo with suction cup.
I used it in the bathroom for several months and it was great whilst masturbating. However i soon got bored and experimented with it in different locations.
I started putting it on the spare bedroom room, and the reaching behind me to move the door (and dildo). It basically felt like it was someone else doing it, as usually your arms get tired haha
I started doing it a bit more and more, and one time suddenly i seemed to hit upon something. Basically - straight legs, bend over and straighten your back, and ensure dildo is at the right height on the door. Use the f**king motion with the door so it feels like someone else and keep messing around till it feels good. and lots of lube when needed. If you get it right all of a sudden you start having massive contractions, and i tend to tense up and push out whilst doing this, with the dildo going in and out. All of sudden massive waves of pleasure build up and then you start swearing! Its good as you can control the pace if you need back off a little, but when you reach the apex suddenly loads of clear fluid shoots from your penis, and it keeps coming the more you F**K yourself. (forgive my language!). And you can keep going and going until you literally can't take any more, or mother nature stops you ;)
Absolutely life changing pleasure, and am so happy that my experiments have finally paid off!
The thought of a DILDO up there causes me to press my cheeks together, while saying "no way, Jose!!
Women with the right equipment sounds so good right now.
I had experimented with anal dildos with some success, where achieving orgasm happened some of the time, although when it happened it was an above average one. I escalated the experimentation with the acquisition of an Invader XL f*****g machine. Mounted with a 10" long by 2" diameter dildo, I can now regularly achieve my "big-O". These orgasms last 30-45 seconds and can be more accurately described as a sequence of three to four very intense, all body seizure, rolling orgasms. What's even more fantastic is after a15-20 minute break, the whole scenario can be repeated. Over a typical 3 hour period, 10 to 12 triple orgasm "big-O" happen like clockwork. It is actually very exhausting.
A precursor to the machine f*****g is a thorough evacuation of the bowels via multiple enemas. This has the immediate effect of clearing out the unwanted waste, but also is essential because the rectum becomes very agitated, and very sensitive to stimulus. Without the pre-agitation to make the rectum sensitive to the dildo thrusts, the "big-O's" are severely dampened.
Size and speed matters. The dildo has to be big, but not extreme. It needs to go deep, up to the edge of the upper rectum. My technique starts out with five very slow thrusts, and then gradually increase the tempo to medium speed. Finally, I put the machine on full, about 12 thrusts every 10 seconds, and my body immediately goes into full orgasm. The rectum constricts but the machine keeps thrusting the dildo, and the deepest part of the orgasmic wave begins where the orgasmic seizure begins, which last for a little over 10 seconds, and then the cycle repeats itself at least two more times, sometimes a third, for three to four rolling orgasms in a row. Again, after a 15-20 minute break, the process can be repeated, where the sequence is the most intense and hour or two of this cyclic process.
It is absolutely amazing.