speaking for myself and my man we both love love love some anal sex. when we are together we have anal sex at least 4 times a day. he gets surprised because i always come back for me and he loves it so much he says that he don't want to stop and truely we can go like an hour at a time. i can have a orgasm easier having anal sex than it is to have vaginal sex. we still have vaginal sex too but it is more anal sex. i am like luvmywifesass i thought i was one of the only freaks on enjoying anal sex. it is nice to see others enjoy too. you just have to learn to relax and go with it. thank you guys for posting this so people like myself knows that there is nothing wrong with it.
luvmywifesass wrote:
The whole reason I have anal sex is to have my husband's semen in me. I would never let him have anal sex without keeping his semen in me after! I agree, it does cause some nausea, and definitely affects the way the "receiver" feels. Theres never a time when I have anal sex, that I don't leave the semen inside me. It comes out the next day I think, if anything is left by that time, if it hasnt already been absorbed. :D
As far as him cumming in your ass, that's perfectly safe as well, as long as the two of you are disease free and monogamous. I would recommend him urinating afterward to help remove any unwanted bacteria from his urethra. Some women get stomach cramps or diarrhea if they don't expel the semen after anal sex. It wasn't clear to me if you meant you used the restroom afterward to "let it come out naturally," or just left it inside until you had your next bowel movement. I'm glad to hear you aren't having any problems. It's taken my wife a number of years before she could leave my semen inside her ass without any problems.
Question: Why did it take your wife years before she could handle your semen staying inside of her? She couldn't handle the "rush"/stomach problems?? Its been years with my husband and our very active sex life, but my stomach still gets upset every time after ejaculation in my anus, no matter what, but that doesn't stop us!
I am a 34 Y/O man and very sexually active . Ive been with my wife for 16 years now and I will never stray or be with another woman as I love her very much . Our only problem is with day to day life and two children we only ever get the time to have sex maybe twice a month. i am on my own a lot so I masturbate frequently which seems to keep my desire down and psychologically makes me think i would be able to resist temptation from another woman if it were to be on a plate so to speak.
I have no inhibitions when I am on my own and have practiced playing with my prostate a lot and its absoloutely amazing . Its at the point now where I can play for an hour resulting in a huge orgasmic feeling that ends in violently weeing everywhere to the point where I nearly pass out and then cum a huge amount compared to normal masturbation . Its messy but I have lived to cope with that as its worth it .
The trouble I have is that i am quite a butch traditional strong man and completely straight and quite the stereotypical biker so i feel its not something I can talk about to others including my wife as i would love more than anything for her to do things to me. Its all taboo I know and I know there isnt realy anything I can do other than tell her but I guess its easy to type it on here as a stranger.
I have no inhibitions when I am on my own and have practiced playing with my prostate a lot and its absoloutely amazing . Its at the point now where I can play for an hour resulting in a huge orgasmic feeling that ends in violently weeing everywhere to the point where I nearly pass out and then cum a huge amount compared to normal masturbation . Its messy but I have lived to cope with that as its worth it .
The trouble I have is that i am quite a butch traditional strong man and completely straight and quite the stereotypical biker so i feel its not something I can talk about to others including my wife as i would love more than anything for her to do things to me. Its all taboo I know and I know there isnt realy anything I can do other than tell her but I guess its easy to type it on here as a stranger.
My wife and I love anal sex alot too :)
And no - it doesn't hurt at all. so long as 3 principals are kept in check :
1. If she feels pain - the guy STOPS (dun pull out or thrust). when she is ok again - continue (and apply lube).
2. in the beginning - penetrate firmly BUT slowly.
3. Use LUBE - can't stress enough - LUBE. Til both of you feel the thrusting to be "rather" effortless and less friction.
My wife's actual feedback (we had our first anal together 1 week ago and have been nuts over it :) ) -
a. That constant feel.
Unlike p***y sex - she still feels me inside her (ass) bcs there is no natural lubrication. But p***y - after a while due to the wetness - she doesn't really feel me other than my penis pressing against her g-spot.
b. That *grip*.
She can grip me (Sphinter muscle) and feel every nook / cranny of my penis as I thrust. She gets high on that. And the tighter she grips - the more I enjoy - and the more I moan - she gets even higher.
c. Just a totally different feeling from p***y sex.
She is not yet able to describe this different feeling. Maybe a lady who's have anal sex experience can describe to us.
d. Anal positions. The easiest to penetrate is indeed doggie-mode. But the most enjoyable for her was missionary (man on top), cuz she would be lying on bed and getting all my hard energizer-bunny humping (note : only after enough lube is applied). REally , I am not kidding - I humped her so hard and fast in her ass, and she LOVED IT.
e. Making a video. Guess what ? we (I) made a short video of my humping her in the ass (missionary mode) - alternating from shooting the physical act and panning over to her winced-eyes-shut face as I pumped her. She is keeping it on her mobile - cuz she got so high watching the video she uses it prior to masturbating (when I'm not around).
NO SUCH THING AS TOO MUCH ANAL SEX. PERIOD.
And no - it doesn't hurt at all. so long as 3 principals are kept in check :
1. If she feels pain - the guy STOPS (dun pull out or thrust). when she is ok again - continue (and apply lube).
2. in the beginning - penetrate firmly BUT slowly.
3. Use LUBE - can't stress enough - LUBE. Til both of you feel the thrusting to be "rather" effortless and less friction.
My wife's actual feedback (we had our first anal together 1 week ago and have been nuts over it :) ) -
a. That constant feel.
Unlike p***y sex - she still feels me inside her (ass) bcs there is no natural lubrication. But p***y - after a while due to the wetness - she doesn't really feel me other than my penis pressing against her g-spot.
b. That *grip*.
She can grip me (Sphinter muscle) and feel every nook / cranny of my penis as I thrust. She gets high on that. And the tighter she grips - the more I enjoy - and the more I moan - she gets even higher.
c. Just a totally different feeling from p***y sex.
She is not yet able to describe this different feeling. Maybe a lady who's have anal sex experience can describe to us.
d. Anal positions. The easiest to penetrate is indeed doggie-mode. But the most enjoyable for her was missionary (man on top), cuz she would be lying on bed and getting all my hard energizer-bunny humping (note : only after enough lube is applied). REally , I am not kidding - I humped her so hard and fast in her ass, and she LOVED IT.
e. Making a video. Guess what ? we (I) made a short video of my humping her in the ass (missionary mode) - alternating from shooting the physical act and panning over to her winced-eyes-shut face as I pumped her. She is keeping it on her mobile - cuz she got so high watching the video she uses it prior to masturbating (when I'm not around).
NO SUCH THING AS TOO MUCH ANAL SEX. PERIOD.
when my wife lays on her back for anal it feels good but any other position hurts like hell. whats the best way to have anal
Key point is your wife. My wife was receptive to trying anal to begin with. She had to want it very much (out of curiosity since she was anal-virgin).
To get my wife to "prepare" for anal sex - *any position* - was simply to have her read this forum. It sure helps to have a couple reading than just 1 spouse. Cuz she would understand in her own way what is required as a couple and of herself to enjoy anal. Its also a psychological thing for her to know that women out there do love anal sex tremendously. And this forum helps too much.
To get my wife to "prepare" for anal sex - *any position* - was simply to have her read this forum. It sure helps to have a couple reading than just 1 spouse. Cuz she would understand in her own way what is required as a couple and of herself to enjoy anal. Its also a psychological thing for her to know that women out there do love anal sex tremendously. And this forum helps too much.
My and my husband are mad on anal and he drills me all the time, and i love it;-) But a few days ago he brought some friends over so me and him were having anal we were all a bit drunk! And his friends joined in with the anal so i ended up having 2 cocks in my bum and the same time! That was fine it was what happened afterwards was what didnt hurt but i didnt know what it was, so once the cocks had left my bum i got like this red thing come out my bum, no it wasnt blood it was hard it was like my bum hole but turned inside out so it was on the outside and inthe air, and i coldnt remember the name of what had happened. Doany of you guys know?eh
I am pleasently amazed at the response you and your husband created with your anaal sex experience. In my situation, although my wife is a nurse, we do not have anal sex or anything close to it. I have had relationships in the past where anal sex went both ways: me to her and her to me. Now that there are strap on dildos it would be that much more fun. A word of caution to you and others: try using Kegel excersizes to keep your spincter muscles taught and firm so that feces do not leak. Over time the spincter muscle which makes up the anus inside and outside become loose. Kegel excersizes where one tightens those muscles in your pelvic region as if to stop urination and defication, hold it for 5-10 seconds and release. Repeat up to 100 times during the day. What is neat about the exercizes is that no one knows that you are doing them! By the way, after I told my current wife I enjoyed anal stimulation in front of a marriage counselor, I was referred to a sex counselor to determine if I was a closet homosexual. Any anal stimulation I do, I do on my own in the form of anal masturbation. But a statistic is that about 40% of heterosexual couples engage in some form of anal sex. That is almost half!
i feel so bad my parter loves anal but everytime he puts it in i just complain about how it hurts once its in it feels good its just putting it in that sucks so much..i wanna make this pleasurable for the both of us and i want to satisfy him are there any suggestions on how to make it more comfortable for the both of us? i really love i just hate the part of putting the head in it hurts so bad
I tried anal with my childs father a few times was ok he was very small, so the pain factor was not a issue and now with the man iam in a relationship now its was not so easy he is very very very large a "ruler" large so it was not a easy experiment the other night i went and bought a butt plug yesterday and gonna play a little on my own and try to get myself ready for him this time gonna use the correct lube not just my own wetness!
Hun, don't worry. Your anus needs conditioning likely to eliminate the pain. I douche regularly to relax my sphincter. My man is above average and I love it better than vaginal sex.
dear all
i just want to tell you that me too i love anal sex and my wife can not have big orgasm with out my 3 fingers in her ass or her dildo she enjoy orgams only with anal penetration or both in same time , its our hobby since she love anal , we do it almost always
i love it
i just want to tell you that me too i love anal sex and my wife can not have big orgasm with out my 3 fingers in her ass or her dildo she enjoy orgams only with anal penetration or both in same time , its our hobby since she love anal , we do it almost always
i love it
are you actually a man pretending to be a woman so the responses don't get mean?
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My BF an i first started butt play about 9 months ago. I didn't think about that sort of thing before he mentioned it, but i went along with it out of curiosity, and because he had already bought some toys, (some sort of stick with balls on it, and another thing like a lumpy dildo), but not that i actually wanted to. During normal sex he put them inside my butt. It felt a bit weird, sort of good, then i just didn't like it and we stopped.
A few months later we got really turned on and high and tried again. This time i just felt like i needed to poop. We tried a few more times over the months ahead. Sometimes there was a smell and poop which was just off-putting for both of us and we stopped straight away. Then we started to experiment with washing out my rectum with water, once using a store bought enema, but then found using the shower hose far more easy and less messy. I really didn't like doing this because at the time it seemed too weird and not normal and possibly damaging. But my BF really wanted me too so i did. (Now i know its the same method used when people pay to other people to clean their rectums professionally when they go for colon cleansing). Sometimes it just didn't seem to get clean though and other times the water came out clear.
He got a butt plug and all lubed up, started with the smaller toys one night, and graduated to the plug. It hurt and was big and couldn't get in all in. Then he put his penis in just a little. It felt good when he went a bit deeper and before long about half of his penis was inside me. It Hurt but made me really wet. I just wanted him in my Vagina so i could cum. He washed off and we finish sex the normal way. My butt bled and I got really smelly Vagina a few days after that...I had BV. i never had before, and we guessed it was from him still having bacteria on his penis after him washing. A short course of antibiotics and it was gone.
I didn't want to do it again, mainly because of all the effort required to get clean using the hose. (my BF insisted on this). Then there was this one time a few months later we tried it again and OMG it was AMAZING!!!
He started with a very sexy oil massage, then around my butt and deep into my anus. I fellated him like a porn star. We followed with regular sex and after i orgasmed the third time i moved his penis onto my anus and bounced back on it in doggy style. The head of his penis slipped in and after a few minutes of this he grabbed the silicon gel and lubed up. Slowly, deeper, faster, deeper, I was in EXTASY! i was letting out a moan-like-scream that went on and on and on. He thought i was in pain, and all i could spare to say was, "amazing...deeper" as i pushed back and forth feeling his penis move in and out, filling and emptying my butt. Then we both went primal... biting, pulling, kissing, squeezing, pushing, slapping thrusting... i wasn't orgasming ( i don't think), but the feeling was way more intense and kept going and going than any orgasm i had had... and i kept on moaning at the top of my lungs. My bf tried to cover my mouth so as not to wake the neighbors, i simply bit his hand. He had me in some sort of mixed martial arts choke hold as he ejaculated into my butt. IT FELT SO GOOD!! My body was tingly all over. After we finished i just laid there floating in a daze for about 15 minutes.
Needless to say...I'm a convert! Its something special just my BF and i have between us now that has brought us closer, and i love that. I hope that i can be as persuasive as he was to let me do it to him some day.
A few months later we got really turned on and high and tried again. This time i just felt like i needed to poop. We tried a few more times over the months ahead. Sometimes there was a smell and poop which was just off-putting for both of us and we stopped straight away. Then we started to experiment with washing out my rectum with water, once using a store bought enema, but then found using the shower hose far more easy and less messy. I really didn't like doing this because at the time it seemed too weird and not normal and possibly damaging. But my BF really wanted me too so i did. (Now i know its the same method used when people pay to other people to clean their rectums professionally when they go for colon cleansing). Sometimes it just didn't seem to get clean though and other times the water came out clear.
He got a butt plug and all lubed up, started with the smaller toys one night, and graduated to the plug. It hurt and was big and couldn't get in all in. Then he put his penis in just a little. It felt good when he went a bit deeper and before long about half of his penis was inside me. It Hurt but made me really wet. I just wanted him in my Vagina so i could cum. He washed off and we finish sex the normal way. My butt bled and I got really smelly Vagina a few days after that...I had BV. i never had before, and we guessed it was from him still having bacteria on his penis after him washing. A short course of antibiotics and it was gone.
I didn't want to do it again, mainly because of all the effort required to get clean using the hose. (my BF insisted on this). Then there was this one time a few months later we tried it again and OMG it was AMAZING!!!
He started with a very sexy oil massage, then around my butt and deep into my anus. I fellated him like a porn star. We followed with regular sex and after i orgasmed the third time i moved his penis onto my anus and bounced back on it in doggy style. The head of his penis slipped in and after a few minutes of this he grabbed the silicon gel and lubed up. Slowly, deeper, faster, deeper, I was in EXTASY! i was letting out a moan-like-scream that went on and on and on. He thought i was in pain, and all i could spare to say was, "amazing...deeper" as i pushed back and forth feeling his penis move in and out, filling and emptying my butt. Then we both went primal... biting, pulling, kissing, squeezing, pushing, slapping thrusting... i wasn't orgasming ( i don't think), but the feeling was way more intense and kept going and going than any orgasm i had had... and i kept on moaning at the top of my lungs. My bf tried to cover my mouth so as not to wake the neighbors, i simply bit his hand. He had me in some sort of mixed martial arts choke hold as he ejaculated into my butt. IT FELT SO GOOD!! My body was tingly all over. After we finished i just laid there floating in a daze for about 15 minutes.
Needless to say...I'm a convert! Its something special just my BF and i have between us now that has brought us closer, and i love that. I hope that i can be as persuasive as he was to let me do it to him some day.