Masturbation techniques for girls

I am 42 yrs and I just started masturbating yesterday. I suddenly had sexual urges after a very long Hiatus with my husband.   We are now busy every other day it seems. Anyway, I thought people were nuts when they mentioned the detachable shower head. I found that if I scoot down to the bottom put my legs up in a bent position and aim it directly at my clit and do NOT move it, it gives the most awesme orgasm ever (it actually was such a hard orgasm when it finally happened that i kind of scared myself)  At first , it was like really what's the excitement then found the perfect pulsation of the water. I wanted more and you can have multiple orgasms using this. I searched some sights for ideas as the doctor once said try masturbation to improve sex life.  So I have tried the following:

 *Carrot , washed peeled and placed in a condom--was OKAY but it turns out I seem to need the clit and insertion together or just the outside

* mardi gras beads--you cut into one string---got nothign on that one

* electric toothbrush--was actually the first thing I tried (need to get an inexpensive cheap one just for this purpose) and been told you can do either inside or outside (I used it on the outside with the back of the toothbrush, and goo.

* Detachable Shower head--OMG that was really awesome --will try again tomorrow and not get panicky when I cum

* went out and bought a mini vibrator bullet--was great withthe cover, Then I took the cover off thebullet and put it in my vagina and used a lipstick vibrator on the clit--another AWESOMe thing

* tried a cold spoon on the clit--that was awesom . My disappointment was it got warm too quick. So I used the cold spoon with a cold butter knife--put the non sharp end in my vagina and used the spoon in circles, pressure, tapping etc on the clit all at the same time. That was pretty cool as well

I haven't tried ice cubes yet but I would like to . I hump poles, I slide my covered p***y up and down the stairway railing.

I have wooden spoons to try yet, as well as I was told to use the end of a hairbrush in a condom and stick it in my vagina and the brissles hanging out will brush the clit. Will let you know how that works out.

if anyone has any other ideas please let me know. Someone told me to use the neck of  a beer bottle--I assume empty so you dont get cut on the cap.

oh and i forgot that I used medium size bouncy balls as well --they weer okay but the shower and electric toothbrush beat them all

and even just tried adjustable shower heard and that was awesome too. So was a longnecked bottle--that was awesome. but the shower and vibrating toothbrush beats all. I will have hubby andI go to a store and I think we will get a high powered vibrator. I may even allow him to see me get wild in the shower or bath one day when the kids are not home. I never knew masturbation felt so good and it has improved our sex life greatly. Tho I now feel I need to masturbate at least 2 times a day and sex every other day

I use my showerhead to masturbate because that's the only thing that makes me cum but i need new ways im Christian so i dont like to watch porn. But fingering myself or humping things doesnt work for me

I'm gonna try the shower head on my clit while I slide a regular sharpie in and out of my anus

I use a back massager that vibrates. It only cost like $6. You can get one at Walmart, Target, or most other other drug stores. Try humping it or just rubbing it against yourself. You can also lay under the running water of the bath tub in a comfortable position. It's a great orgasm and no one even knows you're doing it! I personally don't like to stick anything inside of myself, I just like to stimulate the clitoris. I don't have a detachable shower head either, but I do put it on the hardest setting and position myself under it. It's slightly uncomfortable, but you won't notice it once you get going. You can also put down some pillows and a towel on top of them and hump that. It creates a great orgasm. Sometimes I put a towel on the arm of a chair or my bed and rub back and forth on that. Electric toothbrushes work great, too. Make sure not to use the one you brush your teeth with! I once tried a condom on a banana, but it just hurt and was not pleasurable at all. It just depends on you.
Masturbation is really the best form of sex and it's a lot more comfortable. It's good for you and there's no risk of sexually transmitted diseases.
To get wet and ready, I suggest watching porn, and if you're not comfortable with male bodies yet, then lesbian porn works great too. Many sites offer it for free with no download. You can also search sex games and play some of those. If you're not comfortable with either of those, then just look online and read some good old fashioned sex stories. If you don't like the thought of penises, then search lesbian sex stories.
I have been doing many things for a while now, and it's completely safe and a great stress reliever. I recommend any of the above mentioned methods besides the banana, but if that's what you like, then go ahead.
The last thing is that if you can get your hands on any lubricant such as KY Jelly, then do so. It makes it so much ore pleasurable and if you are inserting, then it causes less pain and damage. I use it for the back massager because it slides so much easier. If not, no worries, just try to get as wet as possible before hand.

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If only... I would love to f**k one... but dang... so hard to find... I use 2 fingers and penetrate... It feels good for a while but then it kinda hurts... So I am looking for ideas, I don't have any toys, and no condoms... So I am out of ideas...

When im naked and feeling really turned on I like to take the end of my toothbrush and slide it in and out of my vagina fast or slow it gives a great orgasm.

Hi, im 13 and i masturbate quite alot! My favorite tool to use is a sharpie! ;) It feels really good. i wanna try the carrot or cucumber thing, but it wont fit.... its too big lol a sharpie works perfecly! I have also tried using the shower hear thing and 0.M.G it works literally like magic!!! The oter day i found some of my moms sex toys.... theres like, 2 bottles of lube, a vibrater which btw is AMAZING (I went down there and used it when i was home alone) and some other sex toys. I am going to try the vibrating toothbrush thing right now!!! It just needs batteries... lol

I hope y'all have fun masturbating!!!

That was just your cherry popping

Yes I want to talk!

A dildo is basically something you can f*ck yourself with. A clit is the "bump" above your vagina.... Honey, I'm having the same problem! Get your friend in the mood I guess to have sex with you... Maybe rub your clit hard and finger yourself. Watch some porn to make you turned on.

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Your 14 and u have sex and a bf omg where can I sign up to be u?

I put a hairbrush deep in my p***y and then I go really fast with it and then I go hard and I orgasm 

try a vibrating tooth brush