Too much anal sex?

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You should try to stick your tongue in his butt a little and see how he gets, then keep going at it until it goes all in. If he keeps liking, push your tongue as deep as you can. I guarantee he'll beg for more.
It happened to me and I wanted an improvised dildo that same time!!! Oh, I forgot to say that we had a cup of wine each of us, so... I was a little relaxed.

It is absolutely safe as long as you don't try to use other parts of your body or too big toys for penetration. Just avoid douching too much (if you are doing it) use lube and youll be fine. I'm writig a blog, where I'm trying to answer all of the possible questions about anal sex, try reading it ***edited by moderator*** web addresses not allowed and give me suggestions or questions if you want.

Use lubricants like gentle soap or peanut oil. It will moisture up your rectum and you will feel no pain at all.But i suggest that you first tell your BF that he uses fingers to start. First 1 finger then after 2 then 3 then tell him to use his penis gently.Rough anal sex will only cause you pain.By using lube you'll have super orgasms and your muscle will be tight forever. And when his is inside you help his penis with your muscle by making it(rectum)wider , stretch your legs , your butt must be in higher position and head touching the floor or bed whatever. this way it will be more fun. trust me anal sex is far satisfying than vaginal sex.And remember that remove all feces and waste before the event take place cuz if he insist to cum right in your mouth after Anal sex or he wants to give you a head than you won't have problem with your own feces.

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THE FIRST TIME I TRIED IT HURTED BUT I REALLY WANNA TRY AGAIN SO I CAN PLEASE MY MAN

You said you had the most incredible orgasm. So exactly what positions are best to actually have an orgasm during anal intercourse. Last night was my first time and it wasn't as bad as I thought it would since my bf has a rather thick and long penis. But while we were on it I enjoyed the feeling its totally dif but I don't think I would b able to come...

no dnt wory miss nthg will happns /;;;;; enjoy as much as u can beacuse i also want to do bt i m unmarried i love sex by knwing i m saying u::

My GF had her biggest cum with a 10 inch lumpy rubber dildo going in and out of her ass, at a farily fast speed, for a few min.  We were in a hotel in a late afternoon and she yelled like crazy due to the intense feelings.  She collapsed afterwards and I let her rest a little, then used the dildo again.  The second time was even bigger ....

What is the right amount of lube to use?  My answer is: whatever you think is enough x 3

After about 6 months, she asked me not to use lube.  She likes it a bit rough and said my saliva is quite enough.  So I licked her ass and put my saliva in, then finger it.  I can feel her stuff inside but I really don't mind.  I also put my tonge in to taste it a bit.  Quite often, I suck my finger in front of her after I put it inside her ass.

I know she is decease free and a bit of dirt won't border me.  On a hot day after some gardening I would tell her to bend over and my tonge go straight to her ass.  You may think I am a dirty man but that is how much I am crazy about her ass.

We don't have a standard procedure.  We may start with oral, and she finished me that way.  At times she may swallow, or she may not, depends on her mood.  Sometimes we start with varginal and finished it that way too.  We have also started with oral, then varginal, then anal, and back to oral (ATM - ass to mouth) and then swallow.  If I cum inside her, varginal or anal, she would try to keep it inside her.

Once on a hot day we finished in anal, rested a bit and went out for dinner.  She put on a loose one piece with no bra nor panty.  As we walked from the parking lot to the restaurant, she whispered to me that she was dripping.  As we got to the door of the restaurant, I could see my cum ran down the back of her leg.  We didn't care and continue our dinner.  As we finished, it was dark so she gave me a bj in the car and had my cum as dessert.  As I fingerd her ass, I can feel my cum.

We never border cleaning her ass beforehand.  We figured that it is part of the act.  Once I got my finger dirty after I put it inside her, and accidentally touched and left the dirt on her face.  She smelt and asked so I kissed and licked it off her face immediately.  There was no big deal to me.

I let her finger me too and she likes that.  Often she gave me oral and finger me at the same time, and her finger stayed until I cum, then she pulled out very slowly.  A few time she licked her finger after it had been inside me.

I don't mind tasting her ass, and she doesn't mind tasting mine.  One thing that I never did was to taste my own, and she never taste hers neither.

You may think we are dirty, but this is our sex life.

 

I'm happy to read all this info & know that we (my husband & I) aren't the only ones that are this way too. I was NEVER this way w/ anyone else, it hurt too much & no one took the time/patience to do it right (lubrication is KEY)...being in the mood, starting slow & communication w/ your partner. My question has always been (and now it's been answered)...will I loose control of my bowels? Will I get hemorrhoids? I just started to worry. I do have the issue that after we have it, I can't do it again for 48 hrs., the ejaculation makes me have to use the bathroom more & I can't. I will say this, the type of orgasm I get from anal is extremely different & stronger than if we had vaginal or oral. I still enjoy all of the above & it usually starts w/ oral, then vaginal finishes to anal. I would NEVER allow him to put it back into my vagina after its been in my back door. Just like I wouldn't give him oral either. Just gross IMHO...they call it "ATM"... Nasty when I think of it, but what ever floats your boats. It's a sanitary thing.
My biggest advice to any "guy" out there who wants to try this, communication is very important. Make sure your partner wants to really do this, lubrication is extremely key, you have to buy it, natural "spit" won't be enough....sorry. And last...go slow & if she says stop, stop! If she says slow down or wait, do just that...don't force because you'll end up hurting them and they will have a horrible experience, never want to do it again & might have an anal tear, causing some bleeding. Which hurts....bad! Sometimes it takes a couple of times to get it to work. It took my husband & I about 2 years before I could trust & really be calm with the experience to enjoy it. Let me say that it was worth the wait. I love it. Recommend it, so if it doesn't work the first few times & they want to take a break from it (not talk about it, not try it etc.) then please respect that. If you are patient, respectful, you will be a happy camper when it finally does work.
Another recommendation is while you're performing oral on them, a little anal finger play is a good way to help things along. Listening to your partner again, if they say "no" or "not now"...it could mean they're not feeling well down in that area or they just don't want too. Either way, again, it's communication & an experience. Good luck & enjoy!

Wow! you are lucky. U can do sex (anal or vaginal) 5 - 7 times a week! I can do it more than two times. Also, I very mostly ejeculate very soon, just in seconds. Do you have any solution for this?

Sorry for inconvenience, I mean I can't do sex more than two times. Actually I have been doing masterbation since I was 14 year for a period of 17 years.

Ok... I want to try anal sex but not sure how to bring up the subject to hubby! Was already thinking about it b efore having a few "female" problems and have been really leaning towards trying this now that I have some issues. Hoping those will be fixed soon! Says he feels guilty that I'm willing to give him head and he can't give back! Soooo, how can I suggest anal and not have him FREAK out! Worried he might be too "vanilla" to try!

I'm a lesbian, and my girlfriend and I have anal sex. Well kind of. She gives it to me and I love it. When I try to give it to her though she doesn't let me. Is there something I could do to change that?

Convince her you really want to make her feel the love you feel when she does it to you. XD

Tell her how bad it makes you feel that you can't give back.

 

When hubby & I were sexually active, that was our favorite way. My orgasms were way over the top, for him also. He seem to get more excited doing anal sex than other way. I miss that so much w/him as he doesn't want relations now.