Use flood like cucumber or something that is the shape of a penis. I've done it and I've squirted several times, IT FEELS REALLY GOOOOOOOOD!
I just watch por n videos and I get aroused and wet under there. I'm a 13 year old girl
i hold my clit in between two fingers and then rub up and down i lean back close my eyes and bite my lip and think of the things i want to do with my crush ;)
I have seen your other post as well, and I know you are older now, and hope you have found some answers, but...
No pun intended, but if you stick with it, these things come in time. The brain is really good at figuring out what feels good, and losing what doesn't work so well. Sex feels good for a reason; we are SUPPOSED to like it. So, like anything that we are driven to do again and again, we LEARN how to make it work better over time. You might consider shifting your focus away from your clitoris though (hidden between your vaginal lips), and onto somewhere else beyond the obvious -- nipples, belly, inner thighs. Have you slipped a finger or two inside yourself to massage your G-Spot? It is the rough-feeling place on the upper inside of your vagina, kind of just "behind" your clitoris. It sort of feels like the roof of your mouth. This rough spot is meant to excite both you and your lover (Nature is assuming it's a male here) by stimulating the coronal ridge of his penis to bring him to orgasm (to ejaculate his sperm) inside you. But you can massage it yourself to lovely, intense effect, and bring yourself to orgasm from this alone. In concert with your clit and nipples etc., you should be able to get there on a regular basis.
But remember, your orgasm is not just driven by your clit (or your nipples, your belly button, your anus, your mouth -- whatever). In short, the physical sensations you create with your fingers are only a PART of what goes into your orgasm. Most of it is actually in your head. Your BRAIN, your MIND really drives your body when it comes to orgasms. The brain takes the sensations you create and mixes them with memories, fantasies, images and other stuff in your mind to begin the process that culminates in orgasm. A lot has been written about that, here and elsewhere, but it bears repeating. Orgasm is a delicate dance you do with yourself. Lots of things go into making it happen, including strong feelings of love for a partner. Lots of things can also get in the way -- subconscious fear of punishment, thoughts of being "bad", etc., even desires for a particular, absent partner can distract you or detract from the pleasure you want and deserve. You need to give yourself PERMISSION -- the freedom -- to have and enjoy the orgasm(s) you deserve.
So, keep exploring the sensations you can create, and Good Luck!
Exactly! I am a young girl and I like to masturbate a lot but I want to know if there's a way that I don't have to stick anything up. I am waiting until my paretns are gone to try and hump a pillow but for now I only rub and use the shower. Any other way? Pls help!!
Although many girls achieve orgasm through external (i.e., clitoral, nipple) stimulation alone, since your vagina (and associated sensory apparatus, like your clitoris) was DESIGNED to respond to having the male genital organ inside it, you may find that you cannot avoid having SOMETHING inside you in order to provide enough sensation to reliably bring you to orgasm -- your fingers, the handle of a hairbrush, etc. -- in short, anything that allows you to bear down and grip it with your vaginal muscles to heighten the stimulation of your G-Spot as your excitement builds. Remember, orgasm performs a necessary function during sex in that it can produce muscular contractions that can flood the area with lubrication and aid the sperm in traveling more quickly and surely to their target. As for clitoral stimulation alone, keep in mind the comments above regarding what is in your MIND. Fantasies -- focusing on someone you desire to be intimate with (it can be anyone) -- go a long way toward sliding you over that glorious precipice into orgasm. If you WANT that person, if you can imagine what they could be doing do your body, and what you would do to theirs, if you can FEEL the warmth and closeness of them against you, if you LOVE them (even from afar) you can cum for them, you can cum with them, and achieve one of the most amazing things we've been given to experience as humans beings.
Hi am 13 I really. Want. To know how to masterbate and have a orgasm I usually. Juss use a vibrating. Toothbrush and rub it on my clit till I get excited but its is too short I want to have a long experience.reply soon thx
You might consider looking into the idea of "edging". That is, you bring yourself as close to orgasm as you can stand (by whatever means suits you) and then you STOP, and allow the sensations to subside for a moment, before beginning again. The length of time it takes you to approach your orgasm AGAIN depends on how long you wait to resume your stimulation. It's kind of like skipping a stone -- the trick is to see how many times you can restart and repeat your masturbation before you actually can't stop from going over the EDGE and giving in to a full-blown orgasm. By the way, the longer you delay it, the more massive and shattering it can usually be.
In short, it's all in your hands as to how long it does or does not take you to cum. Experiment, alone or with a friend, and enjoy the play!