Is it normal my husband masturbates too much ? Newlewed

Valerie Mondesir Alarcon

Its very normal for all men and boys to masturbate a lot, many times every week or every day is normal. Every man feels the urge nearly constantly to have sex and ejaculate. But we know we can t always get sex any and enjoy it every time we get that normal male desire to orgasm and ejaculate. So masturbation is the easy way to satisfy this never ending urge in us males.

Your husband sounds very normal and healthy. Maybe he is just used to masturbating from his boyhood on to now and thinks asking you for sex or to masturbate him as often as he wants it will be more than you want to do it for him? Maybe he is in a hurry or just wants to masturbate to a fast orgasm and ejaculation to satisfy his needs quick and easy? Maybe he d like to teach you how to masturbate him and do it for him? Maybe he is worried he will impregnate you if he has sex with you as much times and ways as he d like to do it with you all the time? There are endless reasons why its very normal for married men to masturbate a lot. Its very common and normal for all men. Sex is like eating or drinking for us men. We always want more every day. That is just how most males are built to be. We can love our mates and still want quick and simple masturbation many times in addition to sex with wives.

I wish that in future I will marry to a woman like you. You seem to be so good with your husband, you offer him sex anytime and he refuses and prefer to masterbate. I don't know what is going through his mind, but I believe that have sex with a partner is more enjoyable than masterbation.

I think that you should ask him what he exactly prefer, what he wants you to do for him. Some men are shy to tell their partners about their sex fantasies. So you have to ask him. If you don't want to ask, just see the type of porn that he watches. Next time when you have sex with him try to please him like the type of porn he prefers. After a while, he will prefer to have sex with you over masterbation.

My situation exactly, except I jerk off because she won't have sex with me.

Valerie Mondesir Alarcon

Valerie Mondesir Alarcon

Valerie Mondesir Alarcon

Valerie Mondesir Alarcon

VAlerie Mondesir Alarcon

Valerie Mondesir Alarcon

Hi there, I have been married to my husband for 2 years, we have been together for 8 years living together for 7 years... at the beginning of our relationship his masturbation bothered me, and he never wanted to talk about it he would lie about doing it, we would have some pretty big fights... until I realized that i needed to fix something in me... it was my own insecurities causing me to over think and over analyze every aspect of it it consumed me for a long time...he isn't masturbating because he doesn't love you or want you, he is doing it for many different reasons...ex.. he can't sleep so he masturbates to release that tension to help him sleep. In my case I work nights so i am not home at night 4 days out of the week so he masturbates when I'm at work...and they can just get the erge to masturbate... trust me it has nothing to do with you... he loves you.... and now when it comes to masturbating we do it together and i want him to do it while i am in the house because now that i understand it turns me on to know he is doing it... I love knowing somethibg else is turning him on.... I even enjoy watching him with other women ... while i masturbate watching them and then join. But thats a different story....
Bottom line is he isnt doing it instead of you trust me he would prefer you but he also likes to do it and its a normal thing... I hope this helped. :)!

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That's sad. I have the same problem. I walked in on him quite a few times, and didn't realize what he was doing until I caught a glimpse of his phone, and I saw a naked woman on the screen. That was almost a year ago now. So I went to the laptop,and checked his history, and sure enough, there were tons of porn sites there.
I confronted him numerous times, and he would get irate, and angry, because that's what addicts do when they're confronted.
He told me he would stay off the porn sites, but I check his history every day, and I know he's lying to me. He still masterbates everyday, but without the porn sites, and I know he's doing it, because I do the laundry, and we all know what sperm stains look like.
So, I just accept it, because we've been together over 25 years, and looking back, I saw the signs, but never did anything about it. We still have sex, or he will masterbate me, if he's "not up for it." As long as he doesn't do it to porn, I' kind of ok with it. Because there is nothing that will make them stop.

Hi, i' ve been with my husband for 4years we have a 3 years old daughter together and we have just got married early this year. I've noticed that he watch porn and masturbates almost every morning before he goes to work I'm sad every time I found out and started to think am I not good enough but I don't know what to say to him and I don't know if this is normal in a relationship. I just need someone to talk to.

We have been together for 4 years and it getting to the point i can't take how much he masturbates. He does it between 2-4 times a day and it takes him atleast 20 mins to finish each time. Our sex rarely last that long, I do not orgasm but maybe once or twice a month. When we do have sex once a week(which is not nowhere near enough for me) he is never fully hard. Im over this i want a man to make love to my body someone who want to please me.