how do girls masturbate cause i am 14 and want to cause i cant get the real thing so i was wondering how to masturbate good?
Rub your clit, go inside with your fingers. Everyone's different.
Just explore those intimate areas of your body. There is no right or wrong method, so just experiment.
Well it depends on what you want and what you enjoy. Ill list a few examples and feel free to try any of them.
Clit Stimulation: The clit is the little "hanging" part of the vagaina. It is situated above the labias. I very common style of masturbation is rubbing it. Some like to rub it through thier underwear , other like to rub it naked. Some like to do it in the shower or bath where they use water to do the rubbing. Some use lube , others just do it naturaly. Its a good way to get turned on and prepare for more energetic masturbation.
Penetration : This is when you take something ex. your finger(s) , dildo , or anything else and penetrate the vagaina. This is a very popular meathod. Start off slow , then when you get wetter , get deeper and go faster. Do this to your liking but be careful , it isnt recomended to start with penetration unless your tool , finger or vagaina are well lubricated naturaly.
How to:
1. Get yourself in the mood.
You need to be very relaxed and only think about whats infront of you. Insure your privacy and make sure that the door is locked and that there is nothing to disturb you. Most women start by lying down on thier back and spreading thier legs. You can remove all or some of your clothing , whatever gets you in the mood. Its also recomended that you places a blanket underneith your body so that its easy and fast to tidy up.
2. Fantasize.
Think of something that turns you on. For older women , think about previous sexualy events or maybe sexual dreams you have. Think of anything that gets you in the mood. For younger girls , if you havnt had any sexual experiences , dream something up , think of something you would love to try out. How strange or wierd it is , think about it if it makes you turned on. If this dosnt help , read some erotic stories , or maybe look at some erotic fotos. Another very popular version is , watching adult movies which gives you ideas and can turn you on.
3. Explore and touch your body.
This is part where you start your contact with your body , this is the part where you excite yourself . For some women , touch thier niples gives that igniting touch. For first time girls , you should look at your body in the mirror and get to know it. If you arnt very sure what your parts are called , look up diagrams. Once your in your comfortable possition start to rub , touch tickle , pull on your genitals or anyother sensetive parts of your body. When you start getting wet and your breathing quickens , go onto the next step.
4. Get into it.
Now that your wet enough , if you want to you can use one or a couple fingers to pentrate your vagaina. Rock your body in the way you would during intercourse. Breath deeply because this releases sexual energy and prolongs the adventure. If your hands get tired , switch hands or use a vibrator , this will save you from alot of manual labor and increase the feeling of reality. If you cant get over the hill , increase the stimulation , touch your nipples , or use more fingers.
5. Finishing up.
When you start the orgasm , keep on stimulating becuase there will be "aftershocks". The orgasm will either come as a blips or blasts , depends on the girl. If you dont orgasm on the first try , DONT worry , practice will make perfect so keep on at it. If it works just keep on stimulating and enjoy orgasm after orgasm.
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JamesB.
hi I'm 15 years old and I've been masturbating for a matter of months now and I've tryed humping pillows, rubbing my clitoris, penetration and even breast masturbation those are pretty affective.
Rub your clit
Fingering
Remember to enjoy the moment
Fingering
Remember to enjoy the moment
I'm 14 and I've been masturbating for 5 years. I first started off rubbing "down there" now knowing what clitora is. When I was watching tv late at night I found porn and felt this weird sensation and I didn't know what was going on so I freaked out, ran to the bathroom, and found I was very, very wet. I then went back and started rubbing my clitora and had an amazing, breath taking orgasm for the first time. I've been doing that for about 3 years to scared to do anything else because I didn't know what was going to happen. When I lost my virginity I started experimenting more, and more often with masturbating. I used this empty perfume tin thing called primo that was the perfect size. I was aware of infections so I washed it with soap and water very thoroughly. (I advise you to or else you might get an infection down there that would be very hard to explain to your parents(: lol) You could also use a shower head or a bathtub nozzle thing to get the job done(: good luck with everything! ;)
Rub your clit
1) get in the mood: find a dark space and lock the door. Maybe even light some candles
2) get naked: strip down and relax
3) rub your clit: rub till you find a spot that feels good to you.
Tip> vibrators or a electric toothbrush work best.
Hope I helped!!
2) get naked: strip down and relax
3) rub your clit: rub till you find a spot that feels good to you.
Tip> vibrators or a electric toothbrush work best.
Hope I helped!!