Masturbation techniques for girls

Ok, I am a 14 year old girl, I am new to uhhh yeah you know, and I have tried EVERYTHING that you all say and it doesn't work! I have never gotten an orgasm. What is a clit?! Also what is a didlo??! Someone please tell me! I have tried many different things but I haven't gotten pleasure! And I could nevvvvvvver ask my friend to lick me! Is it weird that I think about getting eaten out? Please please help me!

Ok I'm a girl and I've recently started to masturbate with my boyfriend over web cam and over phone and solo of course XD Since he does live far away. I've been able to get access to a dildo and a vibrator (a small lipstick disgused one and just a standard vibrating dildo that's not too big) I've found that rubbing your vagina/clit from outside your panies and then pulling it to where your panies seperate your p***y lips then continuing to rub outside along the panties (be careful that you don't pull them too tight that it hurts.) feels good. Also after pannies are removed using a pointer finger fromt he dominant hand and making circles up and down your clit/vagina and even down to your anus (you don't HAVE to but there are nerve endings down there so it gives off a surprise feeling) feels good to tempt yourself (if needed you can even use spit to lubricate it or anything else you can find). Then the secret I've found is to multi-task! as you're penetrating yourself with your finger use another finger from your other hand to play with your clit. Thrusting your hips helps along with moving your fingers inside of you and twirling them (also referred to as "Rolling the Cow") If you have access to vibrators and dildos (or things like them) then use them substatute them for fingers. I found using my lipstick vibrator on my clit while inserting just my index finger while adding pressure to the lipstick and my clit feels amazing. :-D Get creative!!

Also as side notes:
1. hump a pillow it feels good to have that rubbing sinsation and if you have a dildo or vibrator add them simply just put it on the pillow and sit on it and bounce and roll against it
2. use a wall, sitting so you're positioned infront of a wall and spreading your legs and fingering or ect with your back on a flat surface and your feet raised gives off unexpected delight.
3. If you know where your G-Spot is play with it!
4. Don't be afraid to try things!

I hope this helps. I am just a newbie after all XD I just started this last year at age 15 and I'm only 16 now (well 17 in a few months) so I'm still looking for more ideas

Hey don't freak out ok?

1) Read my former post and see if that helps k? it's the pretty long one that starts off with "Ok I'm a girl and....) and says something about me having a boyfriend far away.

2) Your clit is the part right above your vagina if you look straight down you can see it

3) A dildo is a penis shaped (normally) sex toy used to be inserted into the vagina (sometimes other places as well) some are smooth and some are bumpy and odd shaped. if needed google them ok? just delet your history after

4) No it's not weird to think about getting eaten out you're normal don't fret ok :)



main key is to be creative and find what works best for you.

Heya, I'm 14 and I started masturbating about 3 months ago. What I normally do is wait until night-time and then lay on my back & read smutty stories. It really helps. Also, a question, has anyone ever squirted? Coz I think I did for the first time a little while ago. Not sure though and I am actually kind of thankful that I put my towel over my bedsheet

I'm a girl (13) i've been masturbating since i was 11. My mum watched Sex and the city a lot and when there was a part when they were doing it , i was wondering what they were moaning about like how and why does it feel so good. So when I was home alone i kind of followed how the girl acted like humping something and So i just followed it and I thought it felt a bit good and after a while.. i had my very first orgasm, it felt nice but at the start I kind of felt guilty and so i got used to it until now I think about having sex with a guy from school that helps me orgasm :)

im a girl and have been masturbating for 3 years now. i was just wonderin is it normal to masturbate naked and while ur thinking about having sex with a guy?

Iam 23 yrs old female ans still virgin..... i don't have boyfriend..... but still i don't know how but i started masturbating from 17 yrs old..... well i don't use finger or any other stuffs as i feel a bit scary...i just lock myself in room.... be nude and see myself in mirror and then slowly rub my breast and hold my breadth for few minutes it's really awesome whenever i fell to masturbate i do this....try this......

XD XD hi im 13. wat is the bestt way to masturate?

Okay, so. I'm a 15 year old girl and i've found some helpful things on this website. But I found that I'm not too big on penetration. I tried a marker, my finger, etc. But now, I'm just sore. anyways, I like to fold up my pillow and hump it. and sometimes I'll rub up and down with my hands and rub my clit in a circle. I've found that listening to music helps. XD my personal favorite is every girl - drake and lil wayne. xD hope it helps someone! ( oh and i'm actually masturbating as i'm typing this. ;-)

So, I'm a girl. About 13.

Anyway, Something is happening. I've been masturbating since I was about ten and I'm now doing it (Not at this moment, but, you know what I mean). However, I find it harder and harder to get a good orgasm.

I don't like penetration (However turned on I may get, I want the first time I get entered to be with my husband on my wedding night), so, I take the palm of my hand, and rub it right about my clit. I know a lot of my friends can't get off this way, but, a few of us can, and, it's amazing.

However, like I've said above, it's getting harder and harder to get a good orgasm. Sure, some are good and some are not... But all of mine used to be good all of the time.

Also, my mom has caught me a couple times before, and indirectly told me that women that pleasured themselves were whores. I know it's not true, and as long as I'm not hurting anyone, I'd still like to do it. However, when I do get intense orgasms, they're harder to cover up. I do it in my underwear so she doesn't walk in and know something is up. However, toilet tissue/paper towels are no longer working and liners are too thin where extra pads make it uncomfortable.

Any suggestions?

Yes, actually.



Most girls prefer naked masturbation and most find it pleasurable when done thinking about someone of the opposite sex. In fact, most of the girls that I know, do it thinking about a movie star, they're boyfriends or males at school.



So, you're not alone.

Hi. I am a 13 year old girl. I have just started. I was wondering what is a G-Spot!? Also would like to know what an orgasm is!!! Please Help!!!!

several problems:
- would it become an issue with a gynecologist if I go that my hymen is no longer intact, even though i'm a virgin?
- when I masturbate, it feels somewhat good, but I don't think i've ever actually got to an orgasm. help? what's it feel like?
- penetration of any kind, even putting a finger in me, hurts. when I eventually (in the not too soon future) have sex, will this be a problem?

by the way, i'm a sixteen year old girl.

Okay so imma girl and im 13. i pearrsounaly like to put 3 pillows on the ground than slide a marker up in my hole. than slide my hands under the pillows and hump them rele hard. moaning helpz 2. (: hope i help. biee