I thank you for this post. I'm in the same boat...I fell in love with a much younger. He's around 25 or 26 years old, I'M 50 SO something. He use to be my Physical Therapist in Rusk Rehab center in Columbia mo. I can't stop thinking of him.. and were so far away from each other. We'll never see each other again and that hurts.
Thank you, Debbie
Did you have a sexual relationship?
No we never did. We were in the bathroom of my hospital room's bathroom and we were going to kiss, but, I had to go to the bathroom bad, and we said fine and stored out of the bathroom.
You sound like you are vulnerable at the moment, especially if you are in hospital. He sounds like he is afraid to lose his job?
I'm not dismissing this out of hand, but, when you have had a proper sexual relationship with someone for a prolonged period of time, like I had, then it hurts when it ends.Yours did not start, and you may have feelings for this man, but, you need to get yourself better and in time your life will return to normal.Maybe he did want to kiss you, but, the timing was bad.
I'm a 48 yr young woman in excellent shape most people think I'm 38, he is 26. We have known eachother as strictly friends for 3 yrs and we know now that we have always been very attracted to eachother (he explains it as weak in the knees or drunk feeling). We did not act on it until 5 months ago because his mom is my sisters best friend and I too am very close to her. I am falling in Love with him!!! I am very torn about this situation on one hand I feel I need to let him go and let him find some young girl to Love, Marry, and have kids with thats only fair right???? On the other hand I want him for the rest of my life to love and cherish. It tears me up daily we are so good together, we make eachother happy, we laugh, we act silly, we have deep hours long conversations, we have AMAZING sex I understand him he understands me we can be totally honest with eachother!! Just not the rest of the world because I am sooooo afraid of losing his mom as a friend and he is afraid of what my family will think of him (mostly my nephew who is only 5 yrs younger and they are good friends too)....Im so torn I know what I should do but my heart doesnt want to!!! Please tell me how your situation turns out!!!!
I am 46 and he is 25 so how you think I feel but they are telling me the opposite. they are telling me not to give him up because they see how much he cares for me and he doesn't hide it
I fell in love with my physical therist. He's so cute and sexy and his name is Will Bishop and I love him very much. He I thought loved me just the same, he many times showed he did. He is about 25 or 26 years of age.
It hurts to live without him.
Thanks for listening everyone.:'(
welcome to this forum
Hello and how is everyone tonight. I am 29 and have been dating a older woman for 3 years. She is now 41. To be to the point. I want to get her pregnant. She has 2 kids that are 19 and 16. I am in love with her. She is on the marina insertion birth control. She is due to have it replaced with a new one. I have been trying to convince her to leave it out. She is a very fit women and tells me if she ends up pregnant that she will have it. God do i want to be with her and have a baby with her. Her oldest daughter agrees with me that she should have my baby.
hi,this is Little from SA.yes he is 18 years younger than you,okay do not pay too much attention on the negative things people say because people will always something to talk about.At 30 he is a man enough and can get married and be a good father.he is not 18 or 20 and you are both adults,so if you beliave he has everything you have ever dreamt of from a man be glued to him because good guy are very rare.so based on those facts i say go for it mama.
I'm 35 years old, and I fell in love with a guy who's 26 years old. He used to be my physical therapist.
But, the hard part is...he doesn't feel the same for me, and that hurts too.
I don't care what others say. I am in love with younger men and it is great. For me it is not about his age, but about his personality. Not many men these days are like him, so sensible, respectful, innocent soul. We love each other and we are happy about that. Why we should care what "world" think. 99% of the people I heard negativity from was just jealous.
What on Earth can a woman 20 and 30 years older see in a man that much younger??? It sounds like it is all mostly about sex. Well sex does not last forever and you need something much stronger to go by then sex!!! Sounds like a lot of women need psych help. My word, not to mention dating married men. Do some of you women have no morals??? Some of you sound like a dog in heat!!! Many of you are sick and depraved women who want validation for your horrible behavior. There must be something lacking in you that you have to go after men 20 and 30 years your Junior???? Absolutely UNBELIEVABLE! These relationships are doomed from the start and most of these young men will want families someday. The selfishness and self centered behavior is over the top!!! You women need to grow up and start acting like mature women. Not very becoming behavior for women your ages. My word, this is just SICK!
I've not been on here for a while, I've been busy with my young man....
The last post before mine is living proof of the ignorance that surrounds large age gap relationships. It's very sad people have to complain about things they either don't understand or cannot have for themselves.
To recap, I fell in love with a guy 19 years younger than me, though he thought I was only 14 years older than him. I still see him and we are great friends. I plucked up the courage to tell him I liked him more than a friend and he said it didn't change our friendship but we could only be friends.
I wasn't has upset as I thought I'd be. Probably because I had been seeing another guy, only 18 years younger. Oh and note to the last poster - these men have come after me, not the other way round.
It was getting serious with the new guy so I thought I should tell him how old I really am. I expected him to leave. He stared at me for what seemed like ages. I ask if I'd shocked him. He said yes. Incidentally I took this as a compliment as he'd not guessed I was 5 years older than he thought. He said I could have told him sooner and I said I didn't think it mattered if we were just friends.
Since then we have become a couple. So at 51, after a 22 year abusive relationship (he was only 5 years younger than me), I have a 33 year old 'boyfriend' and I am very happy. In fact we both agree we make each other happy. It's not all about sex either.
I saw part of a TV program at his house and there was a man being interviewed about how much he still loved his wife. They had married when she was 52 and he was 25. She was 87 now, so a good long marriage by anyone's standards :-)
And also for the benefit of the last poster I am having "psych help" because of my 22 year relationship. I told my doc about the younger men and he said what's the problem? And I said other people seem to have a problem and and keep asking why am I seeing younger men. He said to just smile at them and say "because I can".
Love has no boundaries and age has nothing to do with it :D