I have that same exact problem. It started when I was like 7-10 years I can't really remember but it it started when one night I found out what porn was for the first time at the time I didn't know it was wrong because my parents never talked to me about any kind of sexual things and I was a kid that mimicked mostly everything I saw on TV so I was mimicking porn I even did it with my cousins and afterwards I felt bad and every since that happened I can't think about my nipples or anyone else's I hate for them to rub against anything even my bra I wear a tight sports over my reg bras and especially if their touched it pisses me of even more. I wish my parents would've told me things like that weren't right.
i have this same problem ..but with me besides getting depressed I get severe back pains and stomach pains the only way i can describe it is as if im having an anxiety attack i wish i could get over this because I use to relly be into it as foreplay..
I agree that most are probably not in the same boat as you, but I am so happy for you :)
I hate being touched on the boobs like for 5 seconds it feels good then afterwords I feels all weird and make my bf move his hands
My wife has always seemed to be comfortable undressing in front of me, and letting me touch her breasts and nipples. But in the last year or so, she often changes clothes in the bathroom with the door closed, and avoids letting me see or touch her breasts. I have brought it up a couple of times, but she just gets angry and says it's my imagination. I've also noticed a change in the appearance of her nipples (on the rare occasions I get to see them). They used to almost always be soft and nearly flat, except when they were stimulated by arousal, cold, or being touched. Now they are almost always erect, and rarely ever soft. This physical change seems to correspond to her reluctance to have them looked at or touched.
I have large breasts and slightly puffy nipples with areolas three and a half inches across. Having the nipples touched and sucked on gives me a warm feeling of wanting to have my husband's penis inside my vagina. My nipples are soft usually but when I come they grow all of a sudden.
It sucks but I think we all just like different things. For me, my breasts were touched without my consent before I even knew boys liked them. It surely wasn't molestation, but it really affected me. My breasts were the last thing I was comfortable letting my boyfriend see. Growing up as a young woman trying to keep control of your own body is for sure difficult. I never even liked being hugged as a child and was always reprimanded for it.
Also, does anyone by any chance have flat or inverted nipples? I have slightly flat ones and I'm cutious if it has any correlation.
Does it hurt or is it just a psychological thing do you think? i am sure your bf would love if you were able to express yourself through letting him be aroused by touching you. have you ever tried touching them with him? oil? corn starch is also amazing. be open to teach him what does feel good with your breasts. experiment and have some fun. like Dr Ruth says "do you use ice cubes"? she is a hoot. i'm here to tell you that breasts are such a turn on for guys that he will do just about anything for you!!
rockford files
This is how i feel....I just hate it
Hey man. Lay off. This isn't an opinion piece dragout. These ladies don't need permission to feel this way. Don't preach about something you know nothing about.
I can not stand my nipples to b touched, rubbed by accident, nothing! & yes i have 4 kids & i could not breast feed any of
them.
them.
Again, I ask, do you find any pleasure if you caress yourself? maybe not your nipples but your breast in general? do you have inverted nipples by chance? was breast feeding just painful? I personally think breast feeding ruined my wife from enjoying my caress as a sexual means of foreplay..... Rockford Files
I feel sick too!
Awesome reply! Thanks
Wow. I feel bad for you women, and the men in your lives. My GF thinks it's the best feeling in the world (gets her real wet and in the mood). I wouldn't want to date someone who hated being touched.