how over selfpleasuring ruined my sex life causing premature ejaculation n how i treated it .

Thanks a lot, when I am reading your post I swear that is just like if I am telling my life, I passed from the same situation exactly the same, the only diferecne that I am now without girl friend because mine she is travelling for her study, other one that I am PhD student in Math so you can imagine my actual life. I think now I cannot practice the reverse masturbation or the squieze technique because I am alone, but what I am certain of is that I will stop masturbating, I hope that god will help in this. My advice for you is to never let go your girlfriend because she helped you to became a man so take care of her. Other thing is we the young should try to fight against the porno industry at to protect the next generation maybe our future sons. I would like if we can chat or speak directly to share more details. thanks.

hey hey! now.I have all the situations. I don't know when I started masturbation but it sure was long time ago. am not married yet. never had a girlfriend.(afraid of girls still at 27 years of age a virgin) I have fatigue joint pain especially knee.( I still think I have arthritis's though) back pain stress...you name it. plus I smoke and drink a little.any way I have a screwed up life plus I am not athletic and so I am skinny short but not too short. I always think I am a girls night mare when it comes to being a boyfriend. I will definitely try to stop now and see if my pain is from that. so when do I see changes in my joint pains.

I feel you bro. Im kind of embarrassed of saying this but ive been masturbating at the age of oh 7 . (maybe ayoung age for people lol) and i masturbated like 1-3 times a day. Yes it felt like the greatest thing to me since i was a kid. Now im about 15 years nd i can last for about 1 through 5 minutes masturbating to porn, naked pictures ,etc. This started when i was about 14 years. I found out this was when i had sex with my girlfriend who loved me like i was the only guy on earth, but i lasted about 5 minutes when i used to last about 15 minutes to an hour. I felt embarrassed i couldn'tthinks straight. Luckily she jist laughed (like teasing me)but she didnt know that i was a premature ejaculator. I was embarrased and was afraid to have sex with anygirl. Later on i kept masturbating and i started hanging outwith my friends ex (i didn't break up with my girlfriend). We were like close friends and wen i hug her i feel like i might ejaculate (sometimes i have) well she never noticed so i was of the hook. I kept felling scared about this so i tried to stop masturbating and once highschool came i broke up with my girlfriend finding out she was cheating on me. That gave me a push to stop masturbating but sometimes it doesnt stop me from masturbating. Now i just masterbate like once to 3 times a week. Well im tring to stop for good cause this still haunts my thoughts so i just hang put with girls as friends and if i do date one i try to stay away from having sex with them. Well i cn relate to you and almost any guy with this problem. I know i maybe young and all its kinda hard for me to stop cause i feel like im a sex addicted teen

I feel you bro. Im kind of embarrassed of saying this but ive been masturbating at the age of oh 7 . (maybe ayoung age for people lol) and i masturbated like 1-3 times a day. Yes it felt like the greatest thing to me since i was a kid. Now im about 15 years nd i can last for about 1 through 5 minutes masturbating to porn, naked pictures ,etc. This started when i was about 14 years. I found out this was when i had sex with my girlfriend who loved me like i was the only guy on earth, but i lasted about 5 minutes when i used to last about 15 minutes to an hour. I felt embarrassed i couldn'tthinks straight. Luckily she jist laughed (like teasing me)but she didnt know that i was a premature ejaculator. I was embarrased and was afraid to have sex with anygirl. Later on i kept masturbating and i started hanging outwith my friends ex (i didn't break up with my girlfriend). We were like close friends and wen i hug her i feel like i might ejaculate (sometimes i have) well she never noticed so i was of the hook. I kept felling scared about this so i tried to stop masturbating and once highschool came i broke up with my girlfriend finding out she was cheating on me. That gave me a push to stop masturbating but sometimes it doesnt stop me from masturbating. Now i just masterbate like once to 3 times a week. Well im tring to stop for good cause this still haunts my thoughts so i just hang put with girls as friends and if i do date one i try to stay away from having sex with them. Well i cn relate to you and almost any guy with this problem. I know i maybe young and all its kinda hard for me to stop cause i feel like im a sex addicted teen but i do truly want to stop the p.e problems.

Dude, google kegel exercises for men, you have an underworked kegel, that's what controls ejaculation. You just work that thing out, your penis will be hard as rock, and you'll control the cum flow.

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Thanks a lot for sharing this.I am 23 years of age and masturbating from 16,almost daily..but recently i am suffering from side effects like semen leakage,testicular pain and Erectile dysfunction.i thought stopping masturbation would reverse the effects and i am under homeopatic drugs..but there seems no improvement,only a slight..i am very tensed..please help me.i also want to know if this effects can be really reversed and how??please help me..

does kegel excercise really work...?please reply

thanks a lot bro ... very useful .
i do it twice a week and now i will never do . m 21 . is my sex life will remain good in future ?

AMAZING ....... I CANT THANK YOU ENOUGH. I NOW THINK I FINALLY FOUND A SOLUTION TO MY PROBLEM AND AM PROMISING MY SELF NEVER TO MASTURBATE AGAIN. WITH YOUR LESSONS I WILL IMPROVE MY RELATIONSHIP. THANKS MY BROTHER........ YOU AND YOUR FAMILY WILL LIVE LONG.....

Thanks for this piece. Thank you for opening this dialogue, one that many have felt so embarrased to admit publicly. I think you reproduced my life story! i started masturbating accidentally at 17...and since then I never stopped. Initially, I masturbated llike 3 times a day...then when I started noticing erection weakness, I kinda reduced it to once a day. But at a point, i noticed  could not even penetrate...I would have a very solid erection during foreplay but on trying to penetrate, it will shrink. I withdraw from girls because I felt embarrassed n even scared.

At 24, I made a conscious effort to stop the act...for like 2 or 3 months, i didnt masturbate but then I started again. i became so addicted to it. I tried all herbal stuffs to help me get erection for penetration but all to no avail. I spent somuch money....somuch money. At a point, i think at 26yrs, i was even duped during my search for a solution. And the money was huge!

I have sarched n researched extensively for a cure to weak erection especially one caused by masturbation and especially one that refuses to penetrate. But last year, after a very storng conviction, i put a stop to masturbation for good. And then I came across this site a few weeks back. Now, 30, still a virgin of course, I am wondering if there is a way to regain my penis back. I definitely will try out the tricks you mentioned but I strongly hope it works.

Masturbation has ruined many pple's lives yet silly reseacrhers n doctors keep saying it is not harmful...it is more harmful dan cancer...Thank God I v stopped it...I am on a mission to regain my penis and  dont care how long or in which manner it happens, i just want my penis back...I would really appreciate if you could help me in this regard. Cheers

This is very informative, just something to consider though, why do porn stars or just people who generally have sex a lot not suffer similar symptoms? Surely semen will be depleted in the same manner as with masturbation? Thank you for the post, I found it very helpful.

can u pls tell me the name of Herbal medicine available in india.

Thanks

Hello, I hope that you visited an eurologue, because it can be also due to some disease, or skin disease that you took from some girls that you screwed before. but the problem can be just in your head, you must paid a girl or a w**** to help you, but just don't f**k her to don't take more desease. ( just some isolated forplay) as you i can see in your message you have erection on foreplay, witch is very good, then the problem is sur in your head, you watched a lot of perverted porn so it became hard for you to like a normal sex, it's clear.
I hope that you will find a solution sooner, my best wishes.

I advice you to be a man, and to resist to your attempt, till you will get married. Never masturbate you will destroy your life. I am 28 year old and I suffered a lot from masturbation. And you should know that if you don't masturbate you will have more chance with girls, and more likely to find a gf very fast.

Goo timing, you can stop it now, you have all your chances.