That's so true what u said.
i need to thank you for posting this here. Its definitely the answer ive been looking for. i started masturbating at a very young age (or what i would call young) and since then, always found male genitalia arousing to some degree. and there's some things in gay erotica that entice me too, though I've never had a crush on a man, real life or otherwise. i was instinctively drawn to women and have had many crushes and sexual fantasies about them. So i had always been wondering why things had been this way for me, and i thought this was a pretty good answer
Guys i am a 30 year old man who have dealth with the same issues you guys have. YOU ARE NOT GAY. What you have is call preversion you urges. Sex and porn make some strange triggers in your head. It the beastly urges inside you. What sucks is sometimes if you don't change things up a little then you find yourself craving strange things. Porn can really mess up your mind. I currently deal with porn addiction off and on and you will find that you don't get the same thrill if you watch the same thing over and over so you have to watch different things to get yourself to that level. Inside your brain that same rush you have when you first watch porn sometimes its triggered when you watch gay porn it does not make you gay but your brain will send you signals that you want that because of your raging hormones. I recommend you take breaks from porn in moderation and do an excercise called super brain yoga look at it on you but mri scans prove this will stimulate your brain and make nuerons pump into you head. I have read back and forth the effects of porn both good and both bad and i find that you have to do it in moderation take a month and don't watch any don't do anything then every now and then do what you need to do. Theres no easy answer and in this day and age you will get mixed signals only you can decide who you are and to be gay or not. Don't judge yourselves to harshley and make sure to take breaks from porn because the more porn you watch the more disturbing you will want it to be and thats not healthy as i said its preversion in your mind you want that thrill but its not worth it and just like a drug it will consume you if you don't get a handle on it. Everything in moderation all life have balance don't eat to much don't drink to much don't watch to much porn. Good luck guys growing up in this crazy ass world.
Super Brain Yoga is on you tube please check this out and it could be a life changer. Please do your research you have the world wide web at your disposal be responsible but do you research read books about the body and the brain the responses to different situations in your life. The great thing about the internet is theres always someone out there who wants to give you the answers you seek. You just have to ask the right Questions?
No, I am also a straight male who watches gay porn and masterbates while watching as well . The ironic part of it all is that I watch it with my girlfriend and gets her turned on as well . We actually bought a strap on in which in turn uses it on me . Again that is also a turn on for her . So no there are guys like us who keep a dark secret inside them . However, I can't see myself having a sexual relationship with another man
Jpking22 i toally agree im staright but gay vids and guys jacking off turns me on. I agree☺
I I'm going through this now. I love girls there amazing I've had 4 girl friends but when I see naked men jacking off or giving a ha****b I get s boner. I'm not attracted to men there are a few male celebrities that I think are good looking but it isn't the same as a crush. I did have one gay fatisee years ago but that was it. I don't want a gay relationship or to kiss a gay man and certainly not anal or oral but hands jobs and masterbating turn me on. I've recently been watching porn from the women's perspective I like that. I feel do confused.
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