how over selfpleasuring ruined my sex life causing premature ejaculation n how i treated it .

I am a woman who can b tell you. .. 1. Weed n alcohol causes ed. Also...b it's normal to be inexperienced and come fsdt when u first start doing it. Later u ll get used to it. Also, not all women will stay because some ppl want true love and to be deeply intimate with a man. Not just haveorgasms. They are a body function, not a means to happiness. Good to get more experienced and leave the masturbating to a minimum tho and theb porn mild so you don't have to watch weird sh*t to come like clowns or girls crying lol.

Thanks for article do you have any names for the herbal medicine?

brother if you are here please let me know i want some help from you brother. hope you will reply me soon or you can just mail me 

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Excellent bro... I am 22 and I am facing the same condition as yours.. All the things you said is now happening in my life.. Like back pain, excessive memory loss and offcourse PE.. Thanks for your article.. It really was a huge help.. Thanks a lot bro... God bless you..

Is there any way I can email you?

Its good information.am looking for this only i got satisfied on reading this and i am also suffering from same but now onwards something needs to be done to end it.

yeah its informative. well i am 14 and live in pakistan ,after reading it i will stop mastubating,and it almost a year that i have started mastubating

Hey bro first of fall i thanks so much you sharning your experience and help other people. My first question is this why science dont accept masturbation has side effect and why it is difference between masturbation and intercourse and i do intercourse in weak 2 times then intercourse can cause of masturbation side effect.

I don't know how to start ....but the tot of me not getting a happy married life ever scares me to death especially bcos I found the love of my life! but Im afraid to let her know Im suffering the same problem, Im afraid I will loose her forever . I got to know this as the cause of my problem for about four years now and what haven't I done? Masturbation has really ruined my life but Im not giving up

From ordering drugs from USA and India to visiting homeopathic clinics and urologist. I have virtually spent lots of my savings trying to reserve this.

Thanks for giving Me hope once again.I realized u shared this about a year ago.Can you kindly share your progress with Us?

Im 13 years old and i have been jacking off about every day twice a day. I was juat looking stuff up about premature ejaculation and i found this. You have helped me so much and im so glad that i know that this is bad for me. Thank u so much!!!!!!

The best advice is to be yourself, own every part of you. You will come to find that this "problem" is incredibly more important to you than it will be to her. Porn probably has more to do with this, it's entertainment, they are professional, it's their job to "f**k like a pornstar". Our generation is growing up thinking that to be normal is to be able perform like you're a porn star. Most men aren't and when we realize that we probably won't be able to live up to this unrealistic standard that WE have imposed on ourselves, we can become obsessed with it. Most women aren't thinking like this but we think that they are. Don't get me wrong, some of them definitely have obsessions and fear of not reaching some unrealistic standard that they have taken as their own and given it top priority.

The best remedy for your problem is experience, which you may never get if you're paralyzed by this fear. It's okay to be scared, she probably is just as scared as you are gonna be on a first time together. You must tell her about this thing you're dealing with and she will laugh at how much it matters to you. If you accept this thing and own it, she will too. If you're self esteem is really low and you are embarrassed about this thing and don't talk to her about it, then you will have problems getting into relationships because you don't like yourself. I encourage you to explore your fears and really look and see if they are as important to the opposite sex as you think they are.
Its almost guaranteed that you will just plain suck at sex the first time you attempt. If you own that and be ok with who you are, you will instantly become more attractive to women.

Peace

U took all this effort to explain in such detail. Firstly, you are lucky to have such a good girlfriend. Secondly, you did a great job finding out the root cause and working towards reversing it. Hope you have a good sexual future. How are you doing with your girl? Have a good future.

Hi iv read some of the stories on here and they fell so similar. I think i started masturbating before i could ejactulate really young. Used to watch hardcore porn from such a young age up till now 28. And seemed i have always masturbated vigorously aswell. Doing this over years and years has probably made me have premature ejactulation. It got so bad one of my ex gfs left because of it but at the start of relationship sex was amazing. I also suffer with anxieyt which also plays a big part. I just want to know how i can have a normal sex life. I avoid girls because i just think about finally having sex and coming too quick. Seems only time i can have normal sex is when drunk with some form of tablet. I just want to cure this PE

Also how can i cure this without a gf :(

I am a53 year old who masturbates constantly I have had sex afew times 28 years ago. I ejaculate alot quicker now than when I was in my twenties. The main problem with masturbating is that for some people it can become an addiction. For me I will always be addicted and spend the rest of my life as a wanker.