Part 1
Everyone who reads you need to make your sel intereted what I have to say because it's so true and importante. I've a issue with masterbation since I was about 2 and I haveto say in a certain this is normal. This si a bit persoonal but just to help all of you I'l say I did masterbate since then yea, but it was on my stomach once I would be in bed I would press against my penis with just ym hands or something else like my pillow or blankets. So think, I didn't know what it was I was doing but I felt so good doing it, and once it got to the end I would feel (forget the word), and it would shake a few time and I would feel drained out from there (ejacualtion). I masterbated every so often as much as 6-1 times a week, but it got more closer to 7 as I got to my teenage years, untill then the effects of mastebation could easily be seen espcially when I did it more than 3-4 times a week, I felt sluggish, tired too often, I lacked much social skills or need of it, and I really could't stop doing it. It was like something I had to do once my testicles where ready, it felt more like a an adiction and actually it is but I'll get to that later. Just before I go on though I'd like to announce I'm from a Chrsitian faith, but don't let that converse your mind in the wrong way. I promote truth and say exactly what happens/ed to help anyone who reads this. Now in my teenage years I really was getting annoyed and tired of this addiction (not really just an addiction, say more later) but it got to that point, and I really tried to not do it and I would feel bad after doing it thinking I deserved the results. I even asked God to forgive me everytime after, but He understood it wasn't all my fault, I felt much rejection, and hurt and pain in myself so this was my let out of my everyday struggles and pain (emptyness). Then I only knew God my Jesus as a far away person, not someone I thought I could even talk with (yikes, that's such a lie), but that's then. Masterbation would only feel good for a time being, but after I ejaculated it was over, the good feeling and the fun. I tell the truth it was a good feeling, and God made it that way and fun too, hehe. But it only added to my stress level after that and made it harder for me to concentrate and learn at school, but I kno God was with me and he helped me on. But not ignoring the fact that it did desocialize me, made me feel sick in different ways, it brought sick/bad thoughts to mind (Satan too). It did other various hurts to me but what I sadis enough to tell you that it does hurt you, Masterbation to a good extent does hurt you, DO NOT BELIEVE EVERYTHING THE SOURCES SAY OUT THERE BECAUSE ALL sources are not true nor good. They just want yo to BUY Their Products, wrong it's lies, so many off them!!So let me tell I didn't feel like there was a way out from this issue and it made me feel bad everytime I did it (A Sin when done too and hurts wither you or someone else), the reson I bracket here is to emphasize that if you're Christian and you think that it's alwaysyou sinning when you masterbate and you're bad well it's not compltely true, especially if your over ther age of 21 or so, and younger mattering on your situationS in life. But above all it does leave you with some less energy when you do it espeically more than once a day!Now some things I'd liketo clarify you'd asking yourself, first with all I'm Christian but I'm not against "the meaning of being sexual and forming a personnal good culture of your own" I would even say some girlsih exclaimations would be good for your every way is fine too, think , Jesus being God has both all the female and male characteristics, like hello He's a Male but he did create both sexes off of His Fullness!! SO saying that I'm not a hardcore male here, but I alwys try to kee my boyhood (maleness) and get some male influence from somethings. Also I'd have to say you should feel bd when you masterbate, everyone and yes everyone does it sometimes, wether 10x/year or 10x/week !, but it's about keeping a good balance. Jesus isn't going to punish and make you masterbate if you're really tired, or hurt someone else or did something elsewrong, He's alwys here to help you!!and it's always you're drive to Masterbate when you're FULL OF ENERGY, WHY not keep that energy that night and read something good, or excersise or watch something good on t.v or DVD/VHS, call a friend/relative, hey read the Bible, talk to God (I do!!), um play a video game, eat soemthing nutritous etc...Or just help someone out, a charity, a homeles shelter, a friend, a family member, loved one etc...All right there's some things you can do instead sitting down and doing that other fun and enjoyale thing. Also to those who say it is a sin, no it's NOT a sin aslong as it doesn't allow you to hurt someelse or God ways (doing good, rightfull actions, time wth him, reading scirptures), after the point when you're hurting your life and effecting others or the good effect you can have on others then it's a Sin. I have to say that once I became a born again Christian in early April 2004, yeay 3 yr anniversary, lol, this year! (As in I asked Jesus to come into my life "some say heart" and I asked Him to forgive me of all my sins I felt His SPIRIT come into me), it was such a relaxing a exuberante and unemptying feeling, it was His love for me and this was just teh beggining I've changed alot since then, and here I stll do masterbate at times but think, I don't have a girl friend and never had one yet and sometimes I really do want one ,so that causes some inner pressure to masterbate, because once you have a girl friend it must another special way of love which I've never felt. So this issue is on adding to the temptation. Also I don't feel a right way of love from my parents and there are some discriminations and many other issues which I wish could change about our relationships, and other relationships are lacking and I also have other social issues and many other issues inner and conventionally outer issues which add to the extravisual aspects of masterbating and have a calming on my nerves and letting out my inner stresses. It does help people to a certain extent, and only if you have too much energy in yourself and can't sleep, or/and your testicles are ehem full. Apart from that don't do it, it only degrades your energy and eventually your life style and living standards. Now I've got a personnal way of coming over this masterbating issue read my next posting, I'll have a drawn up reasonable way of over coming it's temptations and how to allow yourself not to do it too much. I'm not ure if there's a way to stop because I have TRIED SO hard and it doesn't allow yout to, now what that it is, it could be many things for each person. But to have it controlled would be a great deal for some (next posting). Now one more aspect of this issue I'd like to point out is the spiritual aspect of masterbating. God for one thing created everything as you can SEE, physically, and spiritually aswell. This world though has another spiritual character His name is Satan and ofcoarse amny demons (fallen angels). God's Spirit (The Holy Spirit) is good, but Satan's is bad (evil). He will temp you to commit masterbation just to ruin and devulge (suck it into a mess) byt tempting you and putting evil and tempting thoughts and likely rasing the physical temptation of you private orgrans so you would go ahead and masterbate. It's so bad Satan and his demons have done alot of damage already, so don't allow his extra temptation to overcome you (next posting). But Jesus can help, and will only help if you allow and ask Him to, or else you'll have to deal with on your own and I know it's very hard to do that by youself!!! Now here's the flinch about all this part (spiritual part), if you feel emptyiness and you'd like to come out of it, then ask Jesus into your life, He really is God or else I wouldn't be able to write all this down (He's been helping me all the way). He will fill in yourself that gap which is all your emptyness, no matter how much, where it's from, why's, and it'll be easier to cope without masterbating as much as you used to. So if you want to change this masterbating problem + alot of everything else here's how to ask Jesus into your life,,,open your mind and your heart and your soul and speak to God (Jesus) and ask Him "Lord I have tried on my own and I've failed, I've done much good but also much wrong, and I really need your help in this life I want to be free, set free from all my grievancess, my issues and my tempatations, and I ask you to forgive me of all my sins from since I was young untill now and ask you into my life. And may your Holy Spirit come and infill me now and help me through out my life, thank you Jesus alot, Amen!!". Once you pray this you've been saved (you'll never die ever!) and you've just began a relationship with the God of the Heavens and the UNiverse. Don't stop there friends, get a Bible from soemwhere and read some of it every day 1-2 /day good enough + ask the Lord to guide you in your readings and how much you read "I'd say 1-1,1/2 chapters is good enough". Keep your relationship with Him, talk to him about everything and listen to Him quietly and Learn". He will really change your life in every way!!
and about penis growth, it probably does??research it,,,lol
SHUT DA HELL UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
size is not important!!! half of the men out there lack in self confidence because they think there stuff is too small. . and women are not the greatest thing in the world. if you cheat she leaves you laying on the ground homeless like a bum and she will not stop yelling and screaming at you and if she cheats she acts like it was no biggy and trys to act like she didnt mean it, either way, she can file for a divorce and sell all of your prized possetions and get half of what you worked for in life . so think about it, does size matter or does finding the right woman matter?
from the above, i have concluded that i will never get married and i will definately wrap before i tap!
well i think it does because any type of sexualactivity does like im 14 and i masterbate and i have a 11in penis and yes ii have already had sex