You may have an infection, go to the doctors and see, if you do have an infection; they should give you some antibiotics to get rid of it.
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I'm 13 and have been masturbating since I was 9 years old. I find that using a hair brush sticking it in ur hole fully even if it hurts and then leavin it there while u play with ur clit and twisting it at the same time helps but it's starting to get old. I'm in desperate need of some new i deas that don't include;Vibrators
Dildos
fingers
guys
hair
showerheads
condoms
I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :!: :!: :!: :!: :!: :!: :!: :!: :!: :cry: :(
Dildos
fingers
guys
hair
showerheads
condoms
I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :!: :!: :!: :!: :!: :!: :!: :!: :!: :cry: :(
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If you've never had an orgasm, how is it that humping and shower heads work best?
Best for what ---- not getting an orgasm? :cry:
Best for what ---- not getting an orgasm? :cry:
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Well I'm a 15 year old boy and I started masturbating when I was about 11. And like the other guy posted, my "junk" felt numb and i tried to fix it. I thought I was doing something wrong. 4 years later I enjoy it extremely. And I would like to know what turns girls on when doing mutual masturbation or oral sex.
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You should use your fingers with a lot of lube, maybe shave your.crotch so its smooth, also use a remote control and slide it between your lips till orgasm
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well i think if u put a dab of toothpaste on ure middle finger and rub it on ure clit and rub it in it feels good and it gets cold and burns but it feels great and also i take the cab nit lower door and swing it left to right on my clit and it feels so good and i scream moan and groan and i used my vibrater and i started to scream cause i think of my boyfriend and it feels so good u dont want to stop it feels so good u gotta be tied up to do it for so long...... :O :O :O :O :O :O :O :O :O :O :-| :-| :-| :-| :-| :-| :-S :-S :-S :-S :-S :-S :-D :-D :-D :-D :-D 8-| ;-) ;-) ;-) ;-) ;-) ;-) ;-) ;-)
try it it feels great trust me and i am a girl 16 years old
try it it feels great trust me and i am a girl 16 years old
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Self stimulation for sexual pleasure is perfectly ok and normal. Virtually everyone does it sometime, but if u think of Henry Kissinger doing it, you may be off of it for a while.
Female sexual response comes from, 1 the clit (the little bud just above ur opening), 2 the first inch or so of the opening, 3 touching the nipples. Some women also like stimulating the "g spot" which is inside about 2 inches and on the top (away from your rear) of the inside--pressure there sometimes feels good for some women. Sex movies with very deep penetration are just a show (or are for the man to feel "masterful") because the deeper parts have very dull sense endings.
Technique: Start by massaging, pinching, or licking your nipples. Imagine some vague human shape is doing it, too. Stroke your belly. Open your inner lips and massage the clit... some women also pull the clit hood back to get to the inner most sensitive part (the hood is a retractable fold of skin over the clit). Other women are so sensitive that they must massage at the sides of the clit. Experiment.
The average time from start to orgasm is 7 minutes with continuous massage and proper mental image. Most take longer. But after getting the clit a good massage, try inserting one finger into the opening (short nails!) and thrusting as the speed you like. You can go deeper and curve your finger upward toward your belly to test your "g spot." Sometimes feels good. Either alternate between touching inside or the clit or use two hands to massage both areas.
Anything safe that vibrates, toothbrush is good, will feel good on or near the clit. Unlike the sex movies, few women get much satisfaction from a vibration inside but rather feel good to be "filled up." Often, lub liquid comes out of the inside, very normal, and some women actually squirt liquid (not pee) and that is normal, too
Important.... you are normal if you orgasm once and normal if you orgasm repeatedly, one after the other. Some women actually pass out from the orgasm, so DO NOT hang yourself in a way to do harm if you do pass out.
A few women's orgasms are mild and are just a little shudder, but likely that person is just at the beginning of bigger orgasms if more stimulation comes on soon. Average orgasm feels like this:
1. warm urgency for more massage.
2. swelling of the inner and outer lips and the clit (the outer lips can turn dark color, but that is also OK).
3. pleasurable urgency for more massage increases.
4. orgasm is very pleasurable, the vagina muscles contract spazmotically, the lower belly contracts, and there is the urge to push the sex area upward.
5. Usually, more massage immediately after orgasm does not feel so good but you feel very relaxed and happy (but if you like more, wait a minute or three, and begin massage again).
Important to know there is a wide range of female sexual response and that, likely, you are in the normal range. Enjoy!
Female sexual response comes from, 1 the clit (the little bud just above ur opening), 2 the first inch or so of the opening, 3 touching the nipples. Some women also like stimulating the "g spot" which is inside about 2 inches and on the top (away from your rear) of the inside--pressure there sometimes feels good for some women. Sex movies with very deep penetration are just a show (or are for the man to feel "masterful") because the deeper parts have very dull sense endings.
Technique: Start by massaging, pinching, or licking your nipples. Imagine some vague human shape is doing it, too. Stroke your belly. Open your inner lips and massage the clit... some women also pull the clit hood back to get to the inner most sensitive part (the hood is a retractable fold of skin over the clit). Other women are so sensitive that they must massage at the sides of the clit. Experiment.
The average time from start to orgasm is 7 minutes with continuous massage and proper mental image. Most take longer. But after getting the clit a good massage, try inserting one finger into the opening (short nails!) and thrusting as the speed you like. You can go deeper and curve your finger upward toward your belly to test your "g spot." Sometimes feels good. Either alternate between touching inside or the clit or use two hands to massage both areas.
Anything safe that vibrates, toothbrush is good, will feel good on or near the clit. Unlike the sex movies, few women get much satisfaction from a vibration inside but rather feel good to be "filled up." Often, lub liquid comes out of the inside, very normal, and some women actually squirt liquid (not pee) and that is normal, too
Important.... you are normal if you orgasm once and normal if you orgasm repeatedly, one after the other. Some women actually pass out from the orgasm, so DO NOT hang yourself in a way to do harm if you do pass out.
A few women's orgasms are mild and are just a little shudder, but likely that person is just at the beginning of bigger orgasms if more stimulation comes on soon. Average orgasm feels like this:
1. warm urgency for more massage.
2. swelling of the inner and outer lips and the clit (the outer lips can turn dark color, but that is also OK).
3. pleasurable urgency for more massage increases.
4. orgasm is very pleasurable, the vagina muscles contract spazmotically, the lower belly contracts, and there is the urge to push the sex area upward.
5. Usually, more massage immediately after orgasm does not feel so good but you feel very relaxed and happy (but if you like more, wait a minute or three, and begin massage again).
Important to know there is a wide range of female sexual response and that, likely, you are in the normal range. Enjoy!
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For boys and men: Self stimulation for sexual pleasure is ok and normal. It is not likely to affect your ability to perform with live women, and it does not grow hair on your hands. After about age 16, there is NO way to make your penis longer or fatter without surgery. Forget that and enjoy what you got!
Stimulation: Men usually can fantize easily and in good detail. Men are excited by looking. So take these ideas and put them together--look and imagine. Younger men (under about 55 or even 65) will have an erection... get hard... by looking/imagining only. Sometimes the penis gets hard even when not thought about. All this is normal. Also it is normal to come (orgasm) while asleep (called a "night dream" or "wet dream."). If you have frequent wet dreams, mom or ur partner will appreciate your wearing underware to sleep in to contain the ejaculate (come, cum, or sex juice that shoots out upon orgasm).
Any kind of rubbing of the penis will feel good and experimentation will give you your favorite. Moderate pressure on top of the gonads (balls) also feels good (but, girls: do not push the underside of the balls, it hurts there). If you come very quickly, premature ejactulation, you can slow down the massage, change your mental image to something unpleasant, or change your body position... use anything that will slow the process down. Be careful if you use a lub that partially numbs the penis, but properly made, that will help. Some spermicide creams also have a numbing effect. Self stimulation needs a lub like baby oil or KY Jelly to avoid rubbing the penis raw. Lub also feels better than dry. Using a condom also slows down the urgency and thus is handy to make the pleasure last longer.
Male orgasm is easy to detect: seminal fluid shoots out of the penis (of course, along with the max pleasure moment). Asian mystics advise retaining the fluid during orgasm, but you gotta read lots about that if interested. The amount of juice that comes out varies from a couple of drops to several oz. depending on how often you have come recently--the more frequently you come, the smaller the output for each orgasm. There is no harm in coming every minute if your body would allow it, but the "refresh period" between orgasms for men is about 15 minutes at the shortest and several hours--typical in a very stimulated situation would be half hour to an hour before orgasm can come again. Unless you have had surgery, sperm comes out in the ejaculate and it can make a woman pregnant.
Pre-come fluid is also typical. It is a clear lub like liquid that ouzes out during stimulation but prior to orgasm. This liquid exists to lub the woman's insides, but it is also helpful for self-stimulation. IMPORTANT: pre-com liquid can have many sperm in it and can make a woman pregnant even if you do not actually come inside a woman. Also, both pre-come and come (ejaculate) COULD CARRY DISEASE GERMS.
You are normal. Enjoy !
Stimulation: Men usually can fantize easily and in good detail. Men are excited by looking. So take these ideas and put them together--look and imagine. Younger men (under about 55 or even 65) will have an erection... get hard... by looking/imagining only. Sometimes the penis gets hard even when not thought about. All this is normal. Also it is normal to come (orgasm) while asleep (called a "night dream" or "wet dream."). If you have frequent wet dreams, mom or ur partner will appreciate your wearing underware to sleep in to contain the ejaculate (come, cum, or sex juice that shoots out upon orgasm).
Any kind of rubbing of the penis will feel good and experimentation will give you your favorite. Moderate pressure on top of the gonads (balls) also feels good (but, girls: do not push the underside of the balls, it hurts there). If you come very quickly, premature ejactulation, you can slow down the massage, change your mental image to something unpleasant, or change your body position... use anything that will slow the process down. Be careful if you use a lub that partially numbs the penis, but properly made, that will help. Some spermicide creams also have a numbing effect. Self stimulation needs a lub like baby oil or KY Jelly to avoid rubbing the penis raw. Lub also feels better than dry. Using a condom also slows down the urgency and thus is handy to make the pleasure last longer.
Male orgasm is easy to detect: seminal fluid shoots out of the penis (of course, along with the max pleasure moment). Asian mystics advise retaining the fluid during orgasm, but you gotta read lots about that if interested. The amount of juice that comes out varies from a couple of drops to several oz. depending on how often you have come recently--the more frequently you come, the smaller the output for each orgasm. There is no harm in coming every minute if your body would allow it, but the "refresh period" between orgasms for men is about 15 minutes at the shortest and several hours--typical in a very stimulated situation would be half hour to an hour before orgasm can come again. Unless you have had surgery, sperm comes out in the ejaculate and it can make a woman pregnant.
Pre-come fluid is also typical. It is a clear lub like liquid that ouzes out during stimulation but prior to orgasm. This liquid exists to lub the woman's insides, but it is also helpful for self-stimulation. IMPORTANT: pre-com liquid can have many sperm in it and can make a woman pregnant even if you do not actually come inside a woman. Also, both pre-come and come (ejaculate) COULD CARRY DISEASE GERMS.
You are normal. Enjoy !
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Wow Guest,
That is ........ really specific.
A far as the whole passing out thing after orgasm goes, I guess auto erotic asphyxiation is out of the question before orgasm, right? I'm getting banned for that remark
Holmestrix
That is ........ really specific.
A far as the whole passing out thing after orgasm goes, I guess auto erotic asphyxiation is out of the question before orgasm, right? I'm getting banned for that remark
Holmestrix
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I"m 13 and ive been masterbating since I was about 7 or 8..I know that sounds gross and bad..i didnt get my first orgasm until i was about 9 or 10....anyway,what i used to do was take a pillow or the corner of my blanket get on top of it and hump it until it felt good,that got old so now what i do is when i go to bed (on the weekends)i get on my laptop and watch a porno...(im not lesbo but lesian porn turns me on)then im nice and wet so i get into bed and make sure imrealy wet,the i start flicking m clit that feels ok,but not the best,,,after that i take 2 fingers and gent;y rub the clit,,,when im hornier,i use 4 fingers and rub fast,,after about a minute i get a GREAT pleasure!!! it lasts only for about 0 seconds tho..
NOTE:if your vagina starts to get hot,stop for anout 10 seconds and then do it again,,,,,I have a question,,f you feel pleasure is it an orgasm???do u have to cumm to make an orgasm??b/c ive had alt of pleasure but ive heard ppl say its not an orgasm...im confused???Thank you..
NOTE:if your vagina starts to get hot,stop for anout 10 seconds and then do it again,,,,,I have a question,,f you feel pleasure is it an orgasm???do u have to cumm to make an orgasm??b/c ive had alt of pleasure but ive heard ppl say its not an orgasm...im confused???Thank you..
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