don't like nipples to be touched

Guest over a year ago

Same here. I hate it so much. It doesn't hurt but I hate them being touched or stimulated it's just not comfortable. No answers out there so far?

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Guest over a year ago

I'm also the same. I HATE it. I have difficulties touching them myself. It makes my skin crawl even thinking about it. I'm grossing myself out even writing about this.

You are not alone. I have no idea why this - I've never suffered any kind of abuse. I wasn't even aware I had an issue before I Met my first serious partner. I guess it could perhaps be a form of a very niche OCD?

I get annoyed that when I google this I just see a bunch of men writing there opinions on similar forums. I want you to know that it is your body, and whoever you are with should learn to respect it - even if they don't understand.

I guess it's a good job my husband is an ass man. :)

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Guest over a year ago

I don't know how things have been going, whether you have children now or not but I am here to say it is different. I cant stand my nipples to be touched but when I had my daughter I didn't even think about it. Your breast feel different in a way. Like non sexual at all!!!! It sounds so stupid, but because your breast will fill up with so much milk the pressure is crazy and it helps taking the pain away. After I quit breastfeeding I couldn't stand them to be touched again lol Also there are so many products like the nipple guard! Good luck! I was nervous before breastfeeding too, and then it didn't even occur to me that my nipples were being touched when I breastfed. You got this!!!

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Guest over a year ago

I have this feeling too it's so hard to explain honestly sometimes having my nipples touched just makes me feel sad and upset. I know it doesn't come from abuse or anything but it just makes me feel so gross and just really really sad it's weird

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Guest over a year ago

Hi.just sounds to me like she was experiencing post natal depression?hope things are better now!

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Guest over a year ago

Wow yes I do suffer from a fear of throwing up.. Did you find a connection to this and the nipples thing?

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Guest over a year ago

I hate my nipples being touched I get so fricken mad when that happens

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Guest over a year ago

Without meaning to, my husband actually hurts my nipples when he touches them. He becomes angry and disinterested in me when I complain. Now I don't complain, but his says I make ugly faces and tighten my eyes shut. He wants he to go to therapy. I am 69 and just wish we could put this behind us.

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freshman noise over a year ago

Your husband should be more considerate how would he like it if you kept doing something to him if didn't like and found painful?
Why should you go to therapy for it when it will do nothing what so ever if you have sensitive nipples, her the one who needs to go to therapy to get over his problem of blaming you.

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Guest over a year ago

sooo happy that I'm not your wife, I'm sorry for her.

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Guest over a year ago

I could cry right now. I'm so glad I found this thread. I've been having this issue since as long as I can remember.

Ecen just sitting here I can't not feel like there's cold air blowing on my nipples. I can feel them every second of every day. It has completely ruined my life. I can't even sleep because of it, as every movement feels so horrible. If they get touched by anything, even just my bra, I can feel it for hours. Not wearing a bra is pure torture. Just thinking about them brings out the sensation.

The only way I can even go 5 minutes without being irritated, angry and annoyed is by folding them in my bra in such a way that they are pressed into the metal support. (weirdly.) I'm already using padded bra's. (Passionata).

The only way i can sleep is by folding them in to my bra AND wearing two padded sports tops on top of it. Not right now though, I've been sitting here with this for 4 hours now.

I have seriously considered just getting surgery and having them remove my breasts altogether so I can actually have a life.

I'm 25 and asexual. I've never had any form of sexual desire whatsoever. Which, O suppose, is an advantage. I grew up in a loving family, never had a 'bad experience' or anything.

The cold definitely makes it worse. WAY worse.

I do have to say that being unemployed (and all the worry that comes with it) have made it worse. Whether that is because I have nothing to distract me or because of the worry, I can't say.

So glad to find out that I'm not alone with this. I thought there was something wrong with me.

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Guest over a year ago

Me toooooooo! Ew

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Guest over a year ago

I've been dealing with this issue for s few years, too. There is no chance this was due to a case of childhood abuse of any sort, but I do vaguely remember around the time that it began. Like some other posters, I had my first son in 2012 and breastfeeding was incredibly painful. I dreaded it, I feared my sons cry because I knew he wanted to feed and it was just never an enjoyable experience. After that, my sons father had very little to no respect for my body and the healing process it needed to go through after giving birth. He treated my body as if it were his and he could do whatever he wanted with it, and I would let him, because if I didn't, his feelings would be hurt and he would feel rejected. Anyway, I've since left that toxic dump of a relationship, but not without scars. I used to love having my breasts played with, but my current boyfriend has to deal with the disgust I feel when he touches them all because my sons father was a douche. So, I know my issues are because of psychological trauma (as well as physical trauma from breastfeeding). I've found what helps is telling my boyfriend not to just "dive right in". Our breasts are very sensitive and touching them without a warm up of some kind is too over stimulating. Touching the neck, shoulders, chest or ribs for a few minutes is enough to prepare my mind for what's about to occur, and it relaxes my body and allows me to enjoy breast play more. I hope this helps some of you. Maybe some of us have over sensitivity in our nipples and that overstimulation, no matter how "warmed up" we try to become, is just too much for our brain to handle. Again, I just hope this helps.

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Guest over a year ago

I feel the same, except they can be touched right after my menstrual cycle, for about a week. He thinks I'm disgusted with him. I even have tougher it out before totally digested. Then felt violation. It was my fault for not explaining. Now he thinks I'm cheating. He ha absolutely no understanding. I feel bad but, if I kept on letting him think it was OK I probably just been digested with him. He is not the problem. Please any ideas.

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Guest over a year ago

Well thanks for rubbing it in... What the hell are you doing here any way? To make these women feel worse for how they feel?! I have a similar issue. I have brest feed 4 kids and my Brests hang off my shoulders like rotten bananas peels. Whet is even worse is I am small framed and very athletic and my brests hang lower then my Pectoralis major. It looks like I have a lot of extra skin hanging off my inshape pecks. If only they would just go away after they were done feeding babys like "other mammals" then things might be better. So letting anyone touch them is out of the question. But I am so glade you can make your lover orgasem by sucking on her nipples too long. Why don't you go find a support group of people in wheelchairs and tell them how much you love to run....

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