sex with an overweight woman

oh honney its going to be ok. Now have you ever seen his penisus? i am guessing hopefully yes. Now my boyfriend. Loves it when haha i get down and dirty. (I have a special dirty face when im turned on)now there is many ways you can do this. But first have you guys perticipated in oral sex during or before your marrige? maybe start from there. All guys love sex. and if he doesnt as much as you do. Doesnt mean he doesnt love you. so one night start making out with him. (slowly) and bring his hands to ur chesst...and let it go from there. try to lead up to your bed. or having sex on the couch haha is fine it. I hope this helps. if you have any questions...or if i do. which i have one. I am about 5'3ft and a half. and 107 pounds. Now i have big breast too. Its something i hated my whole life. at 12 i was a 34 D and got teased....i still dont like them. I dont know watttt to do. and when i was 10-11 i went through i fat stage. gained 20 lbs. and at 5 ft i was 125..... so when did you become happy with your chest? or were you always?
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Young but experienced.

OK..WELL IM A BIG CHIC...AND ALL THO I HAVENT BEEN WITH LOTS OF DUDES...I NEVER GET ANY COMPLAINTS...I KILL DA MEN..WITH THE DOGGIE STYLE...THEY LIKE IT WHEN..U THROW IT BACK..AND I LIKE 4 THEM 2 TELL ME TO THROW IT BACK..I AM ALSO INTO GETTIN BIT, AND SCRATCHD AND GETTIN MY HAIR PULLED...IF U B REALLY FREAKY WITH THEM...THEY LOVE IT...ALSO, BIG GIRLS ANOTHER POSTIONS IS TO LAY ON UR SIDE, AND LET THEM STRADDLE 1 OF UR LEGS..IT GIVES DEEP PENETRATION...REAL DEEP....THERE IS A THING ME AND MY SISTER CAME UP WITH CALLD THE LIFT...IF U R N MISSIONARY AND UR MAN IS ABOUT 2 CLIMAX...LIFT UR PELVIS..WHILE HE IS CUMIN...AND U R GOING TO DRIVE HIM CRAZY...PROMISE U HE WONT LEAVE...ALSO BIG CHICS...DONT B AFRAID TO GIVE HIM SOME LIP SERVICE...MAKE LOVE 2 DAT THING WIT UR MOUTH...LOOK WHN ME AND A DUDE BREAKS UP...HE GOES NUTS AND HE IS LIKE BEGGIN 2 KEEP DOING IT....SO ITS POSSIBLE 4 BIG GIRLS 2 HAVE A GOOD TIME...AND JUST SO U KNOW...BIG GIRLS GOT DAT GOOD

Thanks guys, this was a really good post. I'm 20 and about 5'11 310 lbs (I dont look it, my height makes up for it), my bf is 6'0 and weighs like 160 (huge diffference right?!) he has a 7 in penis but really thick.. He loovvees my weight and figure but I am exceptionally afraid to sleep with him because of it. I read the suggestions, def plan on using them, espically the lifting the pelvis before he climaxs =) If you guys have anymore ideas let me me know, I'd realllyyy appreciate it.

Half of these answers seem like fetish postings. There is no medical or sexual difference in having sex with someone iwho is of a larger size. The mechanics are identical and there is no health concerns to it. If you find the lady attractive and she feels likewise, worry not.

Hi, I'm a 35yo 5'10' male with love handles and an eye for a curvy lady. I've an average sized undercarriage but I think I know how to use it (well, I hope I do!). I just love larger ladies, in fact, last night I had the most wonderful sex of my entire life. The reason why? Well, we both loved giving pleasure to each other. I was in a relationship for 10 years in which my partner was extremely selfish. I don't want to use the phrase 'like a sack of potatoes', but you get the picture.

But last night was a revelation. A cycle of; her orgasming from my tongue, then her s**king me hard as a rock, then passionate lovemaking. Then again and again. Be creative, be passionate, be thoughtful. But above all, explore each other, find out what makes the other persons fireworks go off. It's not all about penetration. You've got a tongue. Use it! Believe me I'm no stud. But when both people make the effort the result can be mindblowing.

The 46yo lady with the unconsummated marriage almost made me cry. Go out and get a toy boy girl. Believe me, there are loads of turned on guys out there who would be interested in your boobies. Life's too short to be unhappy babe.

its not here chubbyness thats making this hard for you two.. your vag is never tight or loose because of your weight or because of how many children you have. it has more to to with how much exercise your vag get. believe it or not s**ts are super tight because they use those muscles often. ask your girl to try some vagina exercises. and work with her more dude. don't put a vibrator in there too... that doesn't make it good for you and probably not for her either. squeeze her lips together and try lemon juice it srinks your vagina. but don't be scared to try new things for crying out loud. you both have to be open for this to be good. have her stand in a chair.... or make love in a rocking chair. forget the bad things and focus on the good things. if your only getting off because you like her ass belive me she knows and she isn't gonna preform her best.... but tell her to try those exercies. and you sir need to take a male enhancement..... i don't know your size but if she is to big for you and you love her you could always use a couple of inches... even if your huge. im 5'9" and 250 and my hubby is only 6" and we have a great sex life. but ive been skinny and fat and believe me there isn't that big of a difference besides you cant be picked up anymore. lol good luck... and remember just have fun... dont forget the lemon juice even if your tight it will shrink you alot. and its fun. :D

I am quite bigger myself.... but it all depends on the girl n how flexible they are and active they are... i am 200- 220 depends on what i eat. but i find missionary the best with your legs up high... but then again im really flexible i took gymastics and im a figure skater.. so flexibily aint my problem... i know from experiace some girls think there gonna scuish there bf if they do cowgirl cause they think there to big.. but if a guy cant take it they would tell u to switch positions. but me i find doggy style and missionary are one of the best positions ever... but it dosn't matter about size... it matters about how flexible u are and ur self esteem....if that makes anysence...

Dude nothing but good advice. Im impressed to see a real site with honest answers. I have tried all or just about all of the fore mentioned postions and yes they work. Here is a little bit of advice if you are going in from the side then hell take that leg and caress it. Then put her toe in your mouth. Remember its not a meal just an appetizer. TRUST me it will send her over the edge. Also, when her legs are on your shoulders have her push up and push it back to you, almost like riding a bike.

Huh??? About the lemon juice pls elaborate.

I'm a big girl myself. obese actually, and my boyfriend is as thin as they get. I struggle to lose weight, he struggles to gain weight. I stumbled upon this article googling "sex tips for big girls" because i cant bring myself to ride him. I'm scared I'll hurt him if I have to straddle him, and besides that, I don't think I'd want my bobbly bits bouncing up and down in front of him! anywho, we need new positions... We do alternate between missionary and doggy, but to be completely honest, I rarely climax. He doesn't know. I do like it rough though. Really really rough to the point of bondage and SM and pain. The doggy positions gets pretty wild with him pushing my face down in the pillows or holding my hands behind my back or pulling my hair, etc. I also don't think he's all that satisfied with our love life. Either he has a low sex drive, or I just don't turn him on. I'd like a good f#(%ing every night, but sometimes have to go a week without. So, I need some tips on how to spice it up a bit, and positions that would be stimulating to both of us.

I hear you on the belly over the penis issue, both my wife and I are in the 400 lb range and my penis is almost always "hard" if you could call it that under all my fat. My wife likes to rub my belly knowing it will give me a painfully hard erection under my fat belly lol and we have sex just fine

Hi honey. I feel for you. I hope you take this as genuine concern and not as being disrespectful or demeaning. don't get me wrong I believe in self sacrifice for the sake of marriage, but completely sacrificing intimacy for any reason for a long period of time is certain misery. I am a disabled larger woman who endures a lot of pain, although I do have my age going for me (29). I always feel bad that i can;t be as sexually active for my husband as he would like, and of course as much as I would like. That said I make a genuine effort to be as sexually active with him as I can be, because intimacy is important in any marriage. Even if I am in too much pain for actual intercourse I make an effort to make my husband feel good by telling him how much i love him or I talk dirty to him while giving him oral sex. And he does the same for me, He knows that I am in a lot of pain frequently and even when we cant have intercourse he makes me feel sexy, and wanted, and loved.When we can have intercourse he is gentle yet amazingly efficient until I say I am able to handle more. Sometimes I feel up to really rough sex for long periods of time. And when all that isn't possible we just cuddle in bed and enjoy one anothers company. I truly believe that this helps make the time when I do feel up for intercourse MUCH more hot and intimate, and enjoyable for both of us. Things haven;t always been this way though. For a long time we just let my condition and pain level keep us from having intimacy. That wasn't working. I noticed we fought more, and there wasn't that sense of closeness and knowing my partner, and then there was the fear that he would find what he wanted/needed elsewhere. And although it sounds as if you don't have that to worry about with your spouse; it isn't something I ever want to live with again. I don't know all the details of your marriage, so I can't assume what is keeping you in it. I know that at 46 years of age you still have many years of sexual vitality left and you shouldn't waste them. Pardon me for being frank, but it doesn't sound as if there is much worth putting yourself through misery and frustration for. You don't sleep in the same bed and neither of you is attracted to the other; which can possibly make for a hostile home life. I am not trying to be disrespectful at all. I think that if you both were content with the status of your marriage currently then more power to you, but you seem miserable. I think as hard as it may be, if I were you I would have another heart to heart with your spouse to evaluate weather or not you are willing to make changes for one another; or if in fact it is time to move on and each of you find someone else who is more compatible for you. You have got to love you and value your own happiness in every area. If you need someone to talk to you can email me anytime.. ***this post is edited by moderator *** *** private e-mails not allowed **

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Up until I got pregnant with my second child at 24, I was stick thin even though I weighed 160 pounds. My ribs and hips stuck out even though I ate like a horse. Although I'd always enjoyed the physical act of sex, I had never achieved orgasm. I always just thought it was a fun way to stay in shape. :-) Then I had my son, gained a little more weight, then had a hysterectomy and gained a lot more weight and WOW!!! My sex life exploded! Literally! I am 5'10", now weighing in at 280 pounds (which I think I carry very well) and am ALWAYS rarin' to go! As a fat woman I get dripping wet just from smelling my husband's cologne or simply from a look he might give me. He gives me multiple orgasms EVERY TIME and I actually have female ejaculation! We have no problem "fitting" and we are able to do *almost* every position. Obviously, against the wall is out now, unless I have a nice strong bar I can hold on to to help ease my weight for him some. ;-) Ladies, gentlemen...I swear that no matter what size you and your partner are, there are so many ways that you can still be intimate! Don't be scared to try new things is the number one rule! Being creative is another! Girls, if you're too big and your man can't hold your weight - help him! Swings are WONDERFUL!! Men...*sigh*...men, don't worry so much about your penis size and don't be intimidated of toys! They have "enhancers" that fit right over your "natural you" and offers BOTH you and your partner the perfect internal fit that feels great for both of you! Speaking personally, the first inch or two of the vagina are the most sensitive anyway! One of my favorite positions as a fatty is...well, make two V's with your pointer and middle fingers and then put them together until they meet. Don't know what it's called, but damn does it feel good! As an added bonus, it enables you both to see and to play with the other's clitoris/scrotum!

Hello, I would love to meet the blonde 46 year old living in the loveless marriage, I understand what her marriage is like as I have a similiar experence, I am 36 years old and I would love to make this womens fantacies come true. I love large women, and they enjoy sex and i enjoy sex with them. I wish I could get in touch.

Your husband likes men.